Don't ask him about the money! Get a lawyer. Even if it's not cheating, lawyers can advise you. They are an outside source who is on your side bc you are paying them. Yes, lawyers can sometimes fleece ya but ask around for personal reviews. If you remember a case of divorce in which the wife got a fair result, ask that person who they used. You don't have to say it's for you, you can tell people it's for another friend of yours. Reviews from the people that used a particular lawyer are best, not necessarily internet reviews.
If you ask your husband anything, ask about the girl not working there anymore. Then, you can see how he reacts.
“Hey, when I came by your office, the other day I didn't see Ashley(the girl), someone told me that she doesn't work there anymore. What happened to her?”
No I feel like it’s very very different to be alone on FaceTime able to talk to and cry with my fiancé than him being at a holiday resort sharing a room with his mother. Those are two very different scenarios in my opinion and I’m not going to sit on FaceTime for the weekend crying and everything with his mother right there next to him listening
divorce her. She sounds absolutely useless and is bringing you down mentally in the process. Hey if you want to live the 2nd half of your life in misery, then go for it, but theres still a very strong chance you could eventually meet someone that would be a much better fit for you. You see your kid half the time. Staying in that mess sounds like a friggin nightmare!
Im sorry but how is what she doing any different than what he did? In fact, she is the one who was originally late with the good morning text, how do you know his absence wasn’t retaliation for that?
God the insanity.
Here in Florida we have stand your ground, castle law etc. Someone breaks into your home, you send them back out in a body bag as it should be.
Don't ask him about the money! Get a lawyer. Even if it's not cheating, lawyers can advise you. They are an outside source who is on your side bc you are paying them. Yes, lawyers can sometimes fleece ya but ask around for personal reviews. If you remember a case of divorce in which the wife got a fair result, ask that person who they used. You don't have to say it's for you, you can tell people it's for another friend of yours. Reviews from the people that used a particular lawyer are best, not necessarily internet reviews.
If you ask your husband anything, ask about the girl not working there anymore. Then, you can see how he reacts.
“Hey, when I came by your office, the other day I didn't see Ashley(the girl), someone told me that she doesn't work there anymore. What happened to her?”
No I feel like it’s very very different to be alone on FaceTime able to talk to and cry with my fiancé than him being at a holiday resort sharing a room with his mother. Those are two very different scenarios in my opinion and I’m not going to sit on FaceTime for the weekend crying and everything with his mother right there next to him listening
divorce her. She sounds absolutely useless and is bringing you down mentally in the process. Hey if you want to live the 2nd half of your life in misery, then go for it, but theres still a very strong chance you could eventually meet someone that would be a much better fit for you. You see your kid half the time. Staying in that mess sounds like a friggin nightmare!
Im sorry but how is what she doing any different than what he did? In fact, she is the one who was originally late with the good morning text, how do you know his absence wasn’t retaliation for that?
OP, you are DENSE. He likes you and IS being inappropriate. His wife should leave him anyway. She can do better.