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As most are saying here, her behavior sounded reasonable and forthright. The key here is making sure that this is a one off situation and not a new “norm” of him visiting her and staying alone often. I’m not trying to plant a seed in your head but stay alert and be aware if they are interacting more than you realize. Right now, everything seems to be above board but clarify your boundaries and what you are and aren’t comfortable with.
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I feel like I should have known by now if he knew? We've been dating for over three years
Ya, I wish I could do the same with some people in the past. The reality is that you can only do your best at the time and looking back… I did.
Find a good marriage counselor. It's your only hope. He needs to limit his play activities and get a better sense of what is needed to keep a household going.
Good luck.
Dumping your boyfriend will be a great antidepressant tbh.
He's trying to use scare tactics against you.
My oldest sister exhibits the same exact type of behavior. She actually did call the cops on me today. They showed up, and once I explained the situation to them, they backed off.
If you feel threatened, call the police.
Get out from under his 'rule'. Meaning, stop relying on him for anything. Money, emotional support, literally EVERYTHING. Either change your number, or go NC.
Document absolutely everything. Even this post. Keep yourself safe.
Last resort – file charges for harassment.
Best of luck to you OP.
Exactly what I’m wondering. We need more info there’s a larger issue here
Exactly what I’m wondering. We need more info there’s a larger issue here
Sure pal. she’s super sweet
The relationship is too young to be dealing with this kind of bullshit.
I wouldn’t go to couples counseling with someone unless we’d been together for a minimum of five years or had kids together. This isn’t worth it. Leave him, he can get individual therapy and be better for the next girl
You sound like you are. I'm sure you want someone to confirm that you aren't, just sent gonna be me. Maybe see a therapist?
Everyone gets cold feet when they approach a life changing moment in their life. You question if you are doing the right thing. It’s normal and it will pass. Read some of the posts in the last few days from men that destroyed their relationships because they thought saw something better.
if OP wants to be extra petty, she can start asking right back
Dreams can also come from intrusive thoughts, which are involuntary and unwanted. But him wanting to tell her while making sure his wife and her fiance don't hear? Wow, this is bad. Like he knows it's disgusting and he should be ashamed, but no, that dream was def not intrusive/unwanted… ?
This makes me think it wasn’t a one time thing with her.
It’s called friends with benefits for a reason there is supposed to be a very clear boundary of no strings attached. If you are getting feelings then you need to express this. Relationships like this need to have open communication. If they don’t have feelings back then the relationship would normally end as it can’t go back to FWB when one side has feelings.
Thanks…
I’m a Muslim. My husband was a huge flirt during our engagement but he never asked for n)des. He doesn’t even ask for them during a marriage.
Trust me. Just say no to the guy. If he breaks up with you that means he wanted to play around and was not interested in a halal relationship in the first place.
Sounds like she’s making things up because she intends to use them against you when she divorces you. If she can claim you are “abusive” in some way at she will get more. And with so many types of abuse (financial, emotional) being a thing these days and no real evidence being needed she might be trying that.
Or else she’s spending too much time on bitter womens forums and imagines herself a victim because she’s resentful of being a SAHM and no longer loves you
Hey OP… just wondering if you went to the 12 week check up (that all pregnant people go to) with your 21F partner?
I am terribly sorry that this happened to you, and I wish you a speedy healing an recovery. Please reach out to a therapist or a counselor, as they can help you work through everything in ways that reddit cannot.
I don't think your ex would want to get back with you. Not because of what happened to you. It's likely because you not only broke up with her, but you also got engaged to someone else very shorty after. Your partner getting engaged to someone else is a very hard line for a LOT of people.
Since you didn't tell your ex the truth at the start, there's a decent chance that she might not believe you at this point. From her perspective now, it might seem like you're only regretful of your choices and just want her stuck around as a back-up option. That might not be true, but it wouldn't look good from her side, especially after you went and got engaged. That part probably hurt the most. It would look even worse because you proposed in under 2 months after breaking up with your ex. It hints that something might have been going on long term, even though it's not accurate.
I don't necessarily think you did anything wrong per say, but I don't think that your ex will take you back after proposing to someone else under 2 months after breaking up.
He’s definitely doing coke and his friends/brother are covering for him. Probably because they are also doing cocaine
So long as you follow up showing her that with and I will not hesitate to go to the police or whatever else I need to do if you destroy my things. We can have a conversation and resolve this like adults. I will not tolerate being threatened.
Next.
Could he be secretly infertile or have had a vasectomy and been misleading you all this time?
And you said they're all supermodel level attractive. Maybe that was the point – they wanted to feel attractive so they pushed him to take more photos.
As I said in my comment, ASK HIM.
Came here to say this ?
East fix. Don’t ever speak to or see her unless she arranges it. You’ll be fine, OR, you’ll be done in 2 months. Don’t fight either result.
Why is it YOUR responsibility that HE changes his behavior? Is not. You own your own brain and you can only control your own actions. He own his brain and he's responsible for HIS actions, you cannot, literally cannot, change his thoughts. And honestly it's quite alarming that he “accidentally” hit you… a few TIMES? Like, multiple times? If he was a good person, a traumatized person but fundamentally good, he would have been ALARMED at HIMSELF for hitting you with an object ONE time. And he would have signed up for therapy immediately, right that instant, horrified of himself and really wanting to undo his trauma in order to do better, be better, and altogether stop being dangerous. He would have profusely apologized and would have told you that he understood if you wanted to never see him again as a consequence of his actions, but that he was determined to get to the root of his anger, and find healthy ways to manifest his frustration that are not terrorize you or put you in physical danger. However… he didn't do any of this, and he's STILL throwing items and still terrorizing you. And honestly, if you, who are a full adult, are terrorized by this behavior, imagine a fragile tiny child, defenseless, innocent, witnessing their father go into incontrollable rage. That's exactly how you generate traumatized children that then grow up into dysfunctional adults.
And no, you can't force your husband to go into therapy or make an ultimatum, it just won't work. Your husband will lie to the therapist if he agrees to go. Therapy only works if you WANT to be there. It's like going to the doctor and the doctor gives you a medicine… if you don't take it, like in actually making the effort to swallow the pill and doing it at the indicated times the doctor prescribed it and for as long as the treatment will last… going to the doctor is useless, you won't heal unless you take the prescribed medicine and only you can take it, another person can't take it for you. Same with therapy, the therapist will recommend steps to take that you have to work on yourself, you have to do the work, it doesn't do miracles and people don't get better just by showing up to the therapist office. Does your husband really WANT to fix his deep anger problem? Really? If he says yes, is he saying the truth? What visible steps, sustained in time, is he taking? Also, a few times a year of this behavior is a lot. Because you never know when will this happen, and you live in permanent terror and uneasy ALL the time. You can't relax in your own home, because your brain is scanning, all the time, for signs that he will do this, even if that day he doesn't. I agree with other commenters that tell you to leave, because you can't fix other people and you can't live in permanent tension, it's bad for your health
Why would she take time off to meet your friends? I don’t take off work to just hang out with people. My PTO is limited and precious. Taking time off work to go on a TRIP out of town is entirely different.
If you want to spend the whole day with your friends, that’s fine, just have her join you for a meal before/after her work schedule and she can still meet them.
Alternatively, you could just… “see” her until she’s at least 20. It’a technically not dating.
My actual advice is to let her know that she’s too young for you to consider a relationship at this point. You’re going to upset her no matter what, at least be honest.
While he said it in a more vulgar way, i think you're overreacting
He probably meant it as a funny way of saying he loves your body the way it is
My gf says my dick is 2 inches (its not but its a running joke we have)
Ans i say its a damn good 2 inches
Maybe turn it into a joke back?
OP best bet is to come clean to everyone. By hiding it your not doing it in the best interest of your kid. Your kid deserves to know it’s actual father and family members. And you risk your husband finding out when your kid is older and walking away. Don’t you think it will hurt your child way more if they see the only father figure they know push them aside. Come clean so you can figure out who truly is the dad and you can coparent with whoever it is. Before you inadvertently hurt your child by being selfish.
i would sit home down asap and say “i appreciate you wanting to do something nice for me for our one year, but im really not interested in a snake and would rather us spend time together on a date to celebrate our love”
depending on his reaction i think you have your answer on whether or not you should break up
I mean you're the only one who actually knows him but from the info provided it doesn't sound like he's on the path to becoming a loser. Maybe try to have an open ended conversation, no pressure or accusations to see where his head's at.
Uh so HOW fat is she?
You have a thing called basal metabolic rate which is how many calories you burn if you’re literally laying in bed doing nothing. The base rate of energy you need to simply exist. You can input her height and (ideal) weight into an online calculator to find out around how much she should be eating each day in order to not gain weight when she’s unable to burn additional calories through exercise.
I say all this because if she’s obese, she’s eating way over that, and if she’s bedridden, then someone is bringing her all that unnecessary food. Who is bringing it?
Whatever her problem is, he is still on her mind enough for her to be wasting her time and energy fabricating stuff just to take digs at him. She is either still into him and won't admit it, OR she is a very vindictive human who gets guilty pleasure out of trying to fuck with her exes; neither of which are a very good look.
Well I just had a conversation with her and what she basically said was:
She needs to become the person she was before she started dating me. Apparently she's stopped doing a lot of things she likes to do for the sake of the relationship. For example going out and having fun with her friends without worrying about me getting mad at her about something (I have occasionally gotten upset that men would flirt with her). She doesn't know if she wants to be with someone who makes her hate herself. I haven't been keeping any of the promises I made. For example, I haven't lost any weight, I still drink the same (I told her I'd cut down), etc. If we make it after these two weeks, “things won't be the same.”
I told her that taking a break just doesn't make sense because how can we work on the relationship if we're not in it? Her response was “you make me feel like a cunt and yet you say you love me. Worry about that making sense.” and “Two weeks is honestly short too, I need to distance myself from you to think about things. I don't know if I want to be with you right now and I'm not comfortable seeing you know. I need to think and also see a new attitude from you in two weeks.”
Seems pretty…bad.
he likes to sniff them before- not hairy armpits. But i think his fetish has elevated to some kind of extreme since you cannot smell armpits on vid. I’m not really sure if he wants to go off on armpits now