Why are you with this guy if you hate everything about him?
It seems like the kind of guy that has tried his entire life to find the things that make him happy and to be comfortable in his own skin, and now he's got a judgemental “partner”.
When you care about someone, seeing them do things that make them happy will bring you joy. This isn't happening here, so stop dating him.
Also, this is borderline worth responding to, and probably a troll, since it LITERALLY IS THE EXACT SAME STORYLINE AS 40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN.
You need to end it now. He sounds like a real tool. So he wants to go screw around but he wants you involved and I guess watch him mess with other women that's just terrible. Fine if that's what you're into but you're not into that and you don't want to be involved and he's pushing you to be involved. Now he's accusing you of cheating. This guy doesn't know what he wants but end it and find someone who actually respects you.
Yeah, I kinda had the whole standby/backup thing in the back of my head and this is what I think has been messing me up. I'm not 100% sure on if I'm willing to do that to myself. I mean I really like her but I'm also not going to sit idly by waiting for something that could likely never appear
My thoughts exactly.
What exactly are you getting out of this relationship?
If you’re too old to hang out with her friends, you’re too old to date her.
are you an aspiring author practicing your fantasy writing skills?
Has no one pointed out their timeline means they were married when they were 14 for her and 10 for him?……That ain't right
Why are you with this guy if you hate everything about him?
It seems like the kind of guy that has tried his entire life to find the things that make him happy and to be comfortable in his own skin, and now he's got a judgemental “partner”.
When you care about someone, seeing them do things that make them happy will bring you joy. This isn't happening here, so stop dating him.
Also, this is borderline worth responding to, and probably a troll, since it LITERALLY IS THE EXACT SAME STORYLINE AS 40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN.
You need to end it now. He sounds like a real tool. So he wants to go screw around but he wants you involved and I guess watch him mess with other women that's just terrible. Fine if that's what you're into but you're not into that and you don't want to be involved and he's pushing you to be involved. Now he's accusing you of cheating. This guy doesn't know what he wants but end it and find someone who actually respects you.
Yeah, I kinda had the whole standby/backup thing in the back of my head and this is what I think has been messing me up. I'm not 100% sure on if I'm willing to do that to myself. I mean I really like her but I'm also not going to sit idly by waiting for something that could likely never appear