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Date: October 21, 2022
Yes.
But seriously, I wouldn’t see an issue with you guys slowing down a bit. Nothings wrong so far, but if you guys are so strong then taking stuff slower and giving each other breathing room won’t break it. At least it shouldn’t.
You’ve just come out of an abusive relationship, and have a whole lotta life in front of you. Take some time, whether in a relationship or not, to figure yourself out some more. He should do the same. This is not me saying break up, it’s make sure you’ve got breathing room and your own seperate support system.
It sounds like this IVF thing is causing a lot of stress for both you and your husband. The most important thing is to make sure you're both happy and healthy, both physically and mentally.
From the sounds of it, it seems like IVF just isn't the right fit for you right now. And that's okay! There's no shame in that. It's important to listen to your own feelings and not let anyone else pressure you into something that you're not comfortable with.
As for your husband's concerns, it's understandable that he wants to have a child and it's important to have open and honest communication with him about how you're feeling. Maybe try to find a compromise, like exploring other options for having a baby or seeking counseling to work through the anxieties and fears you're facing.
At the end of the day, what's most important is that you're happy and healthy. Don't let anyone, even your husband, make you feel guilty for prioritizing your own well-being. Stick to your guns and do what's best for you.
thanks for the update.
as said the guy in jurassic park ” it's boring to always been right”. i am really happy you believe us and that you acted accordingly.
the bottom line is that she would never tolerate that you do half of what she did to you.
have no regret. you played it nice and clean. she is out of her mind (it is not a bi exploration thing, it is a love affair thing). there was no common ground for negociation.
She gets to choose who she engages with, and how. You, however, get to choose who you are in a relationship with. You've apparently expressed your concern with the issue, and feel that you've been disregarded, so you now have 2 choices, suck it up, or move on. I don't suggest beating a dead horse, because that's just going to lead to arguments and resentment.
I’m going to chime in too.
Catching things “just in time” is not the same as having a plan, communicating the plan, and executing the plan and doing so consistently such that people have confidence that you do in fact, have it under control.
And when you’re the person who typically has to clean up messes when other people drop the ball, it’s a lot easier to just get ahead of it.
Part of my actual real life job is to be looking for potential risks and come up with strategies in advance to mitigate them. I think about every possible thing that could go wrong and make sure all of the bases are covered well before there’s a problem.
In my personal life, it’s not much different. My friends don’t need that of me but my family sure does. And my partner often does.
So when you post here talking about your romanticized view on having kids, it makes me think “this dude has no clue” and it’s like you’re not considering all the possibilities—you’re just banking on everything will just work out some how. And it likely will. But not because you were prepared in advance.
Insecure much?