was it her who sent your bf the nude? were they her tits?
she doesn't sound like a great friend tbh
it sounds like developmentally she's still a teenager, and that she peaked in her late teens, and that she's used to getting what she wants even if that means being underhand
But I feel that she's gone too far by airing our dirty laundry
It's not her dirty laundry, it's yours.
when this should really be kept as a private matter between us.
Why? What reason does she have to keep it private? She has no obligation to preserve any privacy after you randomly asked her for sex. If anything, she's justified to tell everyone that knows you that you're the kind of person that will randomly proposition their friends for sex without any leadup whatsoever.
This isn’t “the male mind,” my dude; it’s just straight up toxic
You can't fix this. And if you're having sex, you can bring a baby into this chaos.
Dating is about finding someone compatible to make a life-long commitment. Choose wisely.
was it her who sent your bf the nude? were they her tits?
she doesn't sound like a great friend tbh
it sounds like developmentally she's still a teenager, and that she peaked in her late teens, and that she's used to getting what she wants even if that means being underhand
It’s not normal for any marriage, love.
But I feel that she's gone too far by airing our dirty laundry
It's not her dirty laundry, it's yours.
when this should really be kept as a private matter between us.
Why? What reason does she have to keep it private? She has no obligation to preserve any privacy after you randomly asked her for sex. If anything, she's justified to tell everyone that knows you that you're the kind of person that will randomly proposition their friends for sex without any leadup whatsoever.
At least my man doesn’t need to watch cam girls to get off ?
I'm not really here to offer much more other than… I call that a red flag, anyone else?
Hell no!