He has friends but not in New York. They moved away. But I think it’s my fault. There were times I got insecure when he went clubbing with people and they were all single and hit on him. He didn’t want me to be insecure so turned down invitations which I never asked him to do. Also the pandemic hit and we didn’t go to many social functions. I feel bad that I made him friendless. I hope he doesn’t resent me
You seem sweet and sensitive. You deserve someone to love you the way you described you want to be loved, at any size. Also you don’t deserve someone who thinks you need to “earn” affection like aftercare, no way.
Sorry you’re going through this but you really have to stop gaslighting yourself by saying that whatever contact helps you with healing, it obviously doesn’t. Also stop dwelling into his mental health and focus all your energy into yours.
Am I the only one feeling really uneasy that she dressed up the kid? With a different style? Idk man
I'm pretty sure they're having an affair. Things are simple in life. Things are obvious too.
He has friends but not in New York. They moved away. But I think it’s my fault. There were times I got insecure when he went clubbing with people and they were all single and hit on him. He didn’t want me to be insecure so turned down invitations which I never asked him to do. Also the pandemic hit and we didn’t go to many social functions. I feel bad that I made him friendless. I hope he doesn’t resent me
yep im not one to say “its a sign!!!” too often but…. this is … like… a pretty big ol sign. i think
You are too busy for a romantic relationship. She’s not being unreasonable
You seem sweet and sensitive. You deserve someone to love you the way you described you want to be loved, at any size. Also you don’t deserve someone who thinks you need to “earn” affection like aftercare, no way.
Op’s comment are making me raise eyebrows
Sorry you’re going through this but you really have to stop gaslighting yourself by saying that whatever contact helps you with healing, it obviously doesn’t. Also stop dwelling into his mental health and focus all your energy into yours.
Yes. You aren’t ruining shit, he is.
Yeah just break up, sooner the better
Cancel
Ghost
Move on!