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Sorry, it's been very confusing for me as well. They are not divorcing but always threaten each other with it. I understand it's none of my concern who she talk to, but it has interfered with me since she hasn't been faithful to my father and has pulled me into keeping it a secret.
They are still together. My issue is my mother has put me in a situation where I need to keep her secrets of inappropriately speaking to other men coworkers and being in love with either someone else or the idea.
You already left just stay gone and send divorce papers. He doesn't want custody but call his bluff and tell him to come pick her up for a 50/50 time split. He wont be able to manage and you'll have all the proof you need in a custody battle.
Your GF letting someone else influence your relationship and completely changing her opinion of you reminds me of that Reddit story about the girl that killed her kids
I’m going to agree with everyone else here. She has no recollection of this. I also think that she’s an alcoholic, but that’s besides the point. I think that your husband took advance of your sister. I doubt that she was able to consent
Exactly. This is a leave-and-learn situation. She needs to preserve herself and in the future be included on joint finances.
He needs to learn that instant gratification in no way contributes positively to a marriage. He needs to learn the hard way for him to actually grasp his mistakes. Otherwise, he won't change.
OP, I hope you get far away from him and are kind to yourself whilst healing. Sorry, dear.
Yep. And you might loop him in on a few sessions too. I did this before I got married to a man with kids. It was a real help. I am child free by choice but I had some of those jealous feelings too. And I wasn’t sure what role I wanted to play but there’s so much societal pressure to be “mommy 2.0”.
Just take things slowly and don’t turn yourself inside out or upside down trying to make it work if it isn’t. Life is too short to be miserable.
My (ex) husband was the first man I dated who had kids. I was 30 when I met him. I felt such tremendous pressure to step into a parent role. His coparenting was shit with his ex, she was a nut, and we had the kids most of the time but he expected me to do most of the parenting. He was also very permissive with his kids.
Fast forward to 5 years ago post divorce and I met a man with a child who has his shit together. It’s still a PITA dealing with his ex but he handles all of it. Very rarely am I on the hook to do anything but be “dad’s girlfriend and a fun auntie type” to his kiddo. And just because kiddo is with us doesn’t mean we don’t do fun things alone. We get a sitter and go to dinner or whatever. It works for us.
So much depends on how he plans to parent and coparent. Just keep your eyes wide open and take it slowly.
Yes he will. He clearly did and the fact that you REFUSE to understand why makes it clear you're bad at romantic relationships. Good luck with the next one, I hope you manage to learn something.
I’d wondering this too. A lot of art is nude and suggestive. Not a lot of art is outrightly sexual, like masturbation or actual acts. I think some clarification would be helpful.
Disagree, sometimes it takes almost losing someone to shake someone to their senses and realise how they have been treating someone. Most of my friends are in 10-15 year + relationships now. Positive changes often happen in relationships where you go through a bad patch and then realise you have been treating your other half unfairly and work hard to make changes.
I’m not saying this will be the case here, but OP is asking if other relationships come back from things like this. And the answer is yes they sometimes do. It could be a big wake up call. Other times people engage in the same patterns of behaviours over and over and never change. It’s really dependent on the person and their motivations.
Sorry, it's been very confusing for me as well. They are not divorcing but always threaten each other with it. I understand it's none of my concern who she talk to, but it has interfered with me since she hasn't been faithful to my father and has pulled me into keeping it a secret.
They are still together. My issue is my mother has put me in a situation where I need to keep her secrets of inappropriately speaking to other men coworkers and being in love with either someone else or the idea.
Definitely, man hating
Definitely, man hating
Many times! If he feels the same maybe it’s time for another try?
True. I had an ex who wanted monogamy gf bf relationship without being gf bf for years.
You already left just stay gone and send divorce papers. He doesn't want custody but call his bluff and tell him to come pick her up for a 50/50 time split. He wont be able to manage and you'll have all the proof you need in a custody battle.
Thank you. Good luck to you. 🙂
Illegal=bad, not good, punishable, retaliated against in this case. It doesn’t mean literally illegal.
It’s only two of you. If she wasn’t unconscious and insisting you continue then she’s the only one to blame (and will go to hell maybe?)
Your GF letting someone else influence your relationship and completely changing her opinion of you reminds me of that Reddit story about the girl that killed her kids
I’m going to agree with everyone else here. She has no recollection of this. I also think that she’s an alcoholic, but that’s besides the point. I think that your husband took advance of your sister. I doubt that she was able to consent
I wonder if it was one family member who told her about the note and then the immediate family chose not to share it?
Exactly. This is a leave-and-learn situation. She needs to preserve herself and in the future be included on joint finances.
He needs to learn that instant gratification in no way contributes positively to a marriage. He needs to learn the hard way for him to actually grasp his mistakes. Otherwise, he won't change.
OP, I hope you get far away from him and are kind to yourself whilst healing. Sorry, dear.
Yep. And you might loop him in on a few sessions too. I did this before I got married to a man with kids. It was a real help. I am child free by choice but I had some of those jealous feelings too. And I wasn’t sure what role I wanted to play but there’s so much societal pressure to be “mommy 2.0”.
Just take things slowly and don’t turn yourself inside out or upside down trying to make it work if it isn’t. Life is too short to be miserable.
My (ex) husband was the first man I dated who had kids. I was 30 when I met him. I felt such tremendous pressure to step into a parent role. His coparenting was shit with his ex, she was a nut, and we had the kids most of the time but he expected me to do most of the parenting. He was also very permissive with his kids.
Fast forward to 5 years ago post divorce and I met a man with a child who has his shit together. It’s still a PITA dealing with his ex but he handles all of it. Very rarely am I on the hook to do anything but be “dad’s girlfriend and a fun auntie type” to his kiddo. And just because kiddo is with us doesn’t mean we don’t do fun things alone. We get a sitter and go to dinner or whatever. It works for us.
So much depends on how he plans to parent and coparent. Just keep your eyes wide open and take it slowly.
Yes he will. He clearly did and the fact that you REFUSE to understand why makes it clear you're bad at romantic relationships. Good luck with the next one, I hope you manage to learn something.
Exactly, or just go to the ethical non-monogamy community because they were already practicing that together.
I’d wondering this too. A lot of art is nude and suggestive. Not a lot of art is outrightly sexual, like masturbation or actual acts. I think some clarification would be helpful.
It is never the victim's fault for being abused. Ever. Victim blaming does not help them gather the strength to leave.
Disagree, sometimes it takes almost losing someone to shake someone to their senses and realise how they have been treating someone. Most of my friends are in 10-15 year + relationships now. Positive changes often happen in relationships where you go through a bad patch and then realise you have been treating your other half unfairly and work hard to make changes.
I’m not saying this will be the case here, but OP is asking if other relationships come back from things like this. And the answer is yes they sometimes do. It could be a big wake up call. Other times people engage in the same patterns of behaviours over and over and never change. It’s really dependent on the person and their motivations.
Yeah I agree total BS. And she already tried to blame shift so gaslighting is next…