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Date: October 8, 2022
I think for your 40th birthday you should gift yourself with a divorce cause damn your husband don't even think you are valuable enough put effort into a basic ass dinner date.
So, yeah in this situation it's a bit excessive. I, (45M) am extremely possessive about my devices. Apart from spending too much time on advice subreddits I have nothing to be ashamed of or any reason for this but I just get incredibly anxious when someone else (anyone else) uses my phone or computer. I work in tech and spend nearly all my waking hours with a device and it may be that I almost think of them as extensions of myself. My wife who I've been with for 16 years does know my passwords and could easily access my devices (or me hers) but we don't. I wouldn't hesitate to hand my phone to my wife in the situation you described but would feel fairly intense anxiety doing so. I think the best analogy is going into someone else's purse to get something, even if it's not off limits, it's still not comfortable.
Obviously, I need to leave him because I totally violated his privacy…but why wouldn't he just let me use the stupid laptop or phone?
You know your relationship better than I do but this seems like a pretty massive overreaction. You violated a boundary and feeling guilty about it is perfectly normal but if the choice is between walking away and starting over potentially making the same mistakes or using this as an opportunity to improve your communication it would make sense to at least try the option that may be less comfortable but is more likely to result in personal growth regardless of the outcome. Building on my analogy, if your BF had a scratchy throat and coughing fit while you were not in the room and went into your purse looking for a cough drop without asking first would that be relationship ending? My advice would be if you don't have other reasons to end the relationship, do the harder thing and talk it out.