Well I don’t know the details of what you’ve done to make her feel she can’t forgive you, but a genuine apology and acknowledgment of bad pas behavior would be a good start. Let her know how you’re working on specific qualities so she can see that you understand the ways in which you need to change.
She may not forgive you and if that’s the case you’ll have to accept it, but letting her see that you’re really trying is the most genuine way to show that you care.
I’m not a lawyer, but if a letter is concealed and addressed to someone, it is illegal for another party to read it. It doesn’t have to be submitted to a post station to get that status.
Of course a suicide note makes things unlikely to ever be pressed. But yeah, it’s not bullshit.
Regardless, it’s not the law I’m concerned about here. It’s the ethics.
Sounds to me like you just gotta buck up and ask. Coming from someone whos always been shy ( not really shy anymore but mostly because my wife gives me confidence) you miss 100% of the shots you dont take and people who get things they want in life 1st have to have the courage to ask for it.
You just stop paying for things. That's it. You don't have to justify this.
Well I don’t know the details of what you’ve done to make her feel she can’t forgive you, but a genuine apology and acknowledgment of bad pas behavior would be a good start. Let her know how you’re working on specific qualities so she can see that you understand the ways in which you need to change.
She may not forgive you and if that’s the case you’ll have to accept it, but letting her see that you’re really trying is the most genuine way to show that you care.
Evidently she’s sweet when not consumed by violent rage.
I think surprises are much less important than having time to consider life decisions.
I’m not a lawyer, but if a letter is concealed and addressed to someone, it is illegal for another party to read it. It doesn’t have to be submitted to a post station to get that status.
Of course a suicide note makes things unlikely to ever be pressed. But yeah, it’s not bullshit.
Regardless, it’s not the law I’m concerned about here. It’s the ethics.
Sounds to me like you just gotta buck up and ask. Coming from someone whos always been shy ( not really shy anymore but mostly because my wife gives me confidence) you miss 100% of the shots you dont take and people who get things they want in life 1st have to have the courage to ask for it.
Okay maybe ruins my weekend was terrible wording but it makes me feel not good, and I can’t do that but regardless thank you for the advice
tried so hard to get over him like getting into other relationship, being single and hooking up.
Getting into another relationship isn't how you get over your previous one
If you want to clear the deck for her & Jay, I’m sure he’d appreciate it.