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Do you want to stay with her and not go overseas? So can regret it the rest of your life if you stay with her or not.
Hi guys! Op here 😀
I got some comments that was deleted, but I still think they are valid and I came here to speak about it!
Someone told me that it was his choice, so I shouldn't be selfish/narcisistic. I spoke with my boyfriend a few moments ago and he told me to ignore these comments, but the truth is, I did in fact feel selfish for demanding attention. I know it's his choice, but even him admitted that he was a little bit too focused, and we'll try to work on a schedule that meets all our needs.
I came from a 5 years relashionship with someone who was addicted to games (not nft), to the point where he never showed up to any of my bdays, everytime I wanted something (help, asking him to go with me to the hospital or bring me meds, gifts, travelling) I had to ask, pay, plan, because he never had any interest on doing any of it. For me, I had the same mind as some people, “It's his choice, there's nothing I can do”, but… In my current relashionship, even if I'm a little selfish, I wanna make it work! I really like this guy, he's amazing, I know what I said was wrong, but I want to feel comfortable with him and I also wish to learn how to make him feel comfortable with me. on my edit, I said that we'll try to find a diagnose, I wanna learn more about him and the condition that maybe he has, so we can work on it and have a nice future, I think that maybe by learning, I'll also become less selfish and more patient.
Thanks for ALL the comments, even the negative ones! I read it all!
Why play games? Just move out. He wont respond to your “ultimatum” because he doesn’t want you to move out. It’s part of his power games. He wants you there to control.
You need to learn to set some boundaries for yourself. You know asking these questions is bad for you and for the relationship. So set boundaries for yourself and do what is best, which is to allow yourself to feel curious without asking for the details.
Personally I would see it as a red flag to be asked such intimate details about past sexual experiences.
It seems like her libido just dropped off and she doesn’t feel like having sex much anymore. Talk to her about your needs though and see how that goes. Sometimes couples don’t have the same libido level and it’s hard but communication is key. I get that it’s frustrating for you though. Maybe use your hand once in a while?
I got ‘nice guy’ vibes from him tbh.
I got ‘nice guy’ vibes from him tbh.
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Ask your friends at their work!! I bet they know more!!
It boggles my mind that some people think that they are entitled to tell another person if they can or cannot masturbate. Some people are just so insecure, they cannot bear the thought of their partner getting off without them, even if they don't want to participate. Personally, I could not live with that.
This sounds like a couples counseling issues.
You do know that the abused never see it as abuse? You talk about just letting her figure it out. That helps the abuser. If you want to help her you must “label” her.
Btw. It is not a label. It is an evil act against another person.
Given that it’s his entire feed, extensively and wouldn’t doubt he follows them as well
Seems like a troll post.
She had talked recently about wanting to leave because she’s been having a hard time there, but I don’t really want that either! I’m trying to focus on all the growth and good things that could come from this friendship if we work through the feelings together. I want the best for both of them, I really do. I hope work improves for her.
why on earth do you insist on crushing him at every opportunity???
You are reinforcing that chess (with you at least) is not safe, is not fun, and dad will take advantage of me even though I'm a kid and he's played for 30+years?
your wife approach is far more reasonable and will actually encourage him to continue playing, and learning, and growing, and maturing. Once he is on his feet and knows the moves you say he is clearly too young & “inexperienced to know” ….then of course she can play harder.
Your wife seems to get pure enjoyment out of watching your son learn to love chess. She is likely giving him hints of what would be a good move when its his turn, and boosting his kid-ego by congratulating him on these tiny low stakes playroom wins.
My dad “plays hard” chess against my 6 year old nephew, he beats him often, but also still points out good moves he could make, discusses strategies to use against himself, and explains why a move might be risky etc… That leads to the 6 year old sometimes beating granddad, learning heaps, getting a joy-boost he associates with chess & being mad happy about it.
How else is the kid supposed to learn? You just stamping down on him constantly and saying “lol youre shit”
This right here, sex is a make it or break it in a relationship.
Go to the police with the evidence of the harassment and stalking. File for a restraining order. Make sure you have all the phone records showing the calls, and any other hard evidence you can get.
Thank you so much❤️
Ultimately, the operational word here is “dumped.” I get that you feel bewildered, buy every moment you spend reading the tea leaves is one moment you're not working on moving on.
I don't know, sounds like heartache with extra-steps to me.
Good luck OP. Feel free to reach out if you ever need a friend to talk to. You are about to go through some difficult moments. You need to bring out the lioness in you and face what is heading your way.
No, you're wrong, you don't compete with porn any more than you compete with the movie Spiderman and try to walk on walls. Porn is fictional. Real sex doesn't happen like in porn and it should not, people in porn are actors and actresses and if you ask them or see interviews they gave, it's work, they aren't really enjoying themselves most of the time, since they have to keep in mind the positions to look good in camera and the indications from the director. If your boyfriend thinks that you have to perform sexually as the actresses in porn, ask him when is he planning to start flying like Superman, since we all should imitate fictional movies, right?
Also what you describe about your sex encounters is not “a fish in bed”. Either he's making you feel bad on purpose, or he really doesn't know the definition of what he said. Either way ask him to elaborate what he said and do tell him his words made you feel bad and insecure. His reaction will tell him if he's genuinely sorry for what he said and willing to make the relationship feel good for both of you, or if he's just being mean to make you insecure on purpose and thus more willing to please him but at the expense of your own pleasure. Remember that sex needs to be enjoyable for both.
*sacred
Calmly but directly.
“Are you laughing at me? Do you think that's ok?”
And
“In future if you would like something done in a specific way, please let me in the first instance. If I am not aware, I cannot be expected to do”.
Call bullies out. They don't like it and they stop doing it really fucking quickly.
The key here is calm but direct delivery. Do not hesitate and maintain eye contact. He will crumble like week old cake.
Right? Exactly what I’m thinking. I don’t get where people are saying OP is valid. She’s not. It’s not like he’s paying money, watching one specific girl, refusing to have sex or be romantic with OP, or hiding the porn from her. This isn’t cheating. This is just a very insecure and controlling woman.
Just read your previous posts and holy shit. Dude, you have bigger problems.
He’s 31 and you are making excuses for him. This isn’t about him, it’s about you. Think about it, you had to BEG to get an invitation to his birthday party. Makes me wonder, have you ever been in a serious relationship?
Yeah look, I'd still rock up tomorrow, if only to show some basic courtesy and be the bigger person. Just tell them, while you're there, you're not gonna be messaging anymore, thanks but no thanks, I don't like people who flake etc.
He isn't ok with this relationship. It's sad for you but you should respect his decision.
*Language
*Language
for everyone saying wash them. please provide alternatives. i hate washing my sheets, specifically changing them, more then every chore. I actually enjoy my other chores
You’re sexually incompatible
You can’t force these things
If this isn’t fake, this lady is the worst.
You’re setting yourself for a heartbreak.
I mean u offered it on a plate and he ignored it
I’d say it’s primarily due to the trauma bond. He causes me a lot of pain but is also I source of comfort for me. I don’t have a strong support system but I’m learning how to support myself and I know I need to get away from him.
Yeah I used to feel guilty about invading his privacy but Idc anymore if I’m being honest and idk how I feel about him right now but I don’t want to be quick in naming him a “bad guy”
And that proved he was faithful? And the same for yourself. Cheating is hard to cover up but it’s easier to believe someone’s lie
Hope it helps! ?
Tell him, hey, I'm starting to see you as more than a friend, kinda wondering, are you on the same page? I'd like to know before I catch too many feelings.
I did something similar after I left my ex for my new boyfriend at the time. He didn’t mind. We just both didn’t want to rub our new found luck in our ex’s faces. I think it took around 2 years before we went FB official and by then I think shortly afterwards I deleted my profile because I didn’t like Mark zuckerburg. I had IG though, we posted each other there.
It doesn’t necessarily always have to be cheating. Just way too much empathy and regards for other people’s feelings.
Get her on Medicaid if at all possible. She would get in home help. Just doing chores around the house. Possibly some nursing care. All at no charge.
Was she injured at work? No workers comp?
I took care of my mother her last five years. Completely invalid from a stroke. When she died I was simply relieved. That seemed all kinds of wrong, but now that time has passed other (what I consider) more normal emotions replaced that. It’s just how you get!! And my god, I didn’t even have to go out to a ‘real’ job! I can’t imagine:/
Her grown son needs to step tf up, THAT’S his MOTHER!
I’m so sorry it’s all going this way for you. It’s an impossible situation:/
Having an unhealthy relationship with food and then getting chronically ill physically, or in combination, is detrimental and can destroy health. I don't know why you're adamant on this. Seems weird. Go fight another battle.
“Can't leave him if she has no place to go” part of abusive behavior
Yup
That you need to take some responsibility?
It’s his body. You don’t like what he does with his body but you haven’t really given any good reason for him to stop. He isn’t smoking, it has no affect on your kids health. It seems like a weird control thing on your part.