Life is all about learning and changing and doing your best. They might be impressed that you realized you were making mistakes and you treasure their daughter and you are working hard at treating her right?
I think physical attraction is important. I think you could ask if he could shave and see what you think. But I think time will make you more attracted to him
OP – how about renting your sister a room in a house? That is typically the cheapest option. A room in a house is typically less than half the rent of a small inexpensive apartment.
Of course it’s possible not to do it. You don’t swear at every asshole I’m the street that upsets you. Just save it for the person that’s doing the most for you in life. And yes it’s abusive, and yes she’s perfectly entitled to leave over ungrateful and aggressive behaviour.
The group is shitty and not necessary by virtue of the fact that it has zero quality control. And that woman was a lunatic. Easy call, you made the right decision.
Why would he make any effort to manage it when you constantly play into it? You delete whomever he asks, you let him see your messages, you beg him to believe you, and on and on and on. He gets the equivalent if a high from this, and you are his dealer, only it's YOU who will end up destroyed.
It depends on what you’re talking about with success and what procedure you have. Pregnancy success rates don’t control for the age or fertility of the partner. It is considered a reversible procedure though, which tubal ligation is not. That’s all I was getting at.
Life is all about learning and changing and doing your best. They might be impressed that you realized you were making mistakes and you treasure their daughter and you are working hard at treating her right?
I saw this exact post not that long ago. Take the advice of last post and this one…
I think physical attraction is important. I think you could ask if he could shave and see what you think. But I think time will make you more attracted to him
I still have feelings for him
OP – how about renting your sister a room in a house? That is typically the cheapest option. A room in a house is typically less than half the rent of a small inexpensive apartment.
Of course it’s possible not to do it. You don’t swear at every asshole I’m the street that upsets you. Just save it for the person that’s doing the most for you in life. And yes it’s abusive, and yes she’s perfectly entitled to leave over ungrateful and aggressive behaviour.
The group is shitty and not necessary by virtue of the fact that it has zero quality control. And that woman was a lunatic. Easy call, you made the right decision.
Treating you well and being kid is like a minimum.
Try to go to both? Go to one for a little bit and then go to the other.
Why would he make any effort to manage it when you constantly play into it? You delete whomever he asks, you let him see your messages, you beg him to believe you, and on and on and on. He gets the equivalent if a high from this, and you are his dealer, only it's YOU who will end up destroyed.
Or here's a crazy idea: ask her what she has told her family or have that chat with dad and ask him.
Ummmm…sweet home Alabama?
Dick move?
Who you think you are?
That's in your post that she did this without your consent. Against your will.
Jeezus take the wheel, the entitlement.
Your concerns strangely revolve around her not doing things the way you want. Without your permission. Without your consent. Without your say in it.
And she requires none.
That doesn't make her behaviour or whatever unstable.
And, to no one's surprise, she started acting “unpredictably” and “unstable” the moment she did something without your “consent”.
Cut this crap.
You're the one acting controlling and weirdly upset over the issue that doesn't concern you.
And then you wonder why she cries and whatever. After “misunderstandings” or whatnot.
What was that misunderstanding from your comments, btw?
Leave
It depends on what you’re talking about with success and what procedure you have. Pregnancy success rates don’t control for the age or fertility of the partner. It is considered a reversible procedure though, which tubal ligation is not. That’s all I was getting at.
This
His relationship since then has been a lie.
He now knows it
He doesn't know how many other guys she has fucked.
They could have been sitting on a shelf with 2 inches of dust build up and he'd still be miles over the line for not asking her first.