He is actually very kind and supportive, with a good career (we’re both nurses), but this time management isn’t his best trait. I don’t think all men are like that who are older, but people do have some faults, noone is perfect. I’ll try and talk to him about it! Thanks tho ?
Well, I guess I was very young when I met him. By the way in Spain is legal to date someone if he/she is 18 years old. Maybe you're right, but I do love him and he does care about me… It's just that he is centering his life in his job. I told him multiple times money doesn't matter to me but… He keeps trying to gain more and more money. But he hasn't bought me an engagement ring yet though, even when I told him I would like one (we don't want to marry legally but the rings I like)
This whole post if fake AF, but in the interest of the game. She only says here that she “told him” that she was faithful. But, she avoids the question if she was actually faithful here.
Rules for dating are stupid, do what’s best for yourself and your comfort, be honest and upfront, if they don’t like it then you know it’s not the person to keep dating
What advice would you give to your mother? your sister? your best friend? your daughter? if they came to you and said their boyfriend/husband gets drunk, punches them, pushes them to the floor, and strangles them?
I'm wondering why you would think that a puppy is going to solve your problems. A puppy is a HUGE responsibility. If you don't have a major amount of time to devote EVERY DAY to the puppy, do not get a puppy.
I would ask for her to consider another evaluation for PPD. To make sure her treatment is actually effective for her symptoms and to help with your transition back to the office. Also ask her if she could consider couples counseling to help strengthen your relationship and all of the changes you have been through. Tell her that you want to not fight, but work on communicating better.
You both need to have clear rules so there is no wiggle room or hurt feelings. If you don’t feel comfortable with this situation then you need to let him know.
Calm down. Or does your life revolve around trying to judge others?
Is disagreeing with you now seen as someone getting worked up? You seem to not be able to handle someone challenging your views.
I'm offering perspective. You're just offering judgement and trying to tear others down.
Judging someone's actions is not trying to tear them down, it's holding them responsible. I feel like you don't know the difference.
I'm not going to tear apart each of your comments… Just gonna suggest you grow up and learn a little.
Again, you for some reason can't handle opposing viewpoints or opinions. Why don't you take your own advice and learn how to have a conversation like an adult. You have a good day.
This dynamic is very much like my own family. A visit is the last thing any of us would want in this situation, and further insistence or an unannounced visit would be very unappreciated.
It's far more likely that he understands his mother's needs better than you or OP do. Bonus casual sexism.
You did good.
No one is gonna buy that bs that text was just song lyrics. The worse thing is that he don't even have the gall to owe up when caught.
You have friendship expectations from someone who appears to be only an acquaintance.
Good advice
He is actually very kind and supportive, with a good career (we’re both nurses), but this time management isn’t his best trait. I don’t think all men are like that who are older, but people do have some faults, noone is perfect. I’ll try and talk to him about it! Thanks tho ?
Well, I guess I was very young when I met him. By the way in Spain is legal to date someone if he/she is 18 years old. Maybe you're right, but I do love him and he does care about me… It's just that he is centering his life in his job. I told him multiple times money doesn't matter to me but… He keeps trying to gain more and more money. But he hasn't bought me an engagement ring yet though, even when I told him I would like one (we don't want to marry legally but the rings I like)
This whole post if fake AF, but in the interest of the game. She only says here that she “told him” that she was faithful. But, she avoids the question if she was actually faithful here.
All sounds highly lame and concerning. There's better d*ck out there for you my friend.
Rules for dating are stupid, do what’s best for yourself and your comfort, be honest and upfront, if they don’t like it then you know it’s not the person to keep dating
What advice would you give to your mother? your sister? your best friend? your daughter? if they came to you and said their boyfriend/husband gets drunk, punches them, pushes them to the floor, and strangles them?
I'm wondering why you would think that a puppy is going to solve your problems. A puppy is a HUGE responsibility. If you don't have a major amount of time to devote EVERY DAY to the puppy, do not get a puppy.
I would ask for her to consider another evaluation for PPD. To make sure her treatment is actually effective for her symptoms and to help with your transition back to the office. Also ask her if she could consider couples counseling to help strengthen your relationship and all of the changes you have been through. Tell her that you want to not fight, but work on communicating better.
You both need to have clear rules so there is no wiggle room or hurt feelings. If you don’t feel comfortable with this situation then you need to let him know.
Calm down. Or does your life revolve around trying to judge others?
Is disagreeing with you now seen as someone getting worked up? You seem to not be able to handle someone challenging your views.
I'm offering perspective. You're just offering judgement and trying to tear others down.
Judging someone's actions is not trying to tear them down, it's holding them responsible. I feel like you don't know the difference.
I'm not going to tear apart each of your comments… Just gonna suggest you grow up and learn a little.
Again, you for some reason can't handle opposing viewpoints or opinions. Why don't you take your own advice and learn how to have a conversation like an adult. You have a good day.
Tell the neighborhood chat! That’s great advice. Especially if there are a lot of women in it.
I disagree.
This dynamic is very much like my own family. A visit is the last thing any of us would want in this situation, and further insistence or an unannounced visit would be very unappreciated.
It's far more likely that he understands his mother's needs better than you or OP do. Bonus casual sexism.