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Date: November 26, 2022
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I went on one date with this girl I met at a friend’s party. I had never had a dating account at this point as I was coming out of nine years of monogamy.
She showed my picture to her roommate who was absolutely convinced she had seen me on Tinder. I didn’t really care either way as I was already lightly dating. But it was weird her roommate wouldn’t let it go.
I’m also a fairly generic looking white guy so maybe she was just mistaken
What are you expecting of him? From my point of view you expressed your issues and this was his answer to it but you aren't happy with that answer which means you didn't want that of him? Or maybe you expressed that you wanted it and never expected you wouldnt like it?
He doesn’t respect you. Instead of understanding of how really you feel, he betrayed you by sharing your messages and laughing at you.
Right now he’s saying that it’s all because I don’t trust him enough.
How can you trust him if in the first place he’s disrespecting you.
he really wants to go just with her
He’s interested in her and wants to have alone time with her for those 3 days.
kind of mask it so it doesn’t seem weird
They knew it’s weird and doesn’t look good if they travel alone together. Your boyfriend wants to manipulate you and give you false assurance by telling you that someone’s with them.
He’s on the verge of cheating. You should break up with him.
What are you advocating for the OP ? That neurotypicals take on the emotional labor of their relationships if they are with someone who is autistic? What will the autistic person do in return? Be themselves?
He isn't happy. Finding out that the behavior that makes him unhappy is a part of her autism isn't likely to make him happy now. He is still not happy dealing with the behaviors. The source isn't important. His responsibility is to find a partner that he's compatible with, not to turn himself into the partner she needs.
The implication of your comments here something I think you should rethink. It puts a great deal of the emotional labor of a mutual relationship on the neurotypical person. When exactly is the autistic person responsible for managing their personality in their relationship? I have 2 female relatives with autism and to be blunt, they managed this part of their relationship. What to expect. They are still blunt and stim and everything, but they lead the conversations around their personalities and behaviors: How it might impact their partner. They also handled working with their partner to figure out how they would relate to each other without blaming autism and not doing the work together. They are pretty high functioning, but so is this person to have made it where she has.
She's married and “but it's a woman” is bullshit if you aren't okay with it. cheating is cheating.
“I just want advice on how to get my point across better”
She can sleep with whoever she wants after the divorce. There is no middle ground. if she wants to be married to you then she doesn't get to venture outside of the marriage without your permission.
she doesn't get to “shut down your feelings” any more than you get to shut down hers.
Be prepared to leave if you have to. You can't force someone to 'love' or even respect you if they have mentally checked out.
Does he have depression? Do you suspect he is either emotionally or actually cheating with this co-worker?
If you live together, separate your finances. Get your important documents together. Do you have a family member or trusted friend you could line up to stay with?
Please know that there are lots of really kind, emotionally available, and caring men out there. This man of your is not the only specimen on the planet.
Decide what you need to stay in this relationship. Honesty? Intimacy? Respect? Date night once a week? Ask him if he can do this for you. If he's not sure, you have your answer. Sorry.
This is not the way. You have to communicate with her. The most important thing to communicate is how you feel- not point out the things she does that make you feel the way you do.
The first step is starting a dialogue without leaving room for her to view it as an attack. You feel overwhelmed, you want to do better- not she makes you feel that way, you simply do. How things are going is difficult for you, and you want to find an approach to meeting everyone's needs without feeling like you're not good enough.
She's been your partner for 18 years, surly she must care how you feel. And you owe it to yourself to try to show her where you're at on your side of the relationship.