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Well they’re not even official yet so technically he didn’t do anything wrong — morally sure but that’s besides the point. Cheating falls on the person doing it not the single person. You did nothing wrong and he’s trying to deflect his guilt onto you. Don’t worry about it and just move in. I’d distance myself from him if I were you.
I felt your heartbreak while reading this. I am so, so sorry that he did that to you, without an explanation, without a why and get this, everyone is entitled to do things but no one is entitled to hurt anyone and what he did to you was just shitty and disgusting. It is normal that you feel played/toyed with but let me tell you, moving on will be hard, tears will appear and heart ache will come and go but you, your own world and the support you can give yourself will always be there??
I support you. I wish you well and I hope you don't let it get to you, you are worth like you can't imagine.
You could turn your gf low esteem on its head and tell her that your ex was a poison that spread to every pore in your body, and that you feel so blessed to have found your current gf because you never thought you would. Tell her she is like breathing pure oxygen and brings you happiness every day.
Tell her that you don’t think of your ex as your “first” anything because it wasn’t the joyful experience it should have been. Tell her that she holds that place in your heart.
Apart from that, there’s nothing you can do, your gf needs to self help for her low esteem.
Happy Birthday brother! Be grateful that the trash took itself out. Work on yourself and stay positive and do not entertain her again. Been there, my ex-girlfriend left me for another guy and when she was not treated right she wanted to come back and start it afresh.
Ah yes, have a child with an abusive man.. great idea ? can’t see anything going wrong here
How old is he supposed to be? Maybe she is a very private person when she come to kid. Maybe she doesn't have custody. Does she ever talk about him? Have you all discussed children meeting?
So “living in (double) sin” is okay, but “making honest men of each other” is a problem? That’s some really impressive mental gymnastics. Hopefully he sprained something.
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do you have any children with her?
if you don't, it makes this situation “less harder” to you, cause you already know what you have to do, because you possibly will never trust her again.
and you better be careful, cause if you don't have children with her, she can try to get pregnant and trap you into a relationship with her, and believe me, you don't want to be in this position, cause you will be resentful and this “family” will become toxic very quickly, and no child should be on this environment.
before you decide if you stay or if you leave, you better don't have sex with her and never believe if she says she's taking the pills.
chose very wisely what will be your next steps to make sure you will have no resentment, regret, anger and disgust if you stay with her.
if you think you can't overcome her betrayal, you better go separated ways.
you have a decision to make, and it's not easy for you, but you have to be rational in this moment.
Yeah definitely don’t re-marry her
Tbh it doesn’t sound like you’re really interested in staying friends with her. Just because you have history with someone doesn’t mean you must constantly subject yourself to their drama forever. Stop being her friend ??♀️
I don’t necessarily agree or disagree. The guy was in a 4 year relationship and started dating her only after a month; if I’m not mistaken. I don’t necessarily think he’s ready. Does he have feelings for her, probably, is he trying to get over his feelings for the ex while dating her, I think so also.
If you think someone will leave you over not spending an exorbitant amount on a ring when you’re already borrowing for a wedding, you’re not in a healthy relationship. This is seriously fucked yo.
What about it stresses you out?
As women we undergo tests like cervical swabs and in many cases – the ultrasound that is inserted inside the vagina like a massive dildo. We also undergo breast examinations that are painful. I’ve undergone them all – including a mammogram.
I’ve undergone so many surgeries. They aren’t pleasant but at least three were emergency (I would have died) and the rest were to improve my quality of life (ear & throat surgeries) + endoscopes and colonoscopies.
Don’t have the IVF. Don’t deal with your anxiety. Avoid all health related screenings. You will end up sick and alone.
Or, you can deal with your issues. Maybe your husband will stick by you.
Jesus – no confession, please. Just never bring her around BF and yes ofc you tell him to help him understand what is happening with your Bestie.
This is illegal and called revenge porn. You need to tell his ex and tell the police. If you've sent him any nudes you need to try and delete them.
Ew.
Yeah, it feels like I need to break up with him. But it sucks because I didn’t want to, I really love(d) him.
when a friend is going through some situation (e.g. my friend wants kids, his wife does not, etc.), I share such facts with her and we discuss
How do your friends feel about this?
When I tell someone something, I told them, not their circle, not their partner.
If I found out my friend was sharing private information with someone that I hadn’t actively decided to share it with, we wouldn’t be friends for long.
Did your dad meet that person on a radio? I’m confused. I don’t see a difference between that & talking to your neighbor.
Unless he told you it’s a sex thing or you have real reason to believe it is, this feels very controlling.
Give yourself a set amount of time to grieve, like week. Listen to the saddest music you can find. Call your friends and cry. Hug your mom. Hold your cat all day while staring at the wall. Eat comfort food. Wear your pajamas all day.
And then, at the end of that time period, get up, eat something that’s good for you, go outside, get some exercise, make fun plans with friends, buy a fantastic outfit, get a great new haircut, and go have a great life.
How about an audible subscription? It’s like getting him a new book every month!
Please stop posting this offensive nonsense.
You can't make a bigot identify with you because they see you as less than themselves and not as human as they are. Anything you say to them is going to be heard through that filter.
Why did you marry an Italian woman if that's the case? Why didn't you marry a woman from your own country and culture?