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You wasting so much time saying “he is not a asshole!” It's not because he is not a asshole with you, that he is not a asshole. He was and is a Asshole. it's not even a joke it's just transphobia. At least you got good friend because they don't want to be around that kind of people.
Maturity is what I was insinuating with my comment. The 25 year old me thought the 18 year old me was an idiot and the 36 year old me thinks the 25 year old me was a damn idiot too.
Are you interested in opening your relationship? Perhaps you could benefit from that as well.
So, what do you do with a f.buddy you no longer want to be an f.buddy with?
You let them know by text, mail or a phonecall that you're done, then block them on everything and go live your best life. Call the cops if they come snooping around your new place. Get it on file so if you need a restraining order there's a paper trail.
Also might want to invest in something like a Nest camera for the door(s). Not specifically for the ex, but for some added security in general.
I don’t live in that town, I just worked there for a few months. I tried to move there but every landlord dodged me. Look up sundown towns and then you’ll understand how a town can be racist. I’m not trying to be spiteful with him at all. I’ve offered to take her 2 hours to him the only problem is, he hasn’t even bothered to say hello to her and she says she doesn’t miss him and doesn’t want to see him which bothers me because she’s only two. That’s how much of a jerk he was to both of us.
Spoiler: wasn't a random guy
I agree with parts of your response, but not your conclusion (which borders on the manipulative and shaming her for having boundaries).
An equally key part of communication is letting your partner know your boundaries. Clearly, this is one for OP. It’s fine for her husband to share this desire with her, but if it crosses a line, then she’s not being closed minded about it or somehow loves him less.
Seems a reasonable position to me.
There is some cognitive dissonance happening here that you need to take a look at.
I never wanted to be unfaithful
Yes. Yes you did. You wanted to fuck a casual acquaintance.
Question: did you?
His trust in her should be shaken. She should have shot down that guy right away. Her having plans to go to the room is emotional cheating. She was willing to have sex with another man. She flirted with another man.
Also smoking is a major addiction. If it wasn’t this stressful life event that made her relapse, it’d be another. You need to take that into account. Anyone can quit smoking cigs is definitely not pathetic- even if they do relapse.
Quitting the cigs was the hardest addiction I’ve ever broken… and I was on heroin. Try to keep things in perspective.
Thank you for sharing your situation. It gives me hope that we are gonna make it
She shouldn’t be accepting drinks from other guys
I would understand being upset if he brought up prenups out of thin air but the topic of marriage came up. If it puts you off it puts you off but I really don't see how its aggressive.
yeah I tried posting this without the ages but It's a rule of this subreddit to put them in…
What gets to me is that he was laying there thinking about her, got erected, and then masturbated thinking about her. I don’t know, it makes me feel uneasy and makes me feel like he’s gross. Does that make sense or does it not change anything?
He's only severely angry, because he got caught. IF you've never seen him like that, then obviously something had to trigger him acting this erratically. Being angry like that and stomping around…come on.
He should have been like “No something just triggered my nose and sniffles” rather than causing a scene like that. He 32 for feck sakes. Like come on.
No need to be embarassed, he honestly should be because wtf
You’re conflating two different terms which is the issue….
Everything you said regarding preferences, is absolutely correct, and I agree with.
However, you then conflated a preference as being the same as a love language…
And there is no evidence whatsoever regarding the love part, for all the reasons I pointed out above.
Do people have preferences regarding how they prefer to be shown affection and general behaviours in which they tend to display their affection? Absolutely.
And they can also be generalised into patterns somewhat accuracy and simplicity.
But the claim that there is a specific language of love, is factually inaccurate.
We can solve this simply- go ask 5 random, English speaking native people to define love.
You will get different answers… if they can even define it at all.
And so you can’t use a scientific term, if it has multiple definitions….
No worries! I appreciate the perspective and I also believe it or not always assume the best in people. But when it comes to my relationships/wife, I take things like this very seriously because I know how easy it is to get yourself into. I’ve been there many times before and done exactly what she’s done (but not with her)
Guy sounds like a loser for complaining about not being notable while doing no work to make himself so, and an idiot for conflating femininity, masculinity, and competency.
Sounds like the Scooby Doo villain just unmasked himself, I'm sorry to say.
Curious, have you been 100% honest with him in every scenario with every question he's asked you? Are there any omissions or actions – times when you didn't want to do something but said it's okay without telling him how you felt?
I hope you understand I'm not much inclined to disclose my location on a open forum, but suffice to say that my question is in relation to how I can best behave and move on from my 26 year old ex partner who I still love very dearly
Yeah you did just mp to conclusions
Or more so 'hey I'm just checking in to see how you're doing, I heard what had happened and I couldn't imagine how you must feel right now, If you need anything let me know. In the meantime I'll do my best to support your daughter and be there for her” I would leave the “it must be awful to hear your daughter being raped” line. Then go from there as far as reacting.
The paternity test isn’t going to matter honestly, Brian is still the “real” dad regardless of anything, like legally that’s his child, and after me and Brian talked about it again after he “returned”, he said it doesn’t matter anymore bc that’s his son. So idk if he had a change of heart or something but I’m still hesitant on him “returning” and also what to do with Justin.
Had a feeling he was one of those guys that as soon as he knew you were a virgin, he’s run in the other direction cause it’s too much pressure or 180 double down on sex more.
Either way, you can find someone else who is closer to your age and also is maybe a Virgin or had only one or two other experiences, so this way it’ll be easier for you.
Well done!! Stay safe, and stay strong. You are in charge of your life and you get to make the choices for yourself. Keep it up ❤️
Agreed. Also happy cake day!
The core of the issue won't be addressed with that. He thinks that in a relationship, you shouldn't need that much time and space away from your partner to decompress from life, and not speak with or see them during that time. He is still going to think a weekend away every two months is too much, but he might not take issue with once a year, or decompressing together, or something along those lines.
And you do think it's necessary.
That's what I mean about inflexibility. You are willing to move it for events, but you aren't willing to change it, or include him, or find a way to decompress with him involved. So he's refusing to be flexible about it as well, and sees that if you two are going to plan a holiday, your other one is unnecessary, as a holiday, in its nature, is meant to be relaxing and for decompression.
It's an incompatibility. Neither of you is wrong to want what you want. But I think you're both going about this the wrong way, and it's leading to serious resentment and frustration, and unless one of you is mature enough to do the right thing and say “hey, this doesn't work for me, we should call it” then it's gonna end badly.
Sis, please tell your Mom. She wants to support you. She loves you no matter what happened and she wants to support you.
Most importantly, you need the support. You need to get all of it out there. There is NOTHING to be ashamed of. None of this was your fault. You trusted someone you thought was your friend and he took advantage of you in the WORST way.
I just want to send you a gigantic hug right now. I am so very sorry this happened to you.
This almost reads like she's end game but he wants to fool around for a few more years.
This is insane! I’m so sorry you were treated this badly by a partner and someone you considered a friend.
I find it hard to believe that a person can post the same question over and over and over and over again without anything being wrong with them.
Use your trip to Rome as a last chance, for yourself too. You don’t want to give an ultimatum, you don’t want to break-up but he’s not proposing and he knows he you feel about it, you either have to change you own position of giving an ultimatum/breaking-up or making peace with yourself that he won’t marry you and you have to stop bringing it up.
Whatever happens now you, your already deep in resentment to him for letting it go on this far especially with your dad (so sorry btw) but if that couldn’t bring you guys together as a ‘life is short, let’s make the most of it’ thing nothing will
Personally I think your dude is quite happy with your situation and only strings you along with promises to shut you up to stop him feeling guilty
I can't afford therapy where I am, and the waiting list for free therapy is over a year long. I have tried prescription medication before but it didn't work for me. I mean, all I wanted was to talk to her, but it seems even that is too much to ask