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Why is that relevant? If this is the reason for the break-up then I feel like any mature adult would bring up the concerns instead of bottling it up and leaving it all to the last moment. That's how many relationships fail.
It seems like his “jokes” are his way of coping with his intrusive thoughts – to hear you denying them brings some momentary relief. Maybe you can just give a short/reassuring/affectionate response? I think maybe if he’s not fully comforted by your first response it might prompt him to make the joke again and again. I also think if you have an emotional or negative reaction to these questions, it will cause him more anxiety and perpetuate this behavior. If you love him and want to help just try to be patient, give the same simple/sweet response every time, remove the stimulus for him to continue doing this. I think it’s worth a shot for at least a few weeks. (This obviously isn’t a long term solution but I won’t be redundant and mention therapy etc)
Yeah, it seems like she's got a lot of unresolved issues and has thus become a stage 5 clinger. Considering you're already experiencing some major concerns about whether you can adequately handle it all, it would probably be kindest to end things. If you arent going to do that, then you need to communicate clearly that things are moving too quickly for you and that you need more time to get to know one another before deciding to be in a committed relationship or not. If she cant understand that, thats a very clear sign that this isnt going to work out.
Unfortunately had this happen between my ex’s friends and my new girlfriend. One in particular was stalking both our social media on alt accounts and trying to stir up drama. They’d dig up something one of us posted several months after the breakup about being in a relationship and post about it on their semi-popular main Twitter trying to paint us as cheaters despite the prior relationship ending well before this one started, which led to harassment.
While I ended on decent terms with my ex and left people mostly unblocked, I had to end up blocking pretty much everyone mutual and my ex afterwards. I don’t blame my ex and more her friend who’s sole purpose in life seems to be spreading misery, despite being one of those “I hate drama” people. Had to move for work anyways so literally left the state and blocked everyone there besides direct family to make it stop.
You made a choice to move to another country knowing that you might need to live with your boyfriend's family (or if you didn't know about this beforehand, you really didn't know what you were doing when you moved). The way I see it you now either have to make do with grandma and her annoying habits or you need to move away with your bf. Even if the cheapest apartments are half your salary, your bf will contribute too so I'm sure that together you could be able to afford the rent. If he doesn't want to move, that's another issue entirely and may mean that you don't have a future together. He's enjoying a different kind of lifestyle than you and doesn't prioritize privacy with you. A short-term living solution might easily turn into a long-term solution with him if he's comfortable living with his family.
Why is that relevant? If this is the reason for the break-up then I feel like any mature adult would bring up the concerns instead of bottling it up and leaving it all to the last moment. That's how many relationships fail.
It seems like his “jokes” are his way of coping with his intrusive thoughts – to hear you denying them brings some momentary relief. Maybe you can just give a short/reassuring/affectionate response? I think maybe if he’s not fully comforted by your first response it might prompt him to make the joke again and again. I also think if you have an emotional or negative reaction to these questions, it will cause him more anxiety and perpetuate this behavior. If you love him and want to help just try to be patient, give the same simple/sweet response every time, remove the stimulus for him to continue doing this. I think it’s worth a shot for at least a few weeks. (This obviously isn’t a long term solution but I won’t be redundant and mention therapy etc)
he's not your friend anymore. Tell him to kick rocks
Lose the bf. Get another dog
Notice how she intentionally left the friend’s gender out of the thread title
Yeah, it seems like she's got a lot of unresolved issues and has thus become a stage 5 clinger. Considering you're already experiencing some major concerns about whether you can adequately handle it all, it would probably be kindest to end things. If you arent going to do that, then you need to communicate clearly that things are moving too quickly for you and that you need more time to get to know one another before deciding to be in a committed relationship or not. If she cant understand that, thats a very clear sign that this isnt going to work out.
Unfortunately had this happen between my ex’s friends and my new girlfriend. One in particular was stalking both our social media on alt accounts and trying to stir up drama. They’d dig up something one of us posted several months after the breakup about being in a relationship and post about it on their semi-popular main Twitter trying to paint us as cheaters despite the prior relationship ending well before this one started, which led to harassment.
While I ended on decent terms with my ex and left people mostly unblocked, I had to end up blocking pretty much everyone mutual and my ex afterwards. I don’t blame my ex and more her friend who’s sole purpose in life seems to be spreading misery, despite being one of those “I hate drama” people. Had to move for work anyways so literally left the state and blocked everyone there besides direct family to make it stop.
If you have good people around you, and you yourself are seen as one of them, after an initial period people are going to ask if you’re single.
That’s about as true as “there’s no cops on this road” and “you can’t get pregnant your first time”
You made a choice to move to another country knowing that you might need to live with your boyfriend's family (or if you didn't know about this beforehand, you really didn't know what you were doing when you moved). The way I see it you now either have to make do with grandma and her annoying habits or you need to move away with your bf. Even if the cheapest apartments are half your salary, your bf will contribute too so I'm sure that together you could be able to afford the rent. If he doesn't want to move, that's another issue entirely and may mean that you don't have a future together. He's enjoying a different kind of lifestyle than you and doesn't prioritize privacy with you. A short-term living solution might easily turn into a long-term solution with him if he's comfortable living with his family.
Bro I’m pretty sure this is rape.. she doesn’t want it and he’s applying pressure and planning it. It’s actually disgusting. I’d divorce immediately.
Are you 14?