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Date: November 1, 2022
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I am currently in school right now and I have about a year and a half left but this whole relationship is stressing me tf out where I can't even focus on my studies. I should tell him I need to break to get my mental in check before I fully decide what I want to do with him. I would find a job in another town if I had my license and a car but I don't.
Im sorry you have to go through the same thing. It really sucks when your own mom doesn’t like you. Im from California. And we’ll they didn’t exactly flirt but my boyfriend asked my sister about her hickeys privately via text while I was on vacation and he kept insisting that she tells him what she was “hiding”. And my sister ended up telling him very detailed responses about what she did in bed with the guys she was with. And my boyfriend responded by telling her what me and him do in bed and telling her very inappropriate things like “oh u shouldn’t say warm vanilla fart cuz people will think u mean cream pie” or “I fucked your sister so hard she couldnt walk” and “I came on her face” and so much more. And then he told her to delete the messages and deleted the messages he had on his phone too. I found out because I went on my sisters laptop and she forgot to delete the messages there. I had a feeling something was going on that’s why I checked it. I really don’t have anybody that can give me emotional support or really be there for me. I wanted to cut my boyfriend off but when my mom told me to get out, he was the only person I could call since I don’t have anyone else. The whole situation sucks. I am considering housing assistance but who knows how likely I am to get approved for that too.
The problem is it’ll be hard to get over this, and it will be incredibly difficult to not worry about her breaking your trust again. It’s not worth it, you deserve someone who will not cheat on you at all
Omfg this broads jealous about porn. My wife would laugh in your face. She'll put porn on for me while she dolls up 😉 maybe change your shite perspective
The problem is it’ll be hard to get over this, and it will be incredibly difficult to not worry about her breaking your trust again. It’s not worth it, you deserve someone who will not cheat on you at all
He’ll apologize next time too. And the time after that. And the time after that. Lather, rinse and repeat.
How many times will you stay and let him hit you before you realize that the apologies are meaningless?
I agree with most of what you’re saying. The kids issue I’m not worried about because we have decided against having kids (planning on having a vasectomy soon)
Your poor sister. Hopefully he will leave her soon so she can find someone who loves her for her and not just her body.
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That was my thought……HUSBAND….so you made it through dating, possibly living together, sex, etc and this never came up??
Plus this dude had his mom around growing up and at no point did he know she farts or poops? Or any type of education in any science that explains the food cycle for living things.
Why would you have screen grabbed that?
You’re the side chick.
I'm 22 rn (so the same age J was when he met the OP) and I know some 15/16 year olds. I could never even think of dating them, not even two years in the future. To me they're childish and immature and have so much less life experience and common sense
Why? The modern world seems so intent on torturing people that now it's not acceptable for 2 adults only 6 years apart to be together? Lifes too short and they are happy, let them live.
Still blaming everything else, but not taking any responsibility. Pathetic.
Quick update for anyone seeing this later. I've been in touch with OP – she got her wallet and managed to convince a friend to let her stay the night. She's safe for now, y'all
That's the red pill response to an ended relationship.
Girl: “I'm breaking up with you.”
Guy: “OK.”
The basic premise of the red pill guy is that as their worth goes up, “worth as in money they have” the more female options they get, which let's be honest isn't exactly wrong. So when a girl breaks up with them, they just say “Ok” and let it happen, cause in their minds they'll find another woman, that brings what the red pill guy wants to the table. Youth, Looks, Purity, Submissiveness.
If that's his new outlook on life, you need to just move on and quit talking to him.
Sorry you wasted 15 years on him.
Blaming it on the alcohol, instead of owning that you fkd up. What a pathetic person you are, leave him alone, he's going to find someone better
This is so laughably fake and literally reads like a porno, wtf
Do you have friends or family in the area whom you can go to?
If yes, go do it. If you're going to have a job starting 1/23, it's in a week, you can try and tell these people you will start contributing as soon as you get your first paycheck.
The issue is if you have burned bridges in the past with these people or if they're toxic or both.
It sounds that you've been unemployed for awhile since you have no saving, no $, so she's aware of this, her treatment against you is likely due to anger and frustration and resentment. She doesn't have to blow up over chicken nugget sauce, but she does because she's angry over other things that has been happening in the relationship. Her anger and overreaction is NOT about chicken nugget sauce.
This situation as a whole, is not healthy for either of you.
Don't hesitate to go to a shelter if need be, for the night. You don't want things to escalate.
Sounds a little tricky to be his fwb and his roommate living with him, all without dating him. What happens when either of you date people? It might be awkward if you/he have to hide the fact that you casually fuck your roommate. Might work out fine and you'll get independence, just need to be prepared if things don't work out with him or dating becomes awkward. You've been staying with him so at least you know a bit about living together, some people make bad roommates. Would your parents let you come back home if you need to? Can you comfortably afford the rent and living expenses?
this cannot be real, this has to be trolling.
How does joint custody works? I would want him to live with me. I refuse to have just weekends or summers.
You're right here.
Is his friend gonna get an art room?
fantastic fuckin comment
I think you’ll find a lot of emotions are hidden behind the ego.
Empathy can be a learned skill. You just have to be more aware of situations. When you learn to control that temper, you can take a step back and put yourself in someone else’s shoes.
But you have to break down where that anger is coming from first. It’s not coming from nowhere.
You communicate you're disappointed in all of that behavior by breaking up with him.
My friend, google “stonewalling.” My therapist told me about it because my partner sometimes does this, too. It is extremely toxic and dehumanizing, even if they don’t consciously intend for it to be, it is. And it’s known as one of the “four horsemen of the apocalypse” for relationships because of just how toxic and damaging it is.
I would not stand for it. Period. Thankfully, my partner only does this very occasionally and is trying to work on never doing it at all. He’s aware it’s a problem and I’ve told him point blank we will not last if it continues. You should do the same. And set an internal timeline for yourself, whether it’s 3 months or 3 years, for when you will leave if there hasn’t been meaningful, lasting improvement. Because you cannot live the rest of your life like this, and your child should not grow up in a household where this kind of toxic behavior is tacitly considered acceptable or normal. Your son is watching and learning more than you even realize. No matter how great your husband is otherwise, this borders on emotional abuse. It is and should be a dealbreaker.
And do not listen to his BS justifications — “I ignore you because if I don’t, I’m afraid I’ll say something horrible” — really? So you, a 42 year old man, still haven’t learned basic communication skills? You, a 42 year old man, don’t trust yourself not to verbally abuse your wife? If he can’t communicate with his own spouse openly and respectfully in moments of disagreement, he is a child who is not ready for a serious relationship. And both you and your kid deserve better.
I’ll tell you what I’m doing. In my case, I am giving my partner time and space to work on this issue, because he is perfect and sweet otherwise, but MORE IMPORTANTLY, he has demonstrated a real and sincere desire to fix this. So in the meantime, while he attends therapy and works on this issue, I’ve told him that if he stonewalls me again… I’ll be leaving for a few days. Not out of punishment. But rather for my own mental health. My therapist suggested that if my partner isn’t going to talk to me anyway, there is no sense in forcing myself to live in a painful and dehumanizing environment. That will only make the resentment grow. They suggested I get a hotel room for a few nights and use it as an opportunity to be selfish, engage in some self-care, draw a warm bubble bath, go to the spa, enjoy a quiet meal alone, watch a movie I’ve been wanting to see, lose myself in a new book, spend some quality time with relatives (your son), etc. Basically live as though I’m single (minus any cheating) for a while. This has the dual purpose of 1) getting yourself and your child out of a toxic/borderline emotionally abusive environment, and 2) teaching your partner that this behavior won’t be tolerated, and that you won’t just sit there and passively accept it any longer.
It’s empowering, and you should try it. So much of stonewalling is about control — it puts them in the driver’s seat of the argument, it forces you to beg and plead for basic communication, which completely (and often intentionally) distracts from the substance of the original disagreement, and gives him all the leverage in the relationship.
Take it back.
Right?
It’s just a game to feed his ego. He says he wants to erode her feelings for him, but I am confident that he wants to neg her so the chase will continue.
If he wanted things to be done, he would have blocked her already. If he was worried about AP’s feelings and mental health for real, he would also block her. His ongoing emotional engagement, even under the guise of ending things, just seeks to continue the entanglement for his benefit.
I’m sorry his wife hasn’t given up on him, because this is disingenuous trash.
It really sucks because you were so open from the beginning. The poly idea probably intrigued or even excited him. It can only be a fun fantasy for some people.
Do you think that maybe both of you could be happy if you were poly exclusively as a couple? Play/date/love as a couple.
You probably want to limit yourself to dating only poly people. No wannabes or experimenters. It’s ironic because most people assume being poly gives you more option. And on a casual level that may be true. But many of not most people (including myself) are incapable of maintaining a poly relationship. I hope this has a happy outcome for you.
Bro I don’t think you know what the definition of incredible is. You said this happens for days and hours at a time it’s not that hard to be incredible for a couple hours or a fucking day. He’s obsessed with his fetish and getting you to do something that you don’t like and making you lie that you would love it. That’s fucking sick and making you do something you don’t want is probably part of the fetish. How about you actually be alone for a while instead of being like well this is the best out of the four relationships I’ve had? You are your own person and don’t need anyone to complete you. If you continue to think you do, you will continue to be in a bad situation and at some point, you have to start looking at your own choices and what you decide to accept from others.
Well, ask her about it. She is unlikely to tell you truth though.
If she has cheated, you basically made her lie to you about if she wants to be with you. This is not justification, but it is inevitable consequence of your approach.
Don’t forget to invite the family ?
It's relevant because animal breeding isn't rape.
Tell him to wear it under his suit
Incorporating a few superhero elements into wearing a suit is very different from wearing a superhero costume. Is he going to wear the full Superman costume or a regular suit with a Superman tie and maybe cuff links with the “S” logo?
INFO: What exactly are the 'superhero elements' he wants to incorporate?
This is a key piece of missing information. Are we talking superhero cufflinks and a matching tie, or utility belt with throwing stars and a cape?
No one wants to see him express his personality on a wedding. He should take a step back.