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Nah a message like ‘hey I’m going to be in town in a few weeks and I was wondering if you would want to meet up’ doesn’t seem wierd
I'm a lawyer.
If it's a public employer–definitely. Especially with the whole demotion thing. Can't guarantee you'd win, but you have a case for sure. Depends on how well you can prove the unfair treatment. It also depends whether your employment was at-will.
If it's a private employer—maybe. It's called “alienation of affection.” Tortious interference in the marital affairs of another. You'd be suing the individual, not the employer.
I don't know the contract you had with your job, but you might be able to find a way the company's actions violated it.
You’re the judgmental 24 year old virgin who thinks he can do better than a 23 year old with a past.
Enjoy your morals and fedoras.
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Would you break up with him if he cheated on you with a girl?
Girl, I am so sorry this happened with you. This sucks big time and I know a bit of what you go through. I, myself am in a “similar” situation. I’m in a different country, away from friends family and everyone I know. I live with someone I don’t love anymore but I can’t leave either cause I can’t pay for everything on my own, I have no drivers license and no car so I turned to findom. I have to make this work cause it’s currently my only mean to be independent. But about you, this guy doesn’t deserve and honestly, your child doesn’t deserve it either. The kid will grow up full of trauma for seeing you fighting. Don’t do it. Get out as soon as you possibly can. Plan everything and just leave. Don’t look behind.
See that was my thought when I was a but younger but nah, I know people who'd be fantastic spouses with hearts the size of the moon and yet they seem almost put off by settling down. They'll be exclusive, but they won't stay longer than a year
Or, she could get an abortion. Let's say her autoimmune disease that attacks the fetus leaves her fetus developmentally disabled. No one is going to want to adopt that child and it will languish with thousands of others in an institution and/or foster care. She should talk to her doctor
Honestly, get in touch with the ex and ask him straight up.
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I’ve had some really nasty days and he knows that this environment is toxic for me and not ideal
I feel like there's a whoooole lot not being said about those “really nasty days” that OP has had.
How much does he drink and how often? In your post you mentioned you had a discussion about boundaries around his drinking behavior because he was drinking with a male coworker the day before this incident. So drinks with a coworker, goes to work the next day and drinks on shift with customers and coworkers, then drinks after shift with a coworker(s), bad things happen and he obliterates all the drinking boundaries you two agreed on but insists this environment is good for him.
Why did you guys have discussions and agreements about drinking boundaries and behaviors in the first place? Is his drinking an issue?
No better way of blowing something out of proportion than asking strangers on the internet. Wishing you the best of luck.
Yup, very common, no biggie
She succeeded at that. If your partner doesn't like surprises, who is that surprise for? Clearly not the partner.
My hubs used to be insecure about his “quick” finishing time. I’m one of those women who can’t orgasm until he does because of feelings. Maybe your wife is like this?
However, the way she responded and then made herself the victim is horrible and vile. I have bulimia and I remember getting in the car after being diagnosed. I told my MIL and she laughed at me too. It hurts and then they act like it’s your fault for being to “sensitive” or “taking it the wrong way”.
I’m sorry man, I really am :((
Thank you so much
im humble enough to be honest and agree that its a combination of “wake up call” and “resentment”
Did you have the children with you pretty much full time during school year and the ex had them only on holidays.
my friend wasn't serious and you could tell she wasn't serious when calling my gf ugly, so I don't see what the issue is. we all knew she wasn't serious and even my friend was surprised that she got confronted about it the next day. So is my friend also wrong because she was being all “wow I'm surprised she actually got offended, live and learn I guess” to which summed up the sort of feelings I had where it was clearly a joke
Explain how it was a joke though. What was the punchline? Why was us supposed to be funny.
It has to be in a neutral and safe space or it's not happening if as you said things didn't end up well last time.
He’s a big ass. It is not at all appropriate for him to be running off with some girl on a hiking trip while giving you BS reasoning; never mind a girl you don’t even know and he just barely knows. What an asshat. Read your edit, good for you for the plans on flushing this turd.
Means you are better off letting her solve her problems alone. She needs to work on her own mental health hurdles instead of straining her relationships over nothing. This is likely to continue to be an issue. Right now it’s your ex and your likes to people who don’t matter. Next it’s your family or friends.
She sounds unhinged and unpleasant.
I feel so bad for OP.
That mother is an absolute garbage human being. Destroyed his life and her daughters life.
I'm so sorry OP. Please keep a positive heart, you were deceived and you did the right thing telling the truth.
Will they only watch the kids once a year or something? Can you not hire a sitter also?
There’s a reason women in their 30s won’t date this man.
Why did he even need to “approve” your clothes in the first place? In 12 years, I've never had to get approval from my partner about my clothes.
Your boyfriend is jealous and controlling. He literally thinks you dressed like that to attract other men so you could fuck them. His thinking is majorly warped. He then ruined your whole night, then tried to gaslight you into feeling bad FOR HIM cos he was being such a shithead all night, all over a pair of pants.
Gross. He has no business being anywhere near women.
Additional information: I don’t think he stole since we usually get checks from my dad to make sure that we directly pay the school. I’m guessing he threw those. But there’s still a possibility that he got cash and stole it which I’m not completely rulling out.
I don’t think you are looking at things wrong. I believe the best relationship is between two people that are both okay on their own but have chosen each other. Is he capable of doing life without you? It sounds more like a parent/child relationship that 2 equals. If he isn’t capable of living a life outside of this relationship then he isn’t ready to get married. It sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. You are both very young. Don’t rush into a marriage.
You found a used condom and you gave him the benefit of the doubt? Are you serious? He's cheating on you. Dump him.
Hi OP, I live in America and I’m in a similar situation to you.
I live with my bf (who works full time – 40 hrs. / week) and I work part time (22 hrs. / week). I earn a very high hourly rate and make about $500 less each month than my bf. We live with roommates in a house my bf owns.
I contribute by buying groceries, toiletries and other essential items for my bf and me. We alternate paying for takeout and typically get take out 4-5x a month. I also do 90% of the housework / chores and purchase household items as needed (unless it’s a huge purchase that deals with house maintenance – that’s my bf’s responsibility).
He used to be really jealous of my work schedule and would make comments about it often. Even though he could see that I was using my free time on things that benefitted us as a couple or things that I’d have to do anyway after work if I worked full time (chores, grocery shopping, exercising, doctor appointment, car maintenance, etc.), he was still jealous that I wasn’t cooped up at work for 8 hours a day.
It kind of sounds like your girlfriend is just jealous that you work less, earn as much as she does and have more time for other things too. Maybe talk to her and see if it would help for you to pick up some tasks that give her more free time? For example, you can cook dinner more often or do a larger bulk of house tasks.
Absolutely! This is his problem, not yours! He has no right to lose hus temper. He needs to live alone on a desert island.
You’re paying for him to shower someone else with love. Don’t have it ❌ just tell him you’re breaking up, you don’t owe him any explaination I think he’ll know what he has done
Because she flat out said she would right from the start? And because her boyfriend seems insecure and controlling, so I’m sure she’s just avoiding another blow up, as women often do in relationships with controlling or abusive men.
Because she flat out said she would right from the start? And because her boyfriend seems insecure and controlling, so I’m sure she’s just avoiding another blow up, as women often do in relationships with controlling or abusive men.
Because she flat out said she would right from the start? And because her boyfriend seems insecure and controlling, so I’m sure she’s just avoiding another blow up, as women often do in relationships with controlling or abusive men.
It sounds like he has a normal sex drive just much higher than yours. It also sounds like he is a good person who did not want to be unfaithful to his partner. If a male over the age of 15 does not have a normal sex drive, they should get checked out by a dr to make sure their testosterone lvl are good. You need to be extremely upfront with any future partners that sex is basically off the table. It is cool that you don't want to have sex. You have every right to live your life how you want. Do not feel pressured into anything that makes you uncomfortable. As an aside, I have no idea about female hormones, but you might ask your Dr about it. You might have some type of imbalance that is treatable? Like I said, not Dr. No idea but it might be worth looking into.
Yup. She needs to bail outta that mess
You gotta find a guy with a low sex drive.
It's proved disruptive for you and your partner to live there. While it's understandable in the short term, both of you are going to have to work together to make it more tenable. You're going to have to force yourself to double check your work so you don't keep annoying these people. Your partner is going to need to follow after you to make sure you're not leaving things behind. Maintaining a decent relationship with these people has to be absolutely paramount to both you and your partner should your relationship have any future. Everyone's got problems, including your partner's parents. So everyone's going to have to work together to get through this uncomfortable period of time.
Who said anything about judgement. She was disappointed because she looked up to her as another in her religion “spiritually” if someone claims to have your values and it is shown they don’t it is completely fine to be disappointed in them.
Fuck him OP. I don’t wear excessively revealing clothing (not that there’s a problem with that either) but I’ll wear shorts, a cute dress, whatever if I want to. And guess what my boyfriend does? Hypes me up, compliments me, and let’s me go out WITHOUT him if I want to. There are men out there who are not only secure in themselves, but will also listen to you/your reasoning, trust and BELIEVE you. Please leave him.
No
Lmao this is fake af. Otherwise my 5 year old son has more awareness and spine than you my dude.
Take the trash out, or enjoy tasting someone else’s potential kids for the rest of your life ?♂️
How can you not be in a relationship but exclusive? The label is : we are talking
He is in the picture, and she told me that she would be okay sleeping next to him naked as well but it hasn't happened because they don't live together.
He is in the picture, and she told me that she would be okay sleeping next to him naked as well but it hasn't happened because they don't live together.
It sounds like this has triggered something in you and it's important to realize that.
I've seen a million topics calling out male controlling and manipulative behavior like this
If anything this post tells me he isn’t homophobic. He’s treating his gf and her friends like he would another straight man.
The people downvoting you should really read OP's post history
No way this is real. If it is, get out of your toxic relationship.
If your gf can't handle not getting a good luck then she is not ready for a relationship. She's 19, not 1
OMG. Your edit. I’m flabbergasted and sad. Are men seriously this crass? I’m a man. I would never dream of sending such a message.
Not a Nazi necessarily, just a transphobe! They definitely often align with Nazis though
OK so I kinda get his concerns. Being off the grid an entire weekend every month is scary to a lot of people. What if an emergency happens and no one can reach you? What if something happens to you (a women all alone in the woods with her phone turned off) and no one notices becuase they're not expecting to hear from you for 3 days.
HOWEVER I think he's using those very real concerns as a way to be a clingy, controlling a hole. It seems he badgers you until you give an inch and then he takes a whole city block. Getting you to put your phone on so he can spam you all day, then a phone call to check in so he can trap you down for a massive conversation. What he's doing basically is slowly whittling down the peace and quite you have there until it's not worth the energy of going anymore. He's trying to wear you down so you just give up and don't go and stay with him and then he's won. It's controlling partner 101.
Hm , sorry I will revise this to 40 feet. I'm not good at measurements.
Good idea, ill leave my cards at home ? thank you ?
OP's mom is a fucking monster for this
You said it was open or divorce, that’s coercion. How obtuse can you be?