Man. I don’t know because you’re saying you’re broke. Spoiled would be complaining it isn’t good enough. This is the opposite. Why would he get a TV for someone who has a TV and doesn’t use or like TV? I think your hunch is correct and that’s pretty lame. I think I might just nip it in the bud and tell him you found the TV and tell him why this gift doesn’t make sense considering you have a TV, don’t watch TV, and you’re both totally broke. It might be time to just have it all out. I couldn’t be fake excited at his family’s house. I think everything you said is smart and insightful. He sounds a little immature? Cat is kinda out of the bag. You know about the TV. That would ruin my holiday mood. I think I would want him to return it now so we could eat and I didn’t dread Xmas?
Oh damn, is he playing you? It sounds a bit of a red flag ? to me. Happy to chat with you anytime, no expectations. I may not have the answers but I am a good listener. Take care buddy J ??
You’ve shared every intimate detail of this person’s behavior that you deem makes her insecure. It’s not just a small post. You’re responding on every thread with more and more details. You clearly do not like her as a person and if anyone spent this much time complaining about me on the internet I would not want to be with them either. Maybe you should show her this post!!
Look after him mate and if you can, get the bottle away from him and run interference for him for a few days.
The guy is going to be a complete mess for a while – like a few weeks long type mess.
As soon as he wakes up, ply him with water.
As to his fiance (ex), if she rings again just tell her that he is in no state to talk to you and to give him at least a week before she tries to speak to him again. Tell her that for now the wedding is off but that he needs space and time to deal with this.
Above all, please look after him. He is going to need you and the rest of your mates there now more than ever.
If you want kids and he does, your relationship will not work regardless.
Beak up with him and just be single. Leave the other guy alone, he is in a relationship and it would be shitty of you to try and get with him when he is.
And start using some god damned birth control so you don't end up with a baby at 18.
I wanted to provide an update on my previous post. After thinking things overnight , I decided to have a serious conversation with my girlfriend about the messages I found on her phone and the results of the loyalty test. I didn’t say it was a loyalty test but that I saw a flirty message pop up before in her dms and I messaged the guy and he sent me SS
At first, she denied any wrongdoing and tried to brush it off as innocent flirting. But when I confronted her with the evidence, she broke down in tears and said that I was the best thing that ever happened to her. She promised to change her behavior and work on our relationship.
I wanted to believe her, but something didn't feel right. I couldn't continue living in a relationship with someone who was not fully invested in me. When I told her I was breaking up with her, she was devastated and begged me to reconsider. She said that she would be lost without me and that she would do anything to make things work. It was honestly devastating for me to see her like that.
But when she asked if I would consider taking her back, I asked her how she would feel if I did the same thing to her. When she said she would be upset, I knew that it was time to end things for good.
Breaking up was not easy, but I know it was the right decision. I deserve to be with someone who is loyal and committed to our relationship. Thanks for all the advice and support in my previous post. It really helped me to make the tough decision to move on.
You've asked this repeatedly. You're still with her? Wtf?
Man. I don’t know because you’re saying you’re broke. Spoiled would be complaining it isn’t good enough. This is the opposite. Why would he get a TV for someone who has a TV and doesn’t use or like TV? I think your hunch is correct and that’s pretty lame. I think I might just nip it in the bud and tell him you found the TV and tell him why this gift doesn’t make sense considering you have a TV, don’t watch TV, and you’re both totally broke. It might be time to just have it all out. I couldn’t be fake excited at his family’s house. I think everything you said is smart and insightful. He sounds a little immature? Cat is kinda out of the bag. You know about the TV. That would ruin my holiday mood. I think I would want him to return it now so we could eat and I didn’t dread Xmas?
Oh damn, is he playing you? It sounds a bit of a red flag ? to me. Happy to chat with you anytime, no expectations. I may not have the answers but I am a good listener. Take care buddy J ??
She got into your buddy’s car and drove off for guard?
She’s projecting.
Leftist infighting is kind of a tradition at this point. That being said, anti-natalism and being against AI use aren't leftist positions.
You’ve shared every intimate detail of this person’s behavior that you deem makes her insecure. It’s not just a small post. You’re responding on every thread with more and more details. You clearly do not like her as a person and if anyone spent this much time complaining about me on the internet I would not want to be with them either. Maybe you should show her this post!!
How do they know how to send him notifications if the app is no longer on his phone?
Girl what? He’s a grown ass adult, what is his dad going to do about it? Ground him???
Talk to him about this yourself, like the grown ups you both are.
Truly, I'm like why are you still with this person????
Look after him mate and if you can, get the bottle away from him and run interference for him for a few days.
The guy is going to be a complete mess for a while – like a few weeks long type mess.
As soon as he wakes up, ply him with water.
As to his fiance (ex), if she rings again just tell her that he is in no state to talk to you and to give him at least a week before she tries to speak to him again. Tell her that for now the wedding is off but that he needs space and time to deal with this.
Above all, please look after him. He is going to need you and the rest of your mates there now more than ever.
If you want kids and he does, your relationship will not work regardless.
Beak up with him and just be single. Leave the other guy alone, he is in a relationship and it would be shitty of you to try and get with him when he is.
And start using some god damned birth control so you don't end up with a baby at 18.
Yeah my dude, you deserve better than that. You should not accept being treated like that.
Update:
Hey everyone,
I wanted to provide an update on my previous post. After thinking things overnight , I decided to have a serious conversation with my girlfriend about the messages I found on her phone and the results of the loyalty test. I didn’t say it was a loyalty test but that I saw a flirty message pop up before in her dms and I messaged the guy and he sent me SS
At first, she denied any wrongdoing and tried to brush it off as innocent flirting. But when I confronted her with the evidence, she broke down in tears and said that I was the best thing that ever happened to her. She promised to change her behavior and work on our relationship.
I wanted to believe her, but something didn't feel right. I couldn't continue living in a relationship with someone who was not fully invested in me. When I told her I was breaking up with her, she was devastated and begged me to reconsider. She said that she would be lost without me and that she would do anything to make things work. It was honestly devastating for me to see her like that.
But when she asked if I would consider taking her back, I asked her how she would feel if I did the same thing to her. When she said she would be upset, I knew that it was time to end things for good.
Breaking up was not easy, but I know it was the right decision. I deserve to be with someone who is loyal and committed to our relationship. Thanks for all the advice and support in my previous post. It really helped me to make the tough decision to move on.
Take care, everyone.