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I have the same problem. It's frustrating. I bought a ball gag, paddle, nipple clamps, blindfold, handcuffs, etc. Never been used. I've mentioned using them several times, yried to implement them during sex…it's a no go. He doesn't say no, but just ignores it Luke he didn't hear. I've talked and communicated my desires and preferences and kinks since day 1. He pulled my hair and slapped my ass once or twice, but then it's back to the usual. It doesn't seem fair because he has a very specific kink and I've always accommodated him, even though it does nothing for me. I've come to the realization that he is submissive sexually as I am. He says that he will try, but I don't want someone to do things to me sexually if it isn't turning him on, also. I don't want to be the only one enjoying it. I used to love to give bj's, but I stopped. I'm tired of giving and giving and not receiving. My sexual desire used to be high, but it has shriveled up to almost nothing. It just sucks all around. Resentment and disdain have started to set in. Put his infidelity and porn use in the mix and I'm just completely turned off. I don't feel like a woman, anymore.
The thing about men who abuse their wives is that they also abuse their children. You may be able to handle his abuse, but your child can’t, and it seems like more and more abuses against your child are coming to light. And even if he truly didn’t hurt your son, modeling an abusive relationship to your son is going to be unhealthy for him by itself. I’m so sorry that you’re in this situation, and it’s going to be hard. But you sound like you’re strong and have a good head on your shoulders. Listen to your instincts. You know what to do. And you can do this.
After knowing her you have more information than you did when you just met her… Do you want to base your decision on the limited info you had in the past or on the current situation?
Also, I have no idea what happened in September, who told you that, what you said, the weather, everyone's state of mind, etc lol.
Ultimately what you do is up to you and is your choice.
Just for comparison, i have a sort of body pillow as well (basically just a really really long pillow, it's a basic version) because I have back problems and sleep on my side. I don't always use it, but sometimes. My boyfriend (of only 3 months) first was a bit taken aback what it is for, but when I explained he a few weeks later started joking about it how I could tape a picture of his face on the pillow to have “someone” to cuddle when he's not there etc (all in good jokes). He never would have wanted me to get rid of it.
So yeah, I can understand being taken aback and feeling like it's a replacement for a partner, but it's literally not that. Unfortunately your wife is being absolutely ridiculous. I would try and wait till it's cooled down a bit, and then in a cool head space restart the conversation. Try and talk from your perspective a lot, using “I feel” “I think” “i wish/ want”. Don't accuse her of anything, even if it's true, it would just rile her up. Ask her what makes her so uncomfortable about it. If she absolutely won't budge, than that's not a good sign at all and you should take a good look at your marriage and see if such behavior occurs in more situations.
I've met more than a few men who go after women who are accomplished specifically because it is a prize. They want a proven hot commodity so that they can be more impressive to their friends or their social status or their family or whatever. They don't want the women they chase to actually be more impressive or better or in any way a threat to their self-image after they've secured a hold on them. I even dated a guy like that. He literally could not stand if I got more attention for the work I was doing. But he absolutely straight up told me that he valued that I was creative and accomplished. It's like people hunting a trophy buck.
Simply tell him just what you said about an IUD cost for you. No way you should spilt the costs especially since the relationship is still in its early stages. If you two were married and this was an issue maybe then, but no way right now.
I have the same problem. It's frustrating. I bought a ball gag, paddle, nipple clamps, blindfold, handcuffs, etc. Never been used. I've mentioned using them several times, yried to implement them during sex…it's a no go. He doesn't say no, but just ignores it Luke he didn't hear. I've talked and communicated my desires and preferences and kinks since day 1. He pulled my hair and slapped my ass once or twice, but then it's back to the usual. It doesn't seem fair because he has a very specific kink and I've always accommodated him, even though it does nothing for me. I've come to the realization that he is submissive sexually as I am. He says that he will try, but I don't want someone to do things to me sexually if it isn't turning him on, also. I don't want to be the only one enjoying it. I used to love to give bj's, but I stopped. I'm tired of giving and giving and not receiving. My sexual desire used to be high, but it has shriveled up to almost nothing. It just sucks all around. Resentment and disdain have started to set in. Put his infidelity and porn use in the mix and I'm just completely turned off. I don't feel like a woman, anymore.
The thing about men who abuse their wives is that they also abuse their children. You may be able to handle his abuse, but your child can’t, and it seems like more and more abuses against your child are coming to light. And even if he truly didn’t hurt your son, modeling an abusive relationship to your son is going to be unhealthy for him by itself. I’m so sorry that you’re in this situation, and it’s going to be hard. But you sound like you’re strong and have a good head on your shoulders. Listen to your instincts. You know what to do. And you can do this.
After knowing her you have more information than you did when you just met her… Do you want to base your decision on the limited info you had in the past or on the current situation?
Also, I have no idea what happened in September, who told you that, what you said, the weather, everyone's state of mind, etc lol.
Ultimately what you do is up to you and is your choice.
lol wow wake up
What about if she actually got pregnant? Her anxiety and hormones will be all over the place
Just for comparison, i have a sort of body pillow as well (basically just a really really long pillow, it's a basic version) because I have back problems and sleep on my side. I don't always use it, but sometimes. My boyfriend (of only 3 months) first was a bit taken aback what it is for, but when I explained he a few weeks later started joking about it how I could tape a picture of his face on the pillow to have “someone” to cuddle when he's not there etc (all in good jokes). He never would have wanted me to get rid of it.
So yeah, I can understand being taken aback and feeling like it's a replacement for a partner, but it's literally not that. Unfortunately your wife is being absolutely ridiculous. I would try and wait till it's cooled down a bit, and then in a cool head space restart the conversation. Try and talk from your perspective a lot, using “I feel” “I think” “i wish/ want”. Don't accuse her of anything, even if it's true, it would just rile her up. Ask her what makes her so uncomfortable about it. If she absolutely won't budge, than that's not a good sign at all and you should take a good look at your marriage and see if such behavior occurs in more situations.
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Can you google that hotel and check on what kind of interior the rooms have to see if it matches the video?
. He said “you’re brilliant and accomplished, but you’re not happy.”
Time to remove the cause of that unhappiness, then. OP is already a single mother , as DH thinks all chores and parenting are a woman's job.
I've met more than a few men who go after women who are accomplished specifically because it is a prize. They want a proven hot commodity so that they can be more impressive to their friends or their social status or their family or whatever. They don't want the women they chase to actually be more impressive or better or in any way a threat to their self-image after they've secured a hold on them. I even dated a guy like that. He literally could not stand if I got more attention for the work I was doing. But he absolutely straight up told me that he valued that I was creative and accomplished. It's like people hunting a trophy buck.
Why would you invest your energy in somebody who doesn't want to invest theirs in you? Sounds like she wants to be single to me.
Simply tell him just what you said about an IUD cost for you. No way you should spilt the costs especially since the relationship is still in its early stages. If you two were married and this was an issue maybe then, but no way right now.