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Date: March 28, 2023
Yea I’m aware I think I was tryna justify and excuse my actions by holding on to what he had previously done but is no better
Dude….this sounds like she's already got someone in mind, and plans to turn this around on you right after you conceed. There's absolutely no reason to push this on your partner, despite their clear discomfort, if you dont.
Also, what a stupid suggestion. Obviously counselling is the solution, not whatever the hell this is.
Yeah, I've just always felt that people will just view the importance of showy weddings differently, and honestly can be a dealbreaker in many relationships.
Personally, spending a ton on a wedding regardless if you have the money to or not just seems like a waste. You can put together a large wedding for many people on a budget, especially if you have many aquaintences willing to lend a hand (I was a waiter/helper at a coworkers wedding and had a blast honestly).
But I also understand there are those folks who, from a really young age, have dreamed of having the perfect wedding at a perfect venue at all costs. And that's totally fine if your partner is up for it, but again if they aren't it may end up ruining the relationship if neither side budges on their stance.
I usually find a way to bring it up early in relationships, like what kind of wedding envision, just to get an idea. As I do with most facets of a relationship that are dealbreakers to me or could be down the line.
Yes not every girl is out coking it up atm. Lol
ok, I re-read the post and seems unrelated.
Where are you planning on going?
Let me give you the straight guy's perspective. I have been stung twice by the “gay best friend” of women that I had struck up a relationship with.
Can't quite put a finger on it, but both seemed very controlling of them. It was almost a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship without the trappings of a cis relationship– all the benefits of being together romantically without worries of sex, the arguments… stuff like that. Both of the gay men just seemed very possessive. It was a “nothing is good enough for my princess” kind of thing. And I was friends with these guys– and they immediately turned on me once I was interested in their woman friend.
I talked to one of my gay male friends about it, and he concurred. There is some sort of dynamic like that in many cis woman/gay men relationships.
I also think that thing about 'just one of the girls” is kind of exploitive of the gay man… like they are a novelty.
Maybe your bf is thinking something like this? It also seemed like you kept the fact that 2 men would be attending from him.
Well… you came to Reddit asking the question and got the answer you were looking for. All of them are typical Reddit responses lol
I think the “manchild” comments are unwarranted. He's been cheated on and one of your friends already trash talked him i.e. “he's too possessive.”
Obviously you have agency and can do whatever you want, and if you are up to no good you have to live with yourself and the truth comes out eventually, even if its a trickle. Group of friends like that??? pfff you would be ratted out. Your guy can take solace in that… maybe. Every single time I've personally had suspicions they turned out to the true. Hopefully your relationship is on solid ground.
Just keep in mind as you get into serious relationships that person kinda becomes the default person you get your support from and do activities with. That sense of turning back time to the wild and crazy things you did in college just disappears. It is one of the responsibilities of a long term relationship.
My dude's gonna have some sleepless nights.
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