I would buy a whole lot of presents for yourself and put them under the tree, and then open them in front of him before you hand him his thoughtfully wrapped pair of socks and candy bar. And when he gets upset, ask him “Why? Is it not ok to do almost nothing for your SO on a holiday? If that's the case, does that mean you were intentionally being awful to me the entire time were dating?”
Just tell her that you love her nose & you think it is perfect the way it is, but ultimately, it is her decision. just reassure her that you think there is nothing wrong with her nose & it is a big operation to go through, especially if it's not really needed.
But then she said it would be better if you move on because she didn't know how long it'll take her to get out of the maze.
Move on bro.
When dealing with people i trust actions far more than words. If she was “in love with you” she wouldnt tell you to move on. In my early 20's this happened so many times to guys i knew where they'd wait for the girl they liked just to see her with another guy 2 months later.
I'd hate for you to get burned too, i seen this too many times
I can't tell you how many times I've hopped in the tub just to give the lower bits a quick once over just in case the wife and I get freaky that night.
7 years is a long time, but at least you aren't married with kids. Separation is easier at thus stage. Yes, it hurts, but you can eventually recover from this and find love with someone who can stay faithful after you have rounded a corner.
Sometimes there’s no big reason for wanting to end a relationship, it’s just not what you want or need anymore. If she wants out, she wants out, and it’s not necessarily because of anything you or anyone else did, and there is most likely nothing you can do but get on with your life.
OP I had an extremely similar experience with an ex. Down to the conversation about your writing hobby (mine was different but it was the same “she’s not motivated” thing), this followed up worth him straight up saying “I don’t respect her.”. This is what your husband said without saying. Do not waste another moment of time with this person. Screenshot these photos and send them to yourself (delete the evidence) and bring it to a lawyer.
I would buy a whole lot of presents for yourself and put them under the tree, and then open them in front of him before you hand him his thoughtfully wrapped pair of socks and candy bar. And when he gets upset, ask him “Why? Is it not ok to do almost nothing for your SO on a holiday? If that's the case, does that mean you were intentionally being awful to me the entire time were dating?”
Just tell her that you love her nose & you think it is perfect the way it is, but ultimately, it is her decision. just reassure her that you think there is nothing wrong with her nose & it is a big operation to go through, especially if it's not really needed.
You're going to fast forward her life.
You've lived, she's yet to.
Instead of discovering the world on her own, you will heavily influence.
The things you will find childish, are things she will find age appropriate.
You will rush her through life and ultimately age her.
When she decides to try what she missed out on your relationship will come to an end.
BTW you're not her father's friend if you are sleeping with his daughter and not having the courtesy of informing him.
But then she said it would be better if you move on because she didn't know how long it'll take her to get out of the maze.
Move on bro.
When dealing with people i trust actions far more than words. If she was “in love with you” she wouldnt tell you to move on. In my early 20's this happened so many times to guys i knew where they'd wait for the girl they liked just to see her with another guy 2 months later.
I'd hate for you to get burned too, i seen this too many times
Same.
I can't tell you how many times I've hopped in the tub just to give the lower bits a quick once over just in case the wife and I get freaky that night.
Is there a reason you need to move back?
7 years is a long time, but at least you aren't married with kids. Separation is easier at thus stage. Yes, it hurts, but you can eventually recover from this and find love with someone who can stay faithful after you have rounded a corner.
Sounds like she’s been dancing with other dudes at the club and doesn’t want you to find out about it. Otherwise it doesn’t make any sense.
Well, I'm pretty sure I would never buy her flowers again.
Absolutely tell him. He needs to know the truth so that he doesn’t spend anymore time with this girl
Sometimes there’s no big reason for wanting to end a relationship, it’s just not what you want or need anymore. If she wants out, she wants out, and it’s not necessarily because of anything you or anyone else did, and there is most likely nothing you can do but get on with your life.
Sometimes it just doesn’t work out.
Let it go. He’s an affair partner. Resolve to address your issues before finding someone new to date.
JFC buy condoms that fit. Despite what you read on the internet not everyone is Evan Stone.
OP I had an extremely similar experience with an ex. Down to the conversation about your writing hobby (mine was different but it was the same “she’s not motivated” thing), this followed up worth him straight up saying “I don’t respect her.”. This is what your husband said without saying. Do not waste another moment of time with this person. Screenshot these photos and send them to yourself (delete the evidence) and bring it to a lawyer.
Yeaaaaah. But he can't even be bothered banging me anymore. Too much effort.