What you need at this point is transparency from your husband. No more vague details. The truth. He needs to answer your questions and together come up with a plan. Whatever the outcome, communicating needs to be first.
Men are allowed to have boundaries and are allowed to make life decisions, just because you’re not happy with it doesn’t mean you follow him back to another country, continually pester him to work things out, break his privacy going through his private property…ma’am he told you it’s over and it’s over
I definitely did not miss it as I stated in my comment I know it's biologically not possible. Just like when I was 12 I knew it biologically wasn't possible and I was still concerned. IF she has an irrational fear about pregnancy to this extent, you cannot apply rational logic to it. It's like telling OCD people to stop washing their hands or flicking light switches 10 times cause they're fine either way. It's not rational, so you can't just be like “be rational”
Again, it's a way higher likelihood she's cheating. But crazy things happen all the time so I threw out one, albeit very unlikely possibility.
Happy Cake Day!!
I wouldn't have
I'm sorry…..
I seem to have missed the part where you have a fucking gun to your head.
….so your lazy ass is putting up with this shit why again?
What you need at this point is transparency from your husband. No more vague details. The truth. He needs to answer your questions and together come up with a plan. Whatever the outcome, communicating needs to be first.
If there’s no children between you two why would you even be talking to her.
I appreciate your input on this! I had to check myself.
How many times does this man have to tell you no?
Men are allowed to have boundaries and are allowed to make life decisions, just because you’re not happy with it doesn’t mean you follow him back to another country, continually pester him to work things out, break his privacy going through his private property…ma’am he told you it’s over and it’s over
I definitely did not miss it as I stated in my comment I know it's biologically not possible. Just like when I was 12 I knew it biologically wasn't possible and I was still concerned. IF she has an irrational fear about pregnancy to this extent, you cannot apply rational logic to it. It's like telling OCD people to stop washing their hands or flicking light switches 10 times cause they're fine either way. It's not rational, so you can't just be like “be rational”
Again, it's a way higher likelihood she's cheating. But crazy things happen all the time so I threw out one, albeit very unlikely possibility.
She sounds super pretentious
Fair question. I am going off the assumption that there was previous interaction between them, and they didn't meet and then start dating so quickly.
Why is he done?
Stand by for cheating round two. She has shown no remorse and taken no accountability. Good luck with this.
It doesn't seem to be about that tho. Do you guys ever have real conversations about issues or just beat around the bush all the time?
Why are you married at 23? To a guy who is that obviously manipulative and controlling?
Get a divorce. Fast.