She probably thought she was helping and didn't realise it would be a big deal for you. Sit her down and explain how you feel, BUT don't be confrontational.
Tell her you understand she meant well, but you wanted to do it so you could spend that time bonding with her.
When relationships are strained it's easy to catastrophise minor things. I think that's what you're doing here to be honest bro.
This is really really solid advice. It helps so much to have an opinion from someone on the outside looking in. I am going to stand firm and let her know how I feel. It wouldn’t be being harsh on her, it would just be me wanting us to both be happy. Thank you so much
But the fact that she knew about how i was uncomfortable with it and she continue on liking this guy.. even after he comes and goes in a space of 2 months.. isnt that emotional cheating? Crossing boundaries i mean.
Needed this perspective thank you!
She probably thought she was helping and didn't realise it would be a big deal for you. Sit her down and explain how you feel, BUT don't be confrontational.
Tell her you understand she meant well, but you wanted to do it so you could spend that time bonding with her.
When relationships are strained it's easy to catastrophise minor things. I think that's what you're doing here to be honest bro.
OP has already deleted it, so yep, definitely seems that way.
And you're done
When she leaves don't be there when she gets back
That's how you know you have self worth
I just never have or was allowed to share friends with my siblings so this is confusing me now why it is okay when they want to.
So why bother pointing out that it's an ultimatum? Why's that relevant?
This is really really solid advice. It helps so much to have an opinion from someone on the outside looking in. I am going to stand firm and let her know how I feel. It wouldn’t be being harsh on her, it would just be me wanting us to both be happy. Thank you so much
Wow. thank you for this!! I PM’d you as well.
Every single adult human being masterbates babes get over yourself
But the fact that she knew about how i was uncomfortable with it and she continue on liking this guy.. even after he comes and goes in a space of 2 months.. isnt that emotional cheating? Crossing boundaries i mean.