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AileenDirty Public Chat Channel
Date: October 24, 2022
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Well… I’m going to play this card.
You’re both 19. You’re young. You’re emotional. You’re hormonal. Both discovering sex. The works.
These are not easy things to manage.
Could there be more to the story? Sure. But you don’t know that until you inquire about that.
But these extreme feelings can be triggered out of nowhere for no reason at all. Especially if she is on birth control herself.
I hate to say it but your husband is an ass ….and he hides his rudeness( badly by the way) by saying it's all a joke. I would probably take him and myself to a hotel so we don't make things difficult for the sister and BIL. STAT
Maybe you can convince him that in order to thank his mom for everything she’s done for him he can see a therapist and get a new evaluation to get services that make him more independent so she doesn’t have to be so burdened or worry what will happen when she’s not here. That way he’s working on being functional and also himself even if it’s for other reasons in the hope he’ll eventually open his eyes.
If you feel under appreciated by the people in your life, stop spending energy on those people.
Don't go above and beyond unless you feel good about doing it. If you feel bad or sad or used, just don't do that extra thing. Enforce reasonable boundaries— if someone asks you to do something that you don't feel good doing, politely decline to do it.
And if you genuinely feel that someone else is not carrying their weight in your relationship, or not behaving in a way that is fairly expected of someone who has that kind of relationship with you, then talk to them about it. If you need words, we'll need examples
“… Should be considering his daughter your own STEPchild”
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No.
If you're a single parent in a committed live in relationship, you are obligated to take care of yourself and your children. Full stop. They do not become the other person's responsibility just because you live together, nor do you. Handle your business, you're not a ward.
Phone records have no motive to lie to you. Your wife does.
The most obvious and simple answer is usually the correct one.
It's the abortion
Birds of a feather…
Ha! I haveseveral stashes of old journals! I intend to gather them all up and have them shredded. I can’t write in them anymore and I don’t want them laying around after I’m gone. It’s fun to see where I chronicled good times with friends, but the endless navel-gazing and reading the same tired loops of pointless nattering about money, work, relationships etc. going on the very same, year after year, just… no. Don’t feel sorry for me!
Yeah they went too far… but OP was there literally 30% of the time. (28.6% to be exact.)
That’s a lot, especially since it’s weekend time.
I think he thought it wasn’t right that he had almost another roommate, but one that didn’t pay, and maybe made up some excuse.
God, please don't marry him. I know you're scared and sometimes it's easier to just go with the safe and least stressful feeling options but this won't get easier and it won't “blow over” once the wedding happens. After you've married him it will be another threat every week. He will start saying stuff like, if you don't have Boxing Day dinner done perfectly for his family he will kill you. If you don't do his laundry he will harm you. Then he WILL start moving on to physical violence if he hasn't already. Etc etc. Trust me, it doesn't get better.
There is already some good advice here. But please, try to safely and secure get away from this man and his family. They don't wish you any good. A wedding isn't something that anyone should take such offense over, nor should be threatening harm to someone over. It should be an event filled with love and excitement. Especially towards the bride.
Don't let him know that you plan on leaving until you secure plans to get away. Take only what you need. If you need resources and help with things you can DM me, I am in the US but I have experienced this since childhood and then in my adult years with my husband and had to get away myself. So I could try to help find what agencies in your area are there to help you and your family with things like protection orders and whatnot.
There is nothing you can do. You just remain cordial and stay away from him. Your mom has to be the one to make the choice to end things.
Use your new strength to suplex the bastard to give him a taste of his own medicine. Joking aside you should leave him
Ask him why it's ok for him to touch your games for a console that you share, but it's not ok for you to touch a freaking pot that belongs to him, that you where using for dinner for the both of you. Your relationship is not healthy. 7 years with an emotionally abusive asshole needs to have an expiration date. You need to be single to find out who you really are. Your boyfriend(?) Doesn't have respect for you at all.
Why does every grievance with him end with the silent treatment? That's abuse. He has you trained not to disagree with him. Do you want to live this way? Always “keeping the peace” while he walks all over you?