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That is really toxic behavior on his end.
Couples have conflicts, its inevitable. But how its handled sheds light on the texture of the reletionship.
If that is the card he plays out of frustration, its a means to “win” and silence your opinion. Conflicts are not about winning, they're about common ground and resolution.
You spoke up about how damaging those comments are. And kudo's to you to saying fuck it, lets do it, throwing it back at him. When you get to the point, the reletionship is in dangerous territory.
How can you ever expect to iron out your differences and have better harmony if this is his go-to always. You need to be able to voice your opinions without fear your reletionship is jeopardized.
Now he got a taste of it. Why? Because you stood up for yourself. Keep standing up for yourself and do not back down.
If you're planning on staying:
Hey, you want us to work? I will not put up with that BS. I told you multiple times those comments hurt me and do our reletionship no good. Next time you make that kind of comment I am committing to the separation.
If you're planning on leaving:
I gave you enough chances to do better. We should not be arguing as much as we are. Our conflicts need resolution, without it, we are just arguing, which makes us dysfunctional.
Conflicts happen. In an optimized reletionship they should be discussions, not arguments. They should have results that bring you closer together due to better understanding of the other person. What they should not result in is behavior that weaponizes a break up to settle the discussion, that is bullshit. You need a partner capable of handling differences better. He needs to step up for this reletionship to succeed.
Say what?
He likes having you available to him when he wants, without having to commit to you. He is likely giving you just enough attention to keep you from moving on and becoming totally unavailable to him. I don't think you should waste any more time on someone who won't give you what you want.