ok so i think iβm gonna text her and ask if she listens to a lot of music, and i can build off of that and talk ab that for a little bit because i think thatβs a good conversation starter. eventually iβll ask for her number and see if maybe she wants to do something this week. is it odd to ask if she listens to a lot of music out of nowhere?
I appreciate the advice its an unhealthy weight that she has gained I understand gaining some weight but this is to much. We are both a separate colleges so its hard to eat together or workout together at the moment but i tired over winter break to get her to workout with me and she was on board but never followed through. I want to encourage her but also not cone off rude and seem like i am calling her fat.
OP you arent going to like what i'm about to say. No one is a cheater until they cheat. That means someone could live 50 years super faithful but once they started dating you they may cheat next week. The history of them cheating or not cheating is unfortunately not a good measurement if they'll do it to you. However a person that is constantly asking for you to understand them, live off excuses, and considers leaving out information (not lying) are probably the ones that will likely cheat.
Good news is you cna use this as a moment to ask her what would make her cum more and how you can improve on this together (contrary to popular belief this isnt a mans fault and not a mans failing. Its also failure to communicate on our oart as women if we arent telling guys this stuff)
So use this moment to do something together to make you less insecure.
“Ok thank you for telling me. With this in mind can we maybe communicate better in the bedroom and look at ways to make sure you always get off with me?”
Be open to toys, feedback and not always getting it right though otherwise theres no point
It hurt and the humiliation was immense because everyone knew before I did, especially as the feller was a cardboard box away from being a hobo! I'm not looking if I'm honest, I'm still not completely over it and I attract red flag women mostly so yeah.. just playing the field! Glad that you're making progress in moving on King!
OP it's time to end it all your doing is prolonging the pain that's going to come from him leaving and i feel like you may have made yourself believe that you could change his mind or that the relationship was enough to make him stay and got into the love fog and now your being hit with the realty that he is moving and leaving you so please end it now so you can focus on healing.
Also OP I hate to say it but you got played he knew he was always going to leave he just said what he needed to give you false hope heres the deal when he said he was moving but didn't want a casual hookup he meant he wanted a exclusive relationship for the three months he has left and then move on. He may have said he never intended to harm you but look that shows he recognizes that he was hurting you he was selfish and instead of letting you know nothing would change he just let you believe what you wanted
OP its time to end this now block him on everything
I'm so sorry to hear that your dad's such a dick too, but proud of you for going NC. I've been NC with my dad for years now, and tbh he's that bad and makes everyone miserable and has ruined my life (I was his scapegoat) that I honestly hope he kicks the bucket. At least I'd get to come home again, and my mom would be able to live her life again.
where in the world are you?
ok so i think iβm gonna text her and ask if she listens to a lot of music, and i can build off of that and talk ab that for a little bit because i think thatβs a good conversation starter. eventually iβll ask for her number and see if maybe she wants to do something this week. is it odd to ask if she listens to a lot of music out of nowhere?
I appreciate the advice its an unhealthy weight that she has gained I understand gaining some weight but this is to much. We are both a separate colleges so its hard to eat together or workout together at the moment but i tired over winter break to get her to workout with me and she was on board but never followed through. I want to encourage her but also not cone off rude and seem like i am calling her fat.
I'll never understand why cig smokers smoke. It's so gross. ?
OP you arent going to like what i'm about to say. No one is a cheater until they cheat. That means someone could live 50 years super faithful but once they started dating you they may cheat next week. The history of them cheating or not cheating is unfortunately not a good measurement if they'll do it to you. However a person that is constantly asking for you to understand them, live off excuses, and considers leaving out information (not lying) are probably the ones that will likely cheat.
Good news is you cna use this as a moment to ask her what would make her cum more and how you can improve on this together (contrary to popular belief this isnt a mans fault and not a mans failing. Its also failure to communicate on our oart as women if we arent telling guys this stuff)
So use this moment to do something together to make you less insecure.
“Ok thank you for telling me. With this in mind can we maybe communicate better in the bedroom and look at ways to make sure you always get off with me?”
Be open to toys, feedback and not always getting it right though otherwise theres no point
It hurt and the humiliation was immense because everyone knew before I did, especially as the feller was a cardboard box away from being a hobo! I'm not looking if I'm honest, I'm still not completely over it and I attract red flag women mostly so yeah.. just playing the field! Glad that you're making progress in moving on King!
Well she better get used to it if she stays with her old man boyfriend. She'll be cleaning up his pee eventually.
OP it's time to end it all your doing is prolonging the pain that's going to come from him leaving and i feel like you may have made yourself believe that you could change his mind or that the relationship was enough to make him stay and got into the love fog and now your being hit with the realty that he is moving and leaving you so please end it now so you can focus on healing.
Also OP I hate to say it but you got played he knew he was always going to leave he just said what he needed to give you false hope heres the deal when he said he was moving but didn't want a casual hookup he meant he wanted a exclusive relationship for the three months he has left and then move on. He may have said he never intended to harm you but look that shows he recognizes that he was hurting you he was selfish and instead of letting you know nothing would change he just let you believe what you wanted
OP its time to end this now block him on everything
Imagine everyone understanding no means no and not getting offended… well you don't gotta imagine it over here at least π
I'm so sorry to hear that your dad's such a dick too, but proud of you for going NC. I've been NC with my dad for years now, and tbh he's that bad and makes everyone miserable and has ruined my life (I was his scapegoat) that I honestly hope he kicks the bucket. At least I'd get to come home again, and my mom would be able to live her life again.
Burst that bubble hard.