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Birth Date: 2002-06-12
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Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
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Date: October 16, 2022
He has shown you who he is and what matters to him. Please understand he couldn’t have been more clear. His family is first, they are the priority, does that sound like love to you? I’ve been with my husband over thirty years and when we were ready to spend holidays together we respected each other enough to switch from year to year, it was an identical amount of time spent with each family because that’s what is fair. If your first commitment isn’t to each other, it’s not a workable situation. Having on partner sacrificing everything for the other is disastrous.
This is a solid deal breaker, he’s not your person, he’s his family’s person. Now what are you going to do?
Thank you!
I think so too. I’m going to look into for him. It’s not something I want to break up over. It’s something I can’t deal with on my own though,
Guys can have female friends, and women can have male friends. That's that.
However, it does sound like your girlfriend is giving out some weird signals. Telling you directly that if she hangs out with this guy a lot, one of them will catch feelings for the other is just…a really weird thing to say if she isn't already thinking about either him liking her or her liking him or them dating. And if that were the only thing, I'd say, “Hey, give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she was trying to make some weird, dark humor joke, and it just didn't land.”
But it doesn't seem like that's the only thing. If y'all made plans to go on a specific kind of date (ice skating) and she immediately goes and does that with another guy, that's really freaking weird behavior. Like suspicious behavior.
If it were me, I'd say that you need to talk to her directly about this stuff, and be prepared for the conversation to go a way you won't like. Something like: “Hey, after you made that comment about you or him developing feelings if y'all hung out a lot, I've noticed that y'all have been hanging out a lot, and that you've done stuff with him that I thought was stuff we planned to do together for dates. It just kind of feels, to me, like y'all's relationship is moving beyond simple friendship. I don't want to prohibit you from hanging out with people, but I do want to have a conversation about this. Am I way off base here, or is this something that you think will become a problem for our future together?”
If she confesses that she likes him, don't let it drag out. Just end it.
It’s shit like this that makes me terrified to be married
No worries, sometimes you just need to vent.
Do you have any real basis to your fear that he won't help you if you're down on your luck? Because if you do, then that's a little worrying.
If you dont, trust me I know that insecurities can be crippling at times, but talk to him OP.
There is not one way to be Syrian, just like there is not one way to be Swedish I’m sure. Both culturally and also with individual differences.
Some people seem to have left traditions behind but the guilt etc makes them retreat when they start a family. Or some have a rigid personality that gets controlling.
If he can’t negotiate on this there will be much more trouble coming.
Glad you broke up. Hope you recover easy