Is she for real?! I mean it’s obvious that she is lying because who does something like that with friends? And even if it’s true, it’s a stupid joke and not even funny at all.
Do you really trust someone who continues to lie to you, cheat on you, and threatens to kill themselves around your child? Now is when you need to leave.
If you aren't exclusive then her having sex with other people is a possibility. If you aren't cool with her trowing some birthday-sex to this dude, live and learn for the next one, but she didn't do anything wrong exactly.
That's a really frightening escalation. He is actively trying to make you completely financially dependent on him, so you can't leave him. He's isolating you from your support system. This is who he actually is – he was just hiding it until he felt he “had you”. I'd really really recommend talking to people in your life and making an exit plan. This isn't going to get better, it is going to get worse.
I feel if I they might use it against me and bring it up more. I tell them I don't want to talk about it, they change the topic but then a few weeks later again they bring up the same stuff.
I just don’t get it though. Things were going well. Then she vanished. She still has her location on which I find a little odd and she hasn’t removed me from any socials.
There's nothing selfish about their relationship. If anyone is being selfish, it's OP and his wife. Their relationship doesn't have to make anything more complicated. Especially if OP and his wife can dial back their drama and act like the adults they're supposed to be.
So funny reading this comment because I just said good night to my girlfriend an hour ago. The last thing we talked about was how much fun we had on Saturday night during a threesome.
I would say the very first threesome we ever had was one of the best experiences in our relationship! I’ll spare you the reasons why, but rest assured, it was an amazing, positive experience for everyone involved.
Threesomes, like anything, involving sex, had NO INTRINSIC VALUE at all! None. It’s not good. It’s not bad. It’s not worth anything other than the value you assign to it. YOU might not think that threesomes are a good idea in a relationship. For your relationship, you might be 100% right!
Just because I’ve had amazing experiences in that department in my relationship does NOT mean that I recommend it for everybody lol. I recommend it for ME, my partner, and that’s about it.
If you do not want your SO seeing or talking to her ex and she won't stop then leave her, it's unfair to her as well because if you stay you'll resent her and subconciously lash out at her.
Is she for real?! I mean it’s obvious that she is lying because who does something like that with friends? And even if it’s true, it’s a stupid joke and not even funny at all.
It's a fucking pastor, not a boss or a cop.
How frequently did you see each other in real life during this long-distance portion?
Do you really trust someone who continues to lie to you, cheat on you, and threatens to kill themselves around your child? Now is when you need to leave.
If you aren't exclusive then her having sex with other people is a possibility. If you aren't cool with her trowing some birthday-sex to this dude, live and learn for the next one, but she didn't do anything wrong exactly.
That's a really frightening escalation. He is actively trying to make you completely financially dependent on him, so you can't leave him. He's isolating you from your support system. This is who he actually is – he was just hiding it until he felt he “had you”. I'd really really recommend talking to people in your life and making an exit plan. This isn't going to get better, it is going to get worse.
I feel if I they might use it against me and bring it up more. I tell them I don't want to talk about it, they change the topic but then a few weeks later again they bring up the same stuff.
I just don’t get it though. Things were going well. Then she vanished. She still has her location on which I find a little odd and she hasn’t removed me from any socials.
There's nothing selfish about their relationship. If anyone is being selfish, it's OP and his wife. Their relationship doesn't have to make anything more complicated. Especially if OP and his wife can dial back their drama and act like the adults they're supposed to be.
Just bring him anyway. You sound like you’re making unnecessary drama and problems
Ask her if she's comfortable with you exploring your sexuality with another woman (or man).
Block him, speak to the police, get a restraining order
So funny reading this comment because I just said good night to my girlfriend an hour ago. The last thing we talked about was how much fun we had on Saturday night during a threesome.
I would say the very first threesome we ever had was one of the best experiences in our relationship! I’ll spare you the reasons why, but rest assured, it was an amazing, positive experience for everyone involved.
Threesomes, like anything, involving sex, had NO INTRINSIC VALUE at all! None. It’s not good. It’s not bad. It’s not worth anything other than the value you assign to it. YOU might not think that threesomes are a good idea in a relationship. For your relationship, you might be 100% right!
Just because I’ve had amazing experiences in that department in my relationship does NOT mean that I recommend it for everybody lol. I recommend it for ME, my partner, and that’s about it.
Yep, it must be Muslim night for all the creative writers out there.
Why exactly are you together with her? She sounds horrible..
If you do not want your SO seeing or talking to her ex and she won't stop then leave her, it's unfair to her as well because if you stay you'll resent her and subconciously lash out at her.
Totally missed he calls her his gf when i wrote this good catch. But generally that would ne my guess for questions if people say dont want questions