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Date: November 5, 2022
So this is where, like most couples now, nobody cares to establish boundaries. Not to criticize you, but it's becoming a theme from many of these posts in this subreddit that couples don't think to ask one another what is ok. Stop being afraid to talk, doesn't matter if it's just random, ask one another about sex stuff or sexual stuff.
Since this is fresh, now is the time you two need to sit and discuss what your relationship boundaries are. Obviously, she now is aware posting pics of her ass or boobs are not acceptable. People also need to stop worrying about, “telling someone what they can and cannot do.” Its a relationship and being in a relationship you are entitled to letting your partner know what is and isn't comfortable with you. It's not controlling them, it's not telling them what to do. If they have any respect or courtesy for you, they'll respect it. At the very least, it leads to a discussion for either a compromise or you find out you're not compatible.
But talk now about boundaries
Tell him. Get treated. Then leave. I was in a similar position (not a long term relationship like you) and I contracted a STD from him. He was the only one I was sleeping with and he lied to me. It could’ve been dormant but he also couldn’t provide lab work even though he said he got tested. If a man puts my health on the line, I’m out. If he lies about ANYTHING, I’m out. I hope you leave too. 2 years isn’t too long but i do empathize with you. Give it time, you’ll see what we are all saying. If you get herpes, it’s manageable. Protect YOU first always.
Thank you so much. Yes, it's the hiding of it that is freaking me out.
This is a karma farm account, they post something new every few minutes and switch ages and genders.
Stop misusing the word “literally” it’s off putting.
In your eyes it might be, but when people have financial struggles it is a blessing to have somewhere to live as you save for something of your own. Try not to be so judgmental
This!!
thank you so much for saying that.
i’m really ready to move on from this situation. i’m so tired of feeling like everything i say, and every feeling i feel is problematic and makes me an inherently bad person. it’s made me entirely question my own reality time and time again and this isn’t good for me, or for them.
During our dates. No really.
She's emotionally manipulating you. Huge red flag and stage 4 clinger behavior
I agree.
Of course she’s going to act like she’s appalled and didn’t know anything about it because she probably wants to keep the lie going. I’m shocked that OP didn’t question why these photos were taken in their bathroom and why he didn’t know anything about them.
I guess the overwhelming emotions that this caused could have clouded his judgment, but I definitely think she’s holding onto some very sinister secrets.
I say call them out! The comment above me is absolutely ridiculous. Emptying out your entire backpack just so that you can carry around some water bottles? If that’s the case then why don’t they empty out their entire backpack so that they can carry some water bottles? Don’t listen to the person above me, they make no sense.
Don't try and persuade him to do anything. He's made his stance on this clear. I also recommend that you don't engage in sex that you don't want. Sexually y'all are incompatible, it happens.
I have read both posts from op. And both of those are shouting thousands for her character.
Talk to whoever owns or manages the gym. Either they’re normal and they won’t tolerate this behavior, or they’re useless and do nothing in which case it’s time to find another gym. Either way this can’t continue.
I really love the guy and want to spend my life with him
That's just not going to happen. Live and learn.
Okay so you're basically telling this woman to change everything about her natural appearance and to join some group of homogeneous Instagram phonies? Cluster B type issues, no doubt….
She’s fighting to not tell you the truth. You know the message is deleted and she is trying to make you feel crazy
permanent body modifications
Vasectomies are reversible up to 20 years after the procedure.
Stop spreading misinformation.
Step 1: Check your toxicity. You’re not her savior, and you’re barely even dating. It’s great that you want to help her, but you can’t force it on her. You can offer, but by no means should you be like everyone else in her life and just expect her to acquiesce.
You have described someone who you see as frequently being taken advantage of by others. Just because you are trying to help her, doesn’t mean you’re not doing the same thing as everyone else. Your goals may be benevolent, but it can result it the same effect.
While I will agree that work-life balance is imperative to a healthy existence, you’re both 23, and in her case, her schedule is temporary as she works to achieve her goals.
Maybe try to master phrases like “that must be really hard for you” and “I can see how difficult this is for you”. If you've chosen to date someone who likes to complain but takes any hint of striving for a solution as a challenge to their righteous misery all you can really do is empathize. She doesn't want you to understand. She doesn't want you to suggest ways she could resolve her problems. She wants you to tell her that her issues are unique and special and that it's unfair she has to face these problems.
I meant to say bf and it autocorrected to husband I didn’t know my bad
I’m autistic and I masked my whole life with my family since they punished me for my sensory issues and struggles when I was a kid. And after some time they didn’t see me struggling or being burn out because I was hiding it from them.
Not saying this is the cause for him or that is justified. But it could be a reason, that she is the only person he trusts to stop masking around her.
Yeah I think this could be part of it.