“She ended it with her ex because she found him cringy and lost attraction”. Pal… You're on the exact same path as her ex and catching up to him.
Everything you've said are all things that make women lose attraction. You don't listen. You exert pressure. Nothing she is giving you seems to be enough.
Hey while you're at it… You should ask about all the shows they used to watch together and see if she still enjoys watching them with you. Lol. Maybe ask where they used to go on dates and take her there too. Geez man. Get a grip of reality. Stop comparing her past to your present or she will do the exact thing you fear the most. Leave your ass. Which to be honest she should have already
I have just got to ask. The musician your long distance with, have you done your due diligence as a mother? I get that you think he’s all that and everything else and he may very well be God’s Gift but your a Mom. You don’t get to dive in and hope for the best and risk your kids. So, have you run a background check on him? Did you at least do that?
This guy knew you were married and had children. He had no problem starting a relationship with you. That alone should be throwing red flags up. Your a grown woman and how your marriage ended is on the two adults in it. But you don’t start a relationship during it thinking it’s all going to be sunshine and roses and drag your kids into it without making sure you’ve done everything possible to make it safe for your children. Too many do and wind up regretting it after their children have paid the price. I don’t care if the new guy is the love of your life your obligated as a parent to check him out. Especially since he was so willing to get involved with you while you were married. You owe that to your children.
Her pathologically controlling husband who almost ruined her chqnce to play a favorite game with her son. I'm glad she trounces him every time. Being that competitive with a child is wild.
I get drained by all people. Hard to explain, but I get this low humming in my ear, headaches and my body just gets irrationally tired. I really want to see her and I get giddy like a teenager even thinking about her. I havent felt it like this with any other partner.
This has happened to me as well (a couple of times), some people just value (and compartmentalize) sex and intimacy differently than others. Also, it could just be that she met someone else that she does want to get serious with.
Definitely try to cross check this information but alcohol can also cause paranoia especially in younger people. Stay safe !
“She ended it with her ex because she found him cringy and lost attraction”. Pal… You're on the exact same path as her ex and catching up to him.
Everything you've said are all things that make women lose attraction. You don't listen. You exert pressure. Nothing she is giving you seems to be enough.
Hey while you're at it… You should ask about all the shows they used to watch together and see if she still enjoys watching them with you. Lol. Maybe ask where they used to go on dates and take her there too. Geez man. Get a grip of reality. Stop comparing her past to your present or she will do the exact thing you fear the most. Leave your ass. Which to be honest she should have already
I have just got to ask. The musician your long distance with, have you done your due diligence as a mother? I get that you think he’s all that and everything else and he may very well be God’s Gift but your a Mom. You don’t get to dive in and hope for the best and risk your kids. So, have you run a background check on him? Did you at least do that?
This guy knew you were married and had children. He had no problem starting a relationship with you. That alone should be throwing red flags up. Your a grown woman and how your marriage ended is on the two adults in it. But you don’t start a relationship during it thinking it’s all going to be sunshine and roses and drag your kids into it without making sure you’ve done everything possible to make it safe for your children. Too many do and wind up regretting it after their children have paid the price. I don’t care if the new guy is the love of your life your obligated as a parent to check him out. Especially since he was so willing to get involved with you while you were married. You owe that to your children.
Her pathologically controlling husband who almost ruined her chqnce to play a favorite game with her son. I'm glad she trounces him every time. Being that competitive with a child is wild.
I get drained by all people. Hard to explain, but I get this low humming in my ear, headaches and my body just gets irrationally tired. I really want to see her and I get giddy like a teenager even thinking about her. I havent felt it like this with any other partner.
Some people have suggested that it's because it was a gift from a female friend, which is likely
This has happened to me as well (a couple of times), some people just value (and compartmentalize) sex and intimacy differently than others. Also, it could just be that she met someone else that she does want to get serious with.
Honestly if you have any doubts, go on the r/polyamory sub and see what they think about his 'openness'.