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Date: October 9, 2022
I know myself, I'm almost 40… I was like you when I was younger. The over thinking the anxiety and pretty much a hopeless romantic. Now that I've put myself thought all that and can look back at it my advice is this… If it doesn't feel right after giving it a few mo your intuition is always right so don't waist your time. It sounds cringe but there really are “plenty of fish in the sea”. I didn't reall understand that until my mid 30s. Hope this helps. DM me if you wanna chat. I feel I can share my experience in a helpful way. ??
She should get checked out for ADHD
By that logic, you know what else is a promise to god? Your husband promising to love and cherish you in his vows. He has tried to deny you medication, unfairly criticizes you regularly, and essentially done the exact opposite.
If that isn’t good enough, let’s take a look at the commandments. Specifically, “thou shall not steal” and “thou shall not bear false witness against thy neighbour”. You know what those two essentially boil down to? Don’t steal, and don’t lie. Yet your husband literally takes every cent you earn, and lies to/gaslights you daily.
On the other hand, when God saw his people enslaved, he appeared to Moses and told him to tell the pharaoh to “let my people go”. Granted, it’s been a long time since I’ve practiced religion, but even I remember that. I feel like he would agree that being treated this way isn’t right. He celebrated the exodus. Is it so hard to believe he’d forgive you leaving?
Thank you for the suggestion about ADHD as a diagnosis, but please excuse me about the privilege? I work two jobs and my boyfriend and I share a car and I’m in a position where I’m not in debt and have a low cost of living to help him out. Both of us are immigrants and don’t come from family money, what’s with the privilege comment?
Be a cool parent and stay out of his business. He has the right to date a weird girl if that's what makes him happy. They're 18, good chances are they won't be dating for long anyways.
Honestly being rid of her and focusing on yourself is the best course of action. It is a good thing you didn’t have kids
Fuck that loser. There’s a reason he’s not with someone his own age. Either kick him out of the house or leave yourself. You can do some much better than him.
She told me that she will let another man raise my kids. If hurts man
You didnt only throw ONE thing at someone you consider your partner, but three heavy objects. PLUS you threatened her and said she should be grateful that you didnt hit her head, inplying that she should be happy you didnt severely wound her. She didnt even insult you or your partnership, she stated a fact and remained calm when you shouted at her. She needs to leave immediately and YTA big big big time. Dont you come here and talk how you “lost” the love of your life. You assaulted her.
I told her I would stop seeing the woman but that isn’t good enough for her I guess
her behaviour is no more healthy than yours.
If you want to stay together long term, you should go to couples therapy and learn how to have conflicts that don't escalate like this. Y'all need serious communication work.
I don't care that you removed your post, tik tok saved it for the rest of us.
You. Are. The. Worst. Of. The. Worst.
Leave her. You don't deserve her. She saved your pathetic life and all you care about is her looks?!? You are disgusting and shallow.
Oh and the part about feeling emasculated? Don't worry, you were never a real man to begin with.
Those are actual valid reasons to be upset. It does sound like he’s downplaying what he does and makes your honest reaction like it’s overboard.
So you two live separately but he wants YOU to cook for him cause he’s a lawyer… You ain’t his wife, sahm, or his momma. You work too and have your own priorities. He’s acting like a douche canoe.
I don’t understand all the comments saying they’d be so embarrassed if their partner spoke to their boss to surprise them with some time off. That sounds amazing & thoughtful to me.
This reminds me of my ex-gf. ??? She was not very communicative; so she would react this way randomly out of the blue— get extremely overwhelmed. But yeah, she was completely checked out of the relationship while I had zero clues and yeah- it would burst out in unexpected ways.
Yes. There are other exhausted mother out there who have less energy and drive for sex on a regular basis. But I for one, have a husband who understands that. He also understands that if he really wants sex, he is more likely to get it if he helps more than usual with chores, especially dinner/dishes/kids bedtime stuff.
Your husband sounds like a jerk. And is trying to blame it all on you. It’s sounds like you’re looking after a whole other grown child.
Yeah. If she is nowhere near this, then there was no reason to bring her up. But you did. And you even put her opinion ahead of your own. Please. Take a moment to seriously consider why you did that. Because she should have been nowhere near this issue between you and your GF.
Guess you shouldn’t have cheated?♀️ I don’t blame him
This is a petty, selfish man.
What on earth do you really gain by having someone this shallow in your lives?
He disowned his son over a name. He's entirely failed as a father.
This is why you don't date men who can't date women their age. This is a disgusting age gap.
Dude, that person is taking this post way too personally and being nasty to people who disagrees, don’t even sweat it.
It's probably huge to him that you are with him. And if he's not very sociable and is conservative, that might be very hard to replace.
What you can do that he doesn't do for himself: listen to him. Be kind to him. Provide physical affection.
I was your age and a single mother. I met my now long term boyfriend on tinder of all places LOL when I was 24. I didn’t put anything about my child in my profile and told people once we started talking a little more but before I went on any dates. It’s hard being a single parent but you will eventually find someone who will put your child first as well. I think it’s best to be honest before a date and then feel it out. Obviously don’t introduce your kid to them until you’re very serious with the person and have gotten to know them for quite some time.
You took up with a boring, superficial person. Find someone better.
Please tell her sooner rather than later and definitely before you even think about proposing to her.
First big red flag is asking for your seat, like wth why?
Send him some money, see if that gets his attention…also I am sure he cares but sometimes you have to prioritize things a bit closer to home and China is far away, so that effects some people.
Lmao please tell me that was sarcasm.
You’re still so young. You still have a chance to build a better life for yourself and your daughter. Try and focus your energy on improving things for the future, instead of dwelling on a past that can’t be changed. You’re not a bad person.
You say you have worked with these communities? Not anymore?
I'd wait for her to foam in her mouth before I help her out.
this is absolutely not about you.
he is going through something you can't handle, can't deal with and honestly should not be expected to deal with his crippling mental health.
this needs to be about him getting help, not about you feeling slighted. He needs help.
He isn't ready to be with you, and you know that.
and for gods sake, don't go in to his house or his friends and start talking about how he made you feel, and how upset you are over this, and how you don't feel comfy about his ex anymore. He needs help, not you. you can survive this, you aren't shutting down, you aren't locking everyone out of your life.
What the hell does it matter how it's framed. They went on a ski trip together, and you just stood idly by and watched it happen. It's time to grow a pair and kick her to the curb. Sell the house and move on to a better, more fulfilling relationship with someone who can respect you, and you can respect them.
He didn’t “forget” anything. That’s bullshit. And of course he’s desperate to make it up to you. He sexually assaulted you and he’s afraid you’ll charge him, which you absolutely should do. At the very least dump him and never be alone with him again. I’m sorry this happened to you.
Girl, what are you doing?
This man is NOT it. He is not a good partner, and you are fighting to keep him when he has both feet and his dick out of the partnership.
He is not worth the effort! Tell him he can go solo it with her, dump his ass, block his ass, and be single for a while and figure out why the hell you feel you need to be with a complete bum like this.
You are twenty four years old. Why are you settling for this crap?!
I feel like there is a lot left unsaid but he sounds insane at best
This isn't a diary entry. What are you asking? You should break up with her and go live your life. You are cheating and you are a shit person for doing it. Don't be a coward and break up with her
5 and a half hours of sleep isn’t a terrible amount of sleep. Plenty of people get that on a daily basis. It sounds like you have an obsession with getting 8 hours of sleep. I used to feel that way and it made my sleep anxiety and insomnia so much worse. It honestly helped my insomnia when I stopped pressuring myself to get 8, which is a bit of a myth anyway. Plenty of scientific articles say 6-7 is the ideal amount. Or that polyphasic sleep is natural for many people (you may be one of those people if you have trouble going back to sleep right away).
I’m assuming you were prescribed trazodone since that’s a pretty standard antidepressant used for insomnia. There’s no reason you have to be all or nothing about it. It can be taken as needed, and probably works better that way because there’s less opportunity for the body to develop a tolerance. I take trazodone if I know that I have something important happening the next morning or if I’m PMSing badly (it took me years to realize how my period cycle affected my insomnia). If I have something important happening the next day, I know I’m going to put extra pressure on myself to sleep well and that pressure makes my insomnia worse.
I agree that it sounds like your boyfriend is setting himself up for diabetes if he doesn’t have it already. He should get that checked out.
IMO you were both wrong and should both apologize. You need to take responsibility for your choices (sleeping at his place when you know he frequently wakes you up and you had a test the next day, choosing not to take sleep medication, etc). A passive aggressive text where you place all the blame on him is not fair. But he should also take responsibility for not being more considerate of the sounds he was making.
Honestly, I didn't know I could take a paternity test at the time. I was young, stressed and naive, and in my head, it didn't matter as I wasn't gonna keep it. I never saw the two of us all of a sudden getting back together. But I should have taken a test, or just told him the situation. At the time I was mostly worried about having to tell him that I was sleeping around, but that was a selfish thing to worry about.
You are both adults. Obedience is for children and dogs. Leave
What confuses me is how it’s okay because it’s a woman. She’s probably been chwating emotionally for a long time before it got to this point.
Some of it is a bit better written though and at least could pass as real if you're not looking for the holes in the story. Here OP asks his wife in detail to recount the “2hr sexual experience” which of course makes no sense unless it's your fetish. The “”sent this strange pleasure down her body” was the icing on the cake for me there.
And the finale “I probably would have supported her because ik she's never been with anyone else and to me a girl sleeping with a girl is not the same as doing it with a guy” is what's meant to get people amped up in the comments.
I'd hope over time ChatGPT could do a better job assembling something that's at least entertaining. Posts like OPs are bad because they don't entertain.