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Not necessarily. If that was the case I woulda divorced her by now lmao.
It’s definitely cause for a pause at the minimum. The difference in life experience is vast in those age groups. and he can use that to manipulate you. You’re more malleable/controlable in his eyes. He’s fully aware of that. If it’s 27 and 38- a bit different bc the life experience is there. You’re going to do what you want regardless- but just go in with eyes wide open and watch out for things like him telling you what to do/how to dress ext. and If he spoils you (buys you lots of things) sure that’s nice. But it’s also a way for him to garner more control. There’s an exception to every rule, but always safer to assume you’re not the exception. No matter what you decide, it’ll work out. Always advocate for yourself and look out for your best interest. If you get a weird gut feeling- listen to it
Lube is not a scary taboo thing. And proactively prevents the pain she felt and in most cases makes sex more enjoyable for both parties.
I know, and I try to tell myself that. I don't get many people who want to date me, and she was a different level of kind and caring at first.
THERAPY.
I was going to be on your brother's side until I got to the paet where he abandoned his first daughter and you are the one raising her.
Tell him you'll buy presents for his son when he starts paying you child support for his daughter that you're raising.
yeah thats honestly what i've been doing, just like hearing other's opinions (and to have this sub be less about cheating and breakups because thats depressing)
RUN!! Kick him out of your place. Make sure to have a back up/support when asked him to move out because we're not sure of the things that he can do to you so you need to be careful. Then block him and cut him completely out of your life. You're already seeing the signs so please don't wait till it gets worst
Invite them to dinner at your house, it will be your time to host and to tell your family plus you can control the people who will attend.
Telling something this big in someone's else's dinner where you're not the host can be problematic so better do it in your own place
One time I did this with my dog when she was a puppy. She had to go out at like 6am, as puppies sometimes do, and I was half asleep. I really had to go too, as i had just got up and rushed outside to take her out. I figured why wait? I started pissing while she was taking her time and I was kind of zoned out/had my eyes closed and then I heard the sound of my stream change a little. Looked down and my puppy had moved to investigate and I was peeing on her head. So…I guess…just tell your boyfriend to stay vigilant.
Sounds like your dad and Nick Cannon needs to get together and go bowling.
NTA. You get to choose who’s in your life, not your dad.
Do you’s get any help? Carers or anything? You can have time apart for activities and things. You don’t have to be together all the time.
He's in a cult. If you want to try and get him back read up on those cases.
It can take years and is often unsuccessful. I wouldn't, especially when I'm young enough to move on.
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Get a therapist who specializes in NB…do a couple therapy…maybe he needs to educate himself on what it means first. If he's trying to communicate and open up then that's great. It will take baby steps but I'm sure he will get there.
Tell your best friend about your concerns. This one is just what having a relationship is about is you're going to need to share these things now.
It sounds like he really wanted to hurt you.
Do you honestly think it was a lie? I know you weren't there when he said it ….but idk anymore
I wish I know who your girlfriend is so that I can tell her to leave you.
If she gave a fuck about anyone but herself she would.
It’s his money and you want him to just give your sister 1500 without telling him the full story I wouldn’t give it to her either and him making good money isn’t important to note he makes good money because he worked for it and he doesn’t trust her to pay it back because she ran up the credit card in the first place you’re way in the wrong here 1500 isn’t a small loan and family members always take their time paying it back if they do at all maybe you should tell him she’s being abused and needs the money then there might be a reason to be upset with him
Living with someone involves a lot of little contracts about who does what and who is responsible for what. In the case of mature people used to taking responsibilities for themselves, these are more courtesies than contracts: we do them because we would anyway.
Your girlfriend seems to neglect this aspect of living together. It’s a character flaw at best and childish and self-absorbed at worst.
I’d let her visa expire and make no particular effort to renew it at your own expense, particularly not marriage.
Oh well sucks for him. Your husband sounds terrible
He isn’t ready and may never be. Might be time to cut him loose.
On the plus side, if you do, you might find him chasing you and be in the position of dictating terms.
I didn't say that! My exact words were 'his stresses are likely to continue for another 3/4 months'
As a 29 year old male, you would have a better chance of a healthy relationship with a woman that is between the ages of 25 and 28.
Why stay?
Why are you already getting married if you can't close the gap for a while? Why not simply date, spend more time together, and get married after things are more relaxed? That would also give you more time to actually talk about your concerns.
Your parents? Put your foot down. Have you ever asked them what happens if you are the one with fertility issues?
Why would anyone marry with someone that still bangs dudes left and right? why would you carry that burden?
And this is the first thing she should stop doing. I understand weed can be a good thing for some people, but if you’re jobless and (probably) smoking weed and doing jack-all all day…you probably shouldn’t be smoking at all.
Weed can further kill that motivation for him to get up and doing anything since it’s easier (and more enjoyable) to just be stoned all the time.
I’d probably stop with the weed and vapes first then stop cooking his food once the fog clears…unless he finds another way to get high.
All these red flags and your husband is being a complete idiot. Stand firm, and make sure that he stops all this behavior immediately, or you'll kick him out.
I would let it go. If the family thinks it’s best to not read the letter I would trust their instincts and respect their wishes. Some things are better not knowing. Sorry for your loss :/
Nah, don't let him blow smoke up your ass. If he can have platonic female friends, you can have male platonic friends and his boundary on the issue is bullshit and controlling (a description I barely ever agree on in these threads) because, if he was such an amazing judge of character he wouldn't even have the crutch of being cheated on… more than once… to lean against.
So he shows up in a clown suit, so what? Your colleagues are not going to care as much as you think they are. Just make sure he's seated far away from them.
He sucks. You know you don’t have to put up with this shit, right? There’s nothing tying you to this guy, and you don’t even owe anyone any explanation when you break up with him. GTFO, girl.
I'd totally be like, “Honey, do you not like your wedding ring?” He'll get confused and ask why.
“I found your instagram full of pics without it.”
Let this sit and watch the blood drain from his face. Enjoy that for a minute before he start gaslighting and lies.
Where are you getting that they chose to inconvenience OP? She hasn't said anything like that. It sounds like it's just a case of really bad timing. I didn't find out my graduation date until maybe 6-8 weeks before. Weddings are usually planned much further in advance.
That is an interesting thought experiment!
My thought experiment:
Do you think that a woman should be able to reject a man if she discovers that he has a micropenis and she is not sexually satisfied? In case you said yes… Don't you think that it would be wrong? I mean, what if this woman finds a man with an average penis, marries him, have a baby with him and then this man has penile cancer or an accident and his penis is amputated? Then she would reject him, right?
So you either say that both me and a woman who rejects a man because of penis size, we are wrong? Or you either say that both of us are right? Choose.
He told me he wouldn't want to be a burden or have me be his “carer”.
Just read your edits. Please remember that you cannot adequately judge how your condition can burden your husband. Talk to him about how he is feeling and the repercussions of your condition on him
People like him are relentless, see it as cute, fun, friendly, and will not stop even when told not to. he does not respect you and considers wearing you down something positive.
If sending signals isn't enough, telling him to stop isn't enough, and telling your ceo isn't enough. PUT A KNIFE IN IT.
The next time he touches you, makes a pass at you, or flirts with you in any way that can be seen as a flirt that you will go straight to HR with everything. He is to avoid you at all costs.
No you don't have to actually “ruin” this guys life. but at some point you have to say enough is enough atleast to his face.
You either make it known he is to stop, or let him be the cute funny sweet guy that respects you about as much as the dirt he's walking on.
Lol well you just may have changed his mind about the subsequent tests!
wife and I met when she was 18 and I was 22, started dating shortly after. She was a sophomore in college and I was a junior. Will be 31 years together in October. It can work
what can you do is to ask your gf to clean together with you.
of course you are free to leave if you no longer want to deal with it your whole life.
3 years???? GAWH DAMN
bro has been lying hella and going behind your back fucking a married guy for 3 years, don’t even try to reconcile with her. she didn’t confess out of guilt, she only confessed bc OBS found out. don’t even go to marriage counseling with her, collect evidence, tell the children as they’re all adults and deserve to know, and divorce her. and also, take an STD test just in case. you and your children deserve better.
What are some of the things that you notice other girls have but your girlfriend doesn't?