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Date: October 16, 2022
What this guy says. My wife and I have many toys. Sex was always good. But introducing toys made things so much better.
Hi understand the concern but the truth is know if it works out. I don't want to be sitting alone in 5 years single and paying child support to 3 woman.
You've been switching up and following her lead all this time. Do you actually want to have an open marriage? It sounds like you were starting to get exclusive with a lady you like. And once your wife realized you were catching feelings (which you aren't supposed to do when in an open marriage) she wants you to stop seeing other women.
She can't really close what she's opened, especially when she just wants to close your end of it, and I think it's time you think about your own sexuality and what relationship you actually want to have. Most marriages that get opened eventually fail, because they aren't structured like they should be, people don't follow rules and lose the core of the relationship that is supposed to be you two above all else. You found someone else who you seem to really like being exclusive with, and you're entitled to your feelings but this may just be the end of life of this marriage. You've been doing it her way all this time and it didn't work.
It makes sense to some (men). They will keep dating or even having a relationship with someone they have no serious intention with. It happens. They don’t see it as a waste of time, because they’re getting all the benefits they want (companionship, sex, support etc.).
They are however cruel and selfish, as they know the other person has lifelong plans that they wouldn’t be wiling or capable of committing to.
Sucks but it’s how it is. Discussions about “where this is going”, future plans and bulding lives together should be had a year, a year and a half tops after establishing a relationship, not six. It’s fair and practical to know what the other person’s attitude towards the same goals is.
Dude is a selfish narcissist if he lead her on and played house with her without the intention to ever marrying her – which is what I understand he knew she wanted. Not to mention the horrific comments about her personality. So she’s only a placeholder, or what ?! Unbelievable.
She should definitely cut him off, she’s 28, she’s got plenty of time to find someone else.
She sounds like a fascinating person to be friends with but too rigid and judgmental to be a supportive romantic partner. If she cannot see this cold, judgemental tendency of hers a valid issue that she needs to work on(and she very likely will refuse to agree to this) you should break up and just be friends or acquaintances.
If you have no inclination to do BDSM- then don’t. Vanilla is fine if that is your preference. If you are intrigued then give it a shot- just make sure you completely understand the boundaries and expectations.
People on the spectrum have a tendency to be inflexible in their judgements. They are often keenly sensitive to stimuli in their environment. They notice so many details and patterns others will be unlikely to be aware of. So it’s typical that she noticed something wrong with the audio system that you didn’t. If you can see it as simply useful input and not an intentional insult, that will be helpful.
It doesn’t naturally make sense to them that their honest opinion of your work or taste could hurt your feelings. You will have to stand up for your boundaries on this or you will feel worn down by their negativity.
It’s not that they don’t feel empathy- it’s just that their own sensitivities are not the same as a neurotypical person. And they often have very black or white thinking so agreeing to disagree is not likely to be an option. With maturity I have seen some of my relatives acquire nuanced opinions but it takes special effort.
It takes a lot of work on their part to become thoughtful of the emotions of others that they simple do not understand. So many things that are intuitive to neurotypicals takes significant logical effort to derive for them.
If she thinks that only you need to change it will not work. You both must be willing to change
I have several people in my family on the spectrum. My husband is on the spectrum. I had to realize we don’t speak the same language. We use English in very different ways. I have read several books and watched several videos seeking to better understand Autism spectrum perspectives and tendencies. Once we both recognized the differences we could work to overcome them.
She is almost 40 too…