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Obsession is not loving. That is infatuation. Worship is unhealthy. It is infatuation. The problem that you have is the intensity you wish is not realistic or manageable long-term. This is something that is called love bombing. It’s a high form of insecurity. You’re looking for the other person to make you feel good there for you about them with love hoping to get in return. When you don’t you will leave and go to the next and repeat the cycle.
I don’t agree. I agree that flirting is not cheating but it is dangerous behavior that can get out of hand quickly. That didn’t happen in this case and OP can choose to be a better person going forward.
OP, if you read this I think you should have an honest conversation with your wife. Don't lie as it will make her question herself. Don't let her think she did something wrong. There is no way to make it less hurtful but be kind. Dont talk about what you plan to do after you break up. Your wife and your relationship with her may become bitter after this talk. Accept that you will lose her and that she and her family will cut you off for good. I don't think there's a chance to remain friendly after this kind of revelation.
I'm really sorry for OP's wife like may other commenters but I just don't understand why people keep saying one's DNA is not special. It might not be special for you but it can be special for that person. I have 4 year old boy. I know many here would call him just another crotch goblin but he is special to me. He's speacial to my husband and our families. He will be special for his friends and partner one day. So it doesn't matter if you find OP's DNA and thus biological child to be special or not. It will be special to him and continue to be just like that for others as they grow.
Adoption is not for everybody. Adopting just because you're not able to have a kid does not always end in a good way. We hear many stories where the seemingly infertile couple go on to have a kid just to neglect the adopted one. We see many extended families who do not welcome the adopted child. Also we see many adopted children who reunite with their biological family just to ignore the family that raised them. Having a biological kid has it's own risks. But maybe OP is ready to face these risks but not the ones that come with adopting. He says he doesn't want it. Also adopted children deserve parents that genuinely want them.
I'm sorry for OP's wife but it's not fair for her to be tolerated by OP just because they have a good marriage rather than being accepted as she is by another person. He may accept not having a biological kid eventually or he may grow resentful of her. It's not fair to that woman.
OP can divorce but it doesn't mean that he will be able to find a partner to have a kid with. Still he might be happy that he tried to make his dream come through even though he failed. He might be unhappier if he stays and just waits doing nothing.
I can’t relate at all. Maybe I’m a weirdo or a perv but when my wife got very noticeably pregnant it was her comfort and not my attraction that kept me from initiating the dirtiest sex I could think up. She had our child inside her, the biggest breasts she’s ever had, and yeah… macho thoughts reminded me how that happened.
Anyway, the abrupt 180 he did from wanting to be a dad to now had me thinking medical issue (low test?), previously repressed attraction to men and just plain old immaturity. But I don’t know. I don’t get this guy. It’s not fear of being a bad father or not connecting with your kid that’s scaring him… it’s stretch marks and an outie?
she keeps asking me when we're gonna have sex and keeps reassuring me her implant is working (she saw a doctor to get it looked at)
Looked at or taken out?
Why would she feel the need to reassure you that it’s working unless the lady doth protest too much? Given her other comments about moving in and having a child this reads like a baby trap about to happen. Caveat emptor OP.
Maybe read my bio ? I change it because of how detailed some of my posts are, its for identity reasons, and occasionally to avoid judgement in some situations.
So before you bash somebody, get your facts right. Thanks!
Obsession is not loving. That is infatuation. Worship is unhealthy. It is infatuation. The problem that you have is the intensity you wish is not realistic or manageable long-term. This is something that is called love bombing. It’s a high form of insecurity. You’re looking for the other person to make you feel good there for you about them with love hoping to get in return. When you don’t you will leave and go to the next and repeat the cycle.
This is an interesting question. Why is the roommate indeed not moving in with his gf? They are at least 4+ years together.
Join us at /r/xxchromosomes. Way less patience for the constant outpouring of Reddit misogyny.
basically she is taylor swift
Wow everyone in this comment chain is an asshole
Hon, he’s not husband material. Anyone that talks like that isn’t ready for marriage.
Do yourself a favour and date someone else.
Shit, I missed this part.
I don’t agree. I agree that flirting is not cheating but it is dangerous behavior that can get out of hand quickly. That didn’t happen in this case and OP can choose to be a better person going forward.
OP, if you read this I think you should have an honest conversation with your wife. Don't lie as it will make her question herself. Don't let her think she did something wrong. There is no way to make it less hurtful but be kind. Dont talk about what you plan to do after you break up. Your wife and your relationship with her may become bitter after this talk. Accept that you will lose her and that she and her family will cut you off for good. I don't think there's a chance to remain friendly after this kind of revelation.
I'm really sorry for OP's wife like may other commenters but I just don't understand why people keep saying one's DNA is not special. It might not be special for you but it can be special for that person. I have 4 year old boy. I know many here would call him just another crotch goblin but he is special to me. He's speacial to my husband and our families. He will be special for his friends and partner one day. So it doesn't matter if you find OP's DNA and thus biological child to be special or not. It will be special to him and continue to be just like that for others as they grow.
Adoption is not for everybody. Adopting just because you're not able to have a kid does not always end in a good way. We hear many stories where the seemingly infertile couple go on to have a kid just to neglect the adopted one. We see many extended families who do not welcome the adopted child. Also we see many adopted children who reunite with their biological family just to ignore the family that raised them. Having a biological kid has it's own risks. But maybe OP is ready to face these risks but not the ones that come with adopting. He says he doesn't want it. Also adopted children deserve parents that genuinely want them.
I'm sorry for OP's wife but it's not fair for her to be tolerated by OP just because they have a good marriage rather than being accepted as she is by another person. He may accept not having a biological kid eventually or he may grow resentful of her. It's not fair to that woman.
OP can divorce but it doesn't mean that he will be able to find a partner to have a kid with. Still he might be happy that he tried to make his dream come through even though he failed. He might be unhappier if he stays and just waits doing nothing.
I can’t relate at all. Maybe I’m a weirdo or a perv but when my wife got very noticeably pregnant it was her comfort and not my attraction that kept me from initiating the dirtiest sex I could think up. She had our child inside her, the biggest breasts she’s ever had, and yeah… macho thoughts reminded me how that happened.
Anyway, the abrupt 180 he did from wanting to be a dad to now had me thinking medical issue (low test?), previously repressed attraction to men and just plain old immaturity. But I don’t know. I don’t get this guy. It’s not fear of being a bad father or not connecting with your kid that’s scaring him… it’s stretch marks and an outie?
she keeps asking me when we're gonna have sex and keeps reassuring me her implant is working (she saw a doctor to get it looked at)
Looked at or taken out?
Why would she feel the need to reassure you that it’s working unless the lady doth protest too much? Given her other comments about moving in and having a child this reads like a baby trap about to happen. Caveat emptor OP.
Been thinking about this a lot, and I am sorry for what I did. I apologized to my girlfriend
Yojr gf is going to be so unhappy. She is desperate to have you with her that she is alllowing you to sleep with other woman.
Please just do the right thing, break up with her for good and you can have sex with any woman you want.
You do not actually love her, if you do, you will not make this selfish decision that only benefits you.
Updateme
Maybe read my bio ? I change it because of how detailed some of my posts are, its for identity reasons, and occasionally to avoid judgement in some situations.
So before you bash somebody, get your facts right. Thanks!