You are on different paths. Offers do expire, and your prime child bearing years are quickly running out, at 35 you will be considered a geriatric pregnancy.
Don’t look at it as a threat or an ultimatum. Instead you have come to a fork in the road and are taking different paths.
That's his boundary and he has every right to enforce it. If she chooses to get a stripper he has the right to choose not to be married to her. Frankly, it's fair to know up front that she will be choosing stripping over her marriage. I'm all for it. It doesn't have to be a threat, but it's important to have the cards on the table.
Back way up, take a ferry to another continent, then back up more, then locate the lowest possible chair you can and sit down. You are not a deciding factor in this call.
It may be that you are sexually incompatible and that's fine, but he's allowed to decide that he is personally okay with either gentle sex or harder sex less frequently. If you don't feel that meets your sexual needs, then move on.
whoever told you that the bear relationship have endured pain has probably never had one of those “best” relationships.
You are on different paths. Offers do expire, and your prime child bearing years are quickly running out, at 35 you will be considered a geriatric pregnancy.
Don’t look at it as a threat or an ultimatum. Instead you have come to a fork in the road and are taking different paths.
That's his boundary and he has every right to enforce it. If she chooses to get a stripper he has the right to choose not to be married to her. Frankly, it's fair to know up front that she will be choosing stripping over her marriage. I'm all for it. It doesn't have to be a threat, but it's important to have the cards on the table.
Nah, you start making demands like that you need to do the same, especially if she barely knew this friend of his. She threw a grenade into his life.
It is not worth it lady. You won't get the closure you're looking for.
Get therapy. Stop pretending you don’t NEED it when you’re still totally triggered and need a week off from nail polish colors. That’s deep.
You’re doing yourself a huge disservice by not getting the help you actually need.
They're doing something for sure. ?
Give yourself some damn respect and dont put up with this crap.
Are you saying people with HPV are unhygienic? Sounds like you have HPV yourself ..
Back way up, take a ferry to another continent, then back up more, then locate the lowest possible chair you can and sit down. You are not a deciding factor in this call.
It may be that you are sexually incompatible and that's fine, but he's allowed to decide that he is personally okay with either gentle sex or harder sex less frequently. If you don't feel that meets your sexual needs, then move on.
If you want to clear the deck for her & Jay, I’m sure he’d appreciate it.