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1. You should have told him that he wont get wife because he probably thinks wife materials are women who:

   Takes care of kids 24/7

   Takes care of house chores 24/7

   Cookes

   Cleans his dirty boxers

   Welcomes him in sexy lingerie when he gets home from work

   All while he goes to his 8 hour shift and then gets home to watch tv or play games.

   All of this if he expected from a woman I bet they’d break up or they’d have unhappy relationship.

   I got called wife material by my bf because I like same games like he does, we both like same movies, have same humor and we are basically best friends. So don’t think being wife material is to be doing what I’ve listed above. Because it’s actually slave material

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2. Honestly? Leave his poor soul be and take the time to evaluate yourself and what made you throw a solid relationship for an abusive ahole out of the window.

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3. I did a lot of LO research and was afraid of that too. We’re both too smart and cynical for that. But I told myself that even if everything crashes and burns I know I had to get out of my marriage. When your kids start defending you (I.E. “don’t be mean to mommy!”) you know it’s over.

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4. I agree. the gesture is cute, but only if you like to do stuff like that. sharing a hobby is fine, but I don't think you understand what building a world in mine craft entails. that's hundreds of hours of building.

   It fine for someone who likes gaming and wants to share a hobby, but if you don't like it then it's the same a bitter medicine being forced down your throat.

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5. Geez talk about being your own worst enemy. His ego is inflated to the point of delusion. I think you getting out of this now will be the best thing for you. He is the type who will struggle his whole working life because he always views himself as right and if someone disagrees he will be an asshole about it.

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6. She gets upset over anything, and I mean anything.

   Kuwait, your GF's frequent temper tantrums cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your GF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.

   The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.

   Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.

   Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”

   Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”

   Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).

   Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're “walking on eggshells,” as you say. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.

   Kuwait, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?

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