The sick thing is my ex best friend is the one who dared my boyfriend to cheat with her gay guy friend. My boyfriend is bi. They did end up having sex.
Would that be an asexual thing? I haven’t always been into it but I would never say it always sucks, if I felt that way I wouldn’t have it at all and consider myself asexual.
It's seriously unlikely this guy will be the last.
What I'm trying to say is that she'll undergo a personality change or change in values at some point within three months to maybe a year. As you said before, you both matured. She'll keep maturing and likely change as a person. What's acceptable at the start of a relationship can easily change later on in it when you're young and changing so much anyway.
Even more so, she's literally 19. This is more of a “feel-it-out” and learning what you like and dislike kind of age.
I'm suggesting that it's highly likely this guy won't work out. You were close for too long for her NOT to think of you when they break up.
She handled it maturely. Shoved the emotions down and didn't break down right then. It's also possible she's thinking about things and sorting out how she feels.
You can always ask, but the answer doesn't have to be yes.
I also recommend the book Come As You Are.
My ex husband put a lot of pressure on sex, too. “It's how I feel connected. Is it so bad to want to love my wife?” OP, you should look up marital coersion. He wanted sex to have his connection, but didn't care what I said would make me feel more connected.
Thank you so much! It’s funny you say that you had a relationship with someone you had a ton of chemistry with because that’s what the relationship I just left was. We had a ton of chemistry, we made each other laugh, and she was always there. I loved her a ton, but at the same time, I also had that feeling of something missing.
I had different emotional needs than she did, I had different wants and as time passed I realized I wasn’t happy. That’s kinda why the OTGA came up. The emotional needs I was missing is what she had, but the care and loyalty my latest ex was also important.
Someone’s out there with those traits and I’m lucky to have met both women, same as my previous exes, but now is the time to focus on me
Yes, her friend's recent trauma probably scared her, but she doesn't have any reason to accuse you of these horrible things. As far as I would be concerned, the trust is gone. The relationship as you knew it is over.
Diets quickly turn into disordered eating. I hear what you're saying. Some people need to be strict to keep weight off. But you want to be on the healthy side and not disordered eating side. Orthorexia and anorexia often occur due to severe restricted eating.
I hate people like him and you’re enabling his abuse. He’s a sick psycho. Take the dog and give it to someone who’s not a piece of abusive shit. You stay or you go, IDGAF. The dog is helpless and has no one to protect it.
The sick thing is my ex best friend is the one who dared my boyfriend to cheat with her gay guy friend. My boyfriend is bi. They did end up having sex.
Who the fuck has sex with someone on a dare?
This has to be a troll post by a 14 year old.
But he said himself he's not insecure about it.
with what? within the relationship? or now?
Is he on Reddit asking why he doesn’t have a girl? No he’s out there talking to females and is probably confident with Alpha vibes
She sounds spoiled. Get rid of her and keep the puppy .
Yes it can, but Reddit will say otherwise.
Would that be an asexual thing? I haven’t always been into it but I would never say it always sucks, if I felt that way I wouldn’t have it at all and consider myself asexual.
It's seriously unlikely this guy will be the last.
What I'm trying to say is that she'll undergo a personality change or change in values at some point within three months to maybe a year. As you said before, you both matured. She'll keep maturing and likely change as a person. What's acceptable at the start of a relationship can easily change later on in it when you're young and changing so much anyway.
Even more so, she's literally 19. This is more of a “feel-it-out” and learning what you like and dislike kind of age.
I'm suggesting that it's highly likely this guy won't work out. You were close for too long for her NOT to think of you when they break up.
She handled it maturely. Shoved the emotions down and didn't break down right then. It's also possible she's thinking about things and sorting out how she feels.
Shouldn't a partner be able to ask for sex acts?
You can always ask, but the answer doesn't have to be yes.
I also recommend the book Come As You Are.
My ex husband put a lot of pressure on sex, too. “It's how I feel connected. Is it so bad to want to love my wife?” OP, you should look up marital coersion. He wanted sex to have his connection, but didn't care what I said would make me feel more connected.
Thank you so much! It’s funny you say that you had a relationship with someone you had a ton of chemistry with because that’s what the relationship I just left was. We had a ton of chemistry, we made each other laugh, and she was always there. I loved her a ton, but at the same time, I also had that feeling of something missing.
I had different emotional needs than she did, I had different wants and as time passed I realized I wasn’t happy. That’s kinda why the OTGA came up. The emotional needs I was missing is what she had, but the care and loyalty my latest ex was also important.
Someone’s out there with those traits and I’m lucky to have met both women, same as my previous exes, but now is the time to focus on me
Yes, her friend's recent trauma probably scared her, but she doesn't have any reason to accuse you of these horrible things. As far as I would be concerned, the trust is gone. The relationship as you knew it is over.
????? I’m surprised you have any sexual attraction to him at all considering how disgusting this is
Diets quickly turn into disordered eating. I hear what you're saying. Some people need to be strict to keep weight off. But you want to be on the healthy side and not disordered eating side. Orthorexia and anorexia often occur due to severe restricted eating.
If you think you need a “last hoorah” before getting married, you shouldn't be getting married.
I hate people like him and you’re enabling his abuse. He’s a sick psycho. Take the dog and give it to someone who’s not a piece of abusive shit. You stay or you go, IDGAF. The dog is helpless and has no one to protect it.