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Alexandra Thorn, 26 y.o.
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Date: November 27, 2022
Tony being a doormat doesn't mean anything about your own behavior. Tell everyone the truth about what's been happening and go from there.
Betrayal doesn’t have an expiration date also they have been lying to him this whole time
Hey, thank you so much for your kind comment. You the only one in this thread who is not beating horrible to me man. I decided to give her a second chance but I will guard my heart above everything, I hope I don’t find out about any other thing you know. Thank you for your kindness stranger.
Are you taking antidepressants?
If so, it's not your gf drugging you, it's you.
You say “attached”, but it may just be scary to leave what you know. You are young and it sounds like you have matured more quickly than your boyfriend. At his age, it's not uncommon for him to be floundering about what he wants to do. On the other hand, you seem to have some ambition and interest in deeper subjects.
Why not break up and start hanging around with people who you find match your intellect and energy? Not necessarily diving into another romantic relationship, just surrounding yourself with people you actually enjoy spending time with.
Is this new behavior?
You should grow up.
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There's not much you can do, you reinforced how important honesty and communication is, and she got that, it's just her honesty and communications were with other guys.
She's been sexting and sending nudes to these dudes for years, for years……….
You can't trust her, at least she's said shes not ready for kids, she's right and it would be a disaster for you
You're bisexual. You should tell her, she has the right to know.
I should probably make a new sfw account that is true??? but yeah i am really open about it and i didn’t post any nsfw pics.
OPs husband found out. If you look at the links OP, he deleted it off his profile. He commented on it, rosefan001, so it's still active and can see his past comments, but he's deleted every post he's ever made off his profile. OPs edit now even says., “So what if my husband found out….”
I'm curious what's gonna happen now
I'd stick with foam if you are wanting to do this at home.
Everyone has a past. Don't you? You have to get over it. Otherwise, you're limiting yourself to virgins, and they are few and far between. This post makes you sound jealous and controlling. If she's choosing to be with you now, that's all that matters. She was honest with you, and it's not cool to use it against her.
She's still exploring and figuring out who she is, so don't pressure her to label herself one way or the other. Feeling better b/c she hasn't enjoyed her past encounters is selfish. It's something to feel sympathy for, not something to rejoice in. What's done is done, stop dwelling on it, for your sake and hers.
I blackout every time I drink a little too much. I go from being like, I'm sober, to I'm a little tipsy, to blackout. Never used to when I was younger but as I got older it happened more and more. It's terrifying waking up in the morning and remembering nothing. Like truly nothing. I'll only have a couple of beers now cause any more and I disappear.
mby i just beat him up a little 2 hard..or something?
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Didn’t have to finish reading. Let him be. The people for him will love his pup too. When I started dating my husband he had a mastiff that went everywhere with him and I loved him and His dog.
Seems like she's feeling alot of guilt.
I'm obviously not a therapist so my advice would be: maybe you both need to go back to marriage counselling. Seems like she's feeling insecure due to her past actions, maybe she's still struggling to forgive herself, or she's wrapped up in her guilt-she thinks your going to revenge cheat and her focusing on it is her trying to tell herself it's okay if you did it.
Best of luck to you. ?
I agree that grass isn’t greener. But I do believe I can do better. Not to say she’s bad or isn’t an amazing partner. Being single at 23 would just be so nice. I’m so torn 50/50
I think if someone tried this with me I would laugh in there face. I would remind her don't touch someone's stuff if you don't like your stuff touched. Then I would strongly consider consoling because her insecurities are ridiculous and will be a problem your whole relationship.
Thank you so much for reading my post and replying. Your advice was really helpful. But the reason why I'm hesitating so much is that, if I break up with her, she will not have anyone. The environment at her home is pretty toxic, her parents fight a lot and I'm the one who she comes to for comfort. She has a lot of friends but none to whom she can actually confide in the way she does with me. Also, she's told me that ''everyone who cares for her ends up getting bored and leaving. You're the only one who I know is here to stay'' and this just doubles the guilt that i feel for thinking about leaving her. It's a tricky situation yeah.
Thank you again for replying. Really needed someone to talk to about this and I feel like it's easier to talk to strangers on the internet sometimes. Thank you.
All pop, no sodie. Girl you are out there.
I just saw previous posts about him and its just.. no
Sounds like she’s the exact opposite of a feminist if she believes that women stay at home looking after the kids and cleaning. Feminism is just equality between the sexes not being an awful human being
I have a question for you…are the pictures the type of pictures you would see on a dating site or the type of pictures for attention?
It's one thing if she is taking pictures of the hotel, or of her food, or of awesome sceneries…it is completely different if she is taking really nice photos of herself. If that's the case I would just start assuming she is not into you right now and start doing anything to get your confidence back. Trying to “catch her” or talk about it is only going to make things worse and push her away even faster if she hasn't already cheated yet. You cannot make someone attracted to you by stopping them from doing something stupid (cheating) or asking them why they are not talking to you. If anything it just makes them more likely to do it or pick fights with you or push them away even more. Your best bet is to get your own confidence back, or focus on doing more things for yourself while she is gone so the phone calls are exciting or at least make her worry about you as much as you are worried about her.
Do it at her place. She will be able to cry in peace and you will be able to make the exit any time you want without kicking her out.
Bruh moments, I'm out lmao.
Girl he was def doing all the coke. Nobody in the history of having allergies has ever came back from being outside shaking and sweating bullets like u described. He’s def gaslighting u his brother and his friends. I’m sorry this happened. But that’s what drug addicts do. If u not willing to help him through his addiction I would pick ur stuff and leave now. No telling how unpredictable he is.
This terrible advice, and he obviously doesn’t love her.
It’s obvious you love her. I’m sorry this is so hard, but really. You’re already embarrassed by the idea of a wedding. Why? Have you fleshed that out for yourself yet?
Here’s the truth: you will never trust her again. If you stay, you will end up living with a creeping, sense of humiliation and mistrust. You’ll start doubting little things, and you’ll be constantly fighting yourself & your subconscious to manufacture some kind of normal, but the cracks will show.
You can stay & live like that. People do it all the time. And it may be worth it- neither I or anyone can say, really. How long will that last? I don’t know. Do you FEEL loved by her? Is it her words that pull you back to her? Do you see your life with her 20 years out? What do you need to feel safe?
This may happen again. What then?
You’re the only one who knows what’s right for you. But you have to take care of you right now & figure out what it is you really need and want.
Good luck OP. Take care of your heart.
Since you asked, I work in the med field and we donate medical supplies and money to disaster relief, whether foreign or in-country. I have never felt the need to “chaperone” the donated supplies and go see the unfortunates in person in order to do this.
Nor, if you actually read my comment instead of jumping straight into refuting your own fabrication of it, have I said it needs to stop. There is some voluntourism that absolutely does need to stop, but the sort that OP is engaged in is relatively harmless and probably doesn't result in too much extra work for the staff. But I did say that it should be called what it is – OP going over there isn't needed, nor is it helpful. The money and donated supplies are needed and helpful; having lunch with the kids is basically a payment to the voluntourists for their donations.
She's doing good by donating. She's being thanked for doing so by having an interaction with the poors. This trip isn't “volunteer work.”
Im still a virgin
I'm so sorry. What a horrible thing to watch! I don't have any real advice besides alert local vets and shelters in case someone did manage to save him, or at least finds him so you can know for sure.
Literally
No, Cathy Newman, I think people are lobsters.
I think it's best you let her move on.