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Date: November 24, 2022
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This is totally normal behavior for cheaters and scum but not normal for most people! I’m a man and would absolutely consider this cheating and you need to get out and away from anyone that says this is normal because they are doing the same things and don’t want the guilt of admitting it. I bet if you told him you did this he would either freak out and be pissed or he would encourage an open relationship.
? lol, okay.
No number, just one fire emoji. ? just like that
From the fact you said “going ok” and not great makes me think something has happened in the past on the relationship but there might also be something going on in another part of her life that’s praying on her mind. Have you asked her about work, family etc ? Or maybe it’s a problem she wants to fix on her own ? I hope everything turns ok just maybe keep an open ear for her. I’m no expert by ANY means I just hope you guys fix things
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Hey – why are you hanging out with someone who is 13 years older than you?
He's definitely not all that great and neither am I. I know we were both wrong for this affair and I do not want to have a relationship with him. I have broken up with my boyfriend but I have not been honest about the motivation behind it. I just can't break his heart. Thanks for your advice and honesty, I appreciate it.
Roommate is being unreasonable
I see, well, it sounded like his last therapist mocked him regularly.
Ever thought about that he maybe noticed but hasnt said anything because he doesn't want to accuse you of anything? It he thinks he's imagining it because you never told bin about it?
Break up. This is crazy level control freak.
She shouldnt be welcomed in your home anymore. She straight up went to your boyfriend and confessed her love to him.
Thats not just a lapse of poor judgement, thats something that can completely ruin a relationship. I mean really think about it. She knows you two are together, but cares about you so little that she went ahead and still told him she loves him.
And if she is there then you MUST be there, because if you arent there then who knows what she might try with your boyfriend while youre gone.
His body, his choice.
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Well, that's good to hear about his feelings regarding mental health and what he's doing to keep himself well. I wonder if he couldn't get a special appointment to see his pysch. This is why we need universal healthcare! 🙂
So, you are more willing/able to work through stuff and see the other perspective, recognise when you are at fault (I hope you're not at fault too often!). That's great. Do you get the sense your bf is able to do the same? Does he have difficulty apologising when he's wrong?
You are absolutely right – you should not be the sole “power-lifter” in this relationship and he has to actively participate, mental problems or not. There has to be some sort of progress that you can feel. I'm sorry he hasn't seemed to have done that. Has he been extra anxious in his daily interactions since you agreed to the letter-writing? Does he seem more interested in avoiding any sort of relationship talk or any situations that could have potential conflict?
I really do hope I've helped. That you have another perspective and more ideas to bounce off of and work out things with your bf. Sometimes, we do just need someone on the outside. We, outsiders, may not really know what's going on, but our emotional distance does give us a slight advantage in logic. Not always, but sometimes. 🙂 Much love to you, girl! You can do this!
Presumably, since marriage isn’t a dealbreaker, she’s okay with not being married. So if it’s not a dealbreaker then why does it upset your girlfriend when other people are surprised that you guys aren’t married? Why make a post about proposing to your girlfriend if it isn’t a dealbreaker?
If it’s truly not a dealbreaker, then just continue the relationship as it is.
He has his eyes on someone else and wants to spend time with her. This is the exact behavior my cheating ex was having: things were seemingly ok, then out of nowhere he would pick a fight (usually around weekends) by twisting something innocent into a war while gaslighting me to look like the bad guy, which always ended with him cancelling our plans. Turned out he was cheating, so he was starting those fights to get space from me to see his affair partner. Then, he would “forgive” me… Leather rinse repeat.
You'd be better off not being there when he “forgives” you.
She did nothing wrong youve been broken up for almost a year. One of you needs to move out and sell the house. Also the rabbit is as much your fault as hers if you co-own the animals.
I hope this doesn't sound harsh, but if a man wants to see you and spend time with you, he will. That's the bottom line.
Your boyfriend sounds terribly insecure. First it is a coworker that he doesn’t want you to be around. Next it will be your clothes….you can’t wear attractive clothes to work….and why is that waiter smiling at you? You must have been flirting with him! Run.
I think you did the right thing. A lot of people would've settled and spent the time unhappy til the inevitable divorce. It's hard. I commend you for trying and then standing firm when you realized it wouldn't work. It sucks all the way around, but in the end, it's for the best.
I think it was kinda tacky that she was hellbent on making you go there, and then not trying to talk when you were there, instead making it seem like you're the one that ran out to avoid talking. But she was likely super emotional.
Good luck in the future! At least you know what you want out of a partner now.
What if it’s an energy exchange? Like people who are more drama.. leading to stress causing death? Or bad eye? Idk I just find it weird that like 5 healthy people in his family has passed away literally every year.
Why do you think that? Do you look after children professionally? Do you mind nieces and nephews regularly? What actual regular contact do you have with children or babies?
My dude…. My wife's daughter was 18 when we got married and even though her real dad is in her life, she comes to me with issues and just to talk. I always try to help her and be there when she needs me. She now calls me dad as well. Be happy, Lola has decided you are worthy of the title!
Yeah OP you could find a nice Asian guy! He’d love that – everyone wins!
Call the cops, tell them you have asked him to stop harassing you and he hasn't.
What outcome are you looking for here?
Yea nope. Undergrad can absolutely cost $250K. Punish the girl for it why don’t ya.
Every single issue here has a common denominator; you. Sex lasts a few minutes? Non-issue. You make it one. You love blowjobs. Crazy. What a unique guy. Jokes aside, you keep saying “she forgets.” No one “forgets to give a blowjob.” In saying that, it's perfectly normal for that not to be top of mind. But all you need to do is ask! Instead, you sit around waiting and get pissed off when it doesn't happen. That's on you.
You're also talking about special occasions like “this is my chance.” Valentine's Day was a failure? Sure. Because you didn't use your words.
This is the most unique sex/sexual compatibility post I've ever read and I give a ton of advice on here. The reason for that is because you're sexually frustrated because of yourself. Wake up to reality, use your words, and realize you can be quite happy.
No. Shes a bitch. Im sorry.
Break up with him asap
You're naive.
The fact that a 30 year old is pursuing a 30 year old so aggressively and talking marriage quickly is love bombing.
And people think all forms of narcissism is overt. Look up covert narcissism. Those motherfuckers are everywhere.
They come off extremely caring and interested in you. They play the long game. They work hard to craft an image. And they mostly maintain it. But they ultimately seek to have manipulative control over you. So you're not always aware of it. They do alot of things “in your best interest”.
And get really bitter and resentful when you reject their “help”.
Plenty of narcs don't fit the stretotype. And plenty play the long game.
Reddit isn't the right place to ask for advice man.
This is a glimpse into your future with this guy, is this what you want in a relationship?
He will always do this. Accept sexual acts and then blame you for “sins”. And he won't reciprocate anything for you.
He will be a selfish partner that uses his religion against you. It's what he just did and what he'll always do.
Unfortunately you are one of the cases where religious views really are incompatible.
I would end the relationship and move in. He has issues with his religion that he needs to sort out of his own, not with a partner.
Are you sure that having an established career is really that important for her? She might just want someone to love her. I think you should go for it.
One option is pretending not to be bothered by her dress. You keeping a stiff upper lip and having no reaction to her antics will make you look dignified while she looks like a pathetic attention seeker trying to upstage the bride on her wedding day.
You could also have your fiancé talk to his mother and tell her firmly that she can’t wear white. Everyone is well aware of that piece of wedding etiquette, she can’t claim that she had no idea. There is enough time to find something else to wear.
Dude, she can’t prove she didn’t cheat because 1 ) if she actually didn’t cheat, she wouldn’t be able to prove it because you can’t prove a negative and 2) there is no question. She cheated.
Take this as a lesson that there are incredibly manipulative and self centered people out there and now you now how to recognize this behavior.
Get her out of your life and focus on yourself. She has all the support she needs for what she’s going through. You need to start thinking about yourself and your mental health, and the best thing for that is getting this girl out of your life.
She is at least emotionally cheating on you. I am sure she would argue this isn't real cheating, and since you don't know about it doesn't hurt you. You know, the usual bullcrap.
The moment she starts fooling around, and disregarding your insecurities is when long distance relationship can not continue.
You should break, you don't need her admission to anything. Perhaps you should look for someone closer to you next time?
Whether or not it counts as cheating is up to each couple to decide. Some people think it is and some don’t so coming to a consensus on it is important. Your GF said it bothered her so that should’ve been a conversation you two had in the beginning. Obviously she felt it was more of a dealbreaker than she let on, as she is now choosing to use it to justify her actions, or she is just using the porn as an excuse because she got caught.
This person has physically abused you. Please reach out to your family and friends. Please plan a safe escape and a clean break.
He can't see that his behaviour is rude.
You could teach him a lesson, if you really feel like it.
Go to a café. And whenever he starts talking: look at something.
Interrupt him.
Randomly call someone.
Get up and go to stare out of the window.
Behave, as if he wasn't there.
And after a while you can say: “See? This is how your use of the phone feels. Like not even being there. Not having your attention.”
And from there decide what you do.
Also “to see if there is am emergency”?
Huh?
What kind of emergency does he have out there? Wife? Children?
Quick question, does he put the work in to finish you off when he goes off too fast?
Ugh, emotional whiplash describes it perfectly. No, it doesn't get better. It gets worse. All the mental back and forth takes a toll.
He is sorry now. Until he gets mad again. When he will say it again.