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Akemi | Its my fourth day 🙂, 18 y.o.
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Date: February 20, 2023
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yes we've been together since 17. I think in a way he is in a rut because he's stuck with his parents, having to help them pay for things. And I understand his situation and I feel for him but i don't want to be stuck living this life. And unfortunately my sister is only giving me the chance to live with her not my boyfriend.
Can’t wait for this update Updateme!
I agree :/ it sucks and her doing that definitely did not help the situation at all.
A good friend of mine was diagnosed with MODI when he was 43 and in the best shape (he was a triathlete) of his life. His was discovered after DKA (diabetic ketoacidosis) landed him in the ICU about ten years ago, the body odor change and sweet breath were pretty significant when he was hospitalized. The onset of those particular symptoms was pretty gradual for him, though it sounds like OP’s boyfriend’s was a more sudden onset.
I work in healthcare (EMS, and we run a lot of diabetic patients in my area. I still feel kind of terrible for not picking up on things sooner, DKA has a pretty distinct odor), and it’s absolutely fascinating just how weird the human body can be. I hope OP and her boyfriend are able to figure out what’s going on, medical mysteries are awful.
It's not a misunderstanding. I know it's really hard to face the ugliness of what happened to you and call it what it is, but it was rape. Ideally, reporting him is what should happen but we don't live in a perfect world. It's hard to do that and try to seek help for that.
Regardless of what route you take, PLEASE take good care of yourself. Look into therapy and please put some distance between you and this person. If he disregarded your protests now, it'll likely happen again. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
It wasn't free ? lol
I hear you.
I think you should maybe just take time to reread your comments as if your wife posted this at the height of your check-out:
How would you feel?
Would your feelings feel validated?
Would you feel further upset?
Would those responses make you want to put up a fight for the relationship??
You’re the only person on this post who truly knows her, so you have to be honest with yourself.
She has had time to build a callous against being disappointed in your relationship. She has built it so she can survive her reality, and you the cause of the scab are now picking at it wanting to reopen the wound. And based on your past behavior, she doesn’t know if your help and trying to heal it, or if you’re reopening it only to backslide with her having to do it all over.
That’s why the lovebombing isn’t working. That’s a now, flashy, in the moment thing. She’s had the old you only for this to happen, so she isn’t buying.
Longterm things, and time are the only fixes here. Proving your consistency to her so she can trust you is how you do it, that’s why you rushing looks dismissive and misses the point everyone has been trying to get across.
Give her time to herself and encourage her to do things that make her feel most herself.
Ask her on dates. Plan small activities to do with your kids and her. Like all cooking together and having a picnic.
Rejoin your partnership consistently, and understand that your inconsistency for years cannot be undone in months.
I get this sucks, but accountability is acknowledging that although you were not your best, you’re actively working to be better. But rushing and pushing those hurt by those actions skirts that accountability and comes across dismissive. And also like you’re the victim of her not accepting you apology on your time.
You have to offer the grace and patients that’s given you. Because if she didn’t she would’ve rushed you out of your recent struggle.