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You need to wait the week out and respect her wishes. Sounds like you communicate well and your rules are not those they signal the end of things . She just needs some time out . Trust her and give her some room to breath .
If you wouldn’t have found out, would he have continued to jerk off to the video? Ask him that. If something like this would have happened 5-10 years after the marriage it would STILL make some kind of sense and somehow forgivable considering in this age and time when no one is loyal anymore. But 10months in and already finds it easy to do this by mistake, it’ll just make you mistrust him anywhere he goes and that just not a healthy way to live
Has your professor made any moves on you? Do they text you kissy faces every morning? Do they talk to you outside of work/school all the time – and do the messages contain explicit/suggestive material? Do you go out on dates? Have you attempted to make a move on HIM?
If you answered no to these questions, then… well… it just sounds like he's a genuinely nice guy and he's just being cordial. Nothing is inappropriate about saying someone can read your mind, or even that you have a pretty smile. Now, if he told you that he'd like to see you naked… that's another thing entirely. But, a word to the wise… and I feel like 90% of the people I know have learned this lesson the hard way… if they cheats WITH you, they WILL cheat ON you. Someone willing to cheat on their wife once isn't going to stop with just you. It's not that you're not good enough, or that you aren't special… it's just that people who cheat don't usually do it one time and swear off of it for life. There is a real, tangible rush that comes from cheating, one that some become addicted to. Some people are more obsessed with “the chase” than they are with the prize. I was 23 10 years ago. It's a naive age. Don't be naive. You wouldn't trust an alcoholic at an open bar, would you?
But, just for fun, let's play Devil's Advocate – let's say that this guy DOES like you like you like him. He dumps his wife, marries you, and you get to live “happily ever after.” Do you HONESTLY believe that, 10 years, 5 years, even 1 year down the line – when you're at home with a whole slew of kids and he starts coming home behind schedule more often… He starts “staying late at work” all the time… he's NOT cheating with another colleague? You will not wonder where he is, not once? What makes you think you're the exception to the rule, here? Because he looks at you “a little more than just colleagues should do…”?
It takes two to tango. People who pursue partners who aren't available don't know how badly it hurts until they're on the receiving end of the pain. You help ruin a marriage, I guarantee you – you're gonna have a real bad time in the future.
I, one time, had a crush recently on a friends relationship and I was in a relationship. Crushes happen naturally, even when you don’t want it to. I also distanced myself for a bit until I got over it. Now, we’re all chilling and vibing.
Your next steps is a deep breath and a reality check. This guy ain’t moving in with you anytime soon. Honestly, I think either this is never happening or a request for you to sell your home is forthcoming. You have your plan, stick to it. He doesn’t want to build a life together yet, so don’t force it.
okay, was there another post where a married couple never see each other naked?
this post made me curious. do you guys not make out when you are alone together? but that is the best part of a relationship. it is literally what made all the other BS worthwhile. what do you guys do when you are alone in the evening?
my advice, if you are not physically active, start. remember, active, not aggressive. more touching. more kissing. when the mood is right, everything will happen naturally. if not, run. this relationship will never work.
If I found out that a friend of mine was letting their partner read our private messages? We wouldn’t be friends anymore. That’s an invasion of my privacy.
Next, I’d not give my credentials because I access work things on my phone and have NDAs. I’d get fired.
Honestly, as someone who lives in a “open”relationship situation, I find that for the vast majority of people, it isn't the right choice.
My partner and I have been together almost 9 years. In those 9 years, he had has had sex outside of our relationship 3 times, each time with my blessing. I have had about a half-dozen threesomes with him and another person, but haven't slept with anyone else. It is such a small, unimportant part of an amazing, mutually supportive and loving relationship.
I have seen so many couples try to save a dying relationship, or justify an emotional affair by opening up a relationship Sadly, I find that the majority of “swingers ” are in it for the wrong reason.
It should never be done as a remedy for something you or your partner aren't getting in your relationship. It should truly only be an option when all of your emotional and physical needs are being met – as an enhancement to your relationship, not a remedy for a broken relationship.
Whenever I am in a bad place – spiritually, mentally, or physically, the LAST thing my partner thinks of is having sex with someone else and vice-versa.
Too often people use an open relationship as an excuse to get something they aren't getting. It's a recipe for disaster. Just proceed carefully – that is my best advice. Also, if it doesn't feel right for you, it isn't- and that is 100% ok
You need to wait the week out and respect her wishes. Sounds like you communicate well and your rules are not those they signal the end of things . She just needs some time out . Trust her and give her some room to breath .
If you wouldn’t have found out, would he have continued to jerk off to the video? Ask him that. If something like this would have happened 5-10 years after the marriage it would STILL make some kind of sense and somehow forgivable considering in this age and time when no one is loyal anymore. But 10months in and already finds it easy to do this by mistake, it’ll just make you mistrust him anywhere he goes and that just not a healthy way to live
These emojis ????
Very common if you e been together a long time.
Has your professor made any moves on you? Do they text you kissy faces every morning? Do they talk to you outside of work/school all the time – and do the messages contain explicit/suggestive material? Do you go out on dates? Have you attempted to make a move on HIM?
If you answered no to these questions, then… well… it just sounds like he's a genuinely nice guy and he's just being cordial. Nothing is inappropriate about saying someone can read your mind, or even that you have a pretty smile. Now, if he told you that he'd like to see you naked… that's another thing entirely. But, a word to the wise… and I feel like 90% of the people I know have learned this lesson the hard way… if they cheats WITH you, they WILL cheat ON you. Someone willing to cheat on their wife once isn't going to stop with just you. It's not that you're not good enough, or that you aren't special… it's just that people who cheat don't usually do it one time and swear off of it for life. There is a real, tangible rush that comes from cheating, one that some become addicted to. Some people are more obsessed with “the chase” than they are with the prize. I was 23 10 years ago. It's a naive age. Don't be naive. You wouldn't trust an alcoholic at an open bar, would you?
But, just for fun, let's play Devil's Advocate – let's say that this guy DOES like you like you like him. He dumps his wife, marries you, and you get to live “happily ever after.” Do you HONESTLY believe that, 10 years, 5 years, even 1 year down the line – when you're at home with a whole slew of kids and he starts coming home behind schedule more often… He starts “staying late at work” all the time… he's NOT cheating with another colleague? You will not wonder where he is, not once? What makes you think you're the exception to the rule, here? Because he looks at you “a little more than just colleagues should do…”?
It takes two to tango. People who pursue partners who aren't available don't know how badly it hurts until they're on the receiving end of the pain. You help ruin a marriage, I guarantee you – you're gonna have a real bad time in the future.
Anyway, you stay away from them, and may be report it . Is there any chance you could share that post with your boyfriend?
Why are you ignoring all these obvious red flags? You have to respect yourself bro- no one else is going to do it for you.
I, one time, had a crush recently on a friends relationship and I was in a relationship. Crushes happen naturally, even when you don’t want it to. I also distanced myself for a bit until I got over it. Now, we’re all chilling and vibing.
He’s having bad hygiene and you are being reasonable. He’s just ewwww and creepy!
Your next steps is a deep breath and a reality check. This guy ain’t moving in with you anytime soon. Honestly, I think either this is never happening or a request for you to sell your home is forthcoming. You have your plan, stick to it. He doesn’t want to build a life together yet, so don’t force it.
okay, was there another post where a married couple never see each other naked?
this post made me curious. do you guys not make out when you are alone together? but that is the best part of a relationship. it is literally what made all the other BS worthwhile. what do you guys do when you are alone in the evening?
my advice, if you are not physically active, start. remember, active, not aggressive. more touching. more kissing. when the mood is right, everything will happen naturally. if not, run. this relationship will never work.
Toxic is correct. That’s what you are.
If I found out that a friend of mine was letting their partner read our private messages? We wouldn’t be friends anymore. That’s an invasion of my privacy.
Next, I’d not give my credentials because I access work things on my phone and have NDAs. I’d get fired.
Honestly, as someone who lives in a “open”relationship situation, I find that for the vast majority of people, it isn't the right choice.
My partner and I have been together almost 9 years. In those 9 years, he had has had sex outside of our relationship 3 times, each time with my blessing. I have had about a half-dozen threesomes with him and another person, but haven't slept with anyone else. It is such a small, unimportant part of an amazing, mutually supportive and loving relationship.
I have seen so many couples try to save a dying relationship, or justify an emotional affair by opening up a relationship Sadly, I find that the majority of “swingers ” are in it for the wrong reason.
It should never be done as a remedy for something you or your partner aren't getting in your relationship. It should truly only be an option when all of your emotional and physical needs are being met – as an enhancement to your relationship, not a remedy for a broken relationship.
Whenever I am in a bad place – spiritually, mentally, or physically, the LAST thing my partner thinks of is having sex with someone else and vice-versa.
Too often people use an open relationship as an excuse to get something they aren't getting. It's a recipe for disaster. Just proceed carefully – that is my best advice. Also, if it doesn't feel right for you, it isn't- and that is 100% ok