Kids are stressful, thats just the nature of dealing with child related things. Never did I once think it wouldn't be stressful. Raising a new born baby vs a kid who's idk 10, different challenges and different commitments.
It was an idea for this couple to potentially mull over and see if that was something that was in the cards given their lifestyle and family.
he responded in a way that made him the victim, while you were just trying to reach a middle ground of more fun time, i’d forget about him and find someone who isn’t emasculated by a vibrator
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If I had known my boyfriend at the time wanted to keep the baby, I wouldn’t have gone through with the abortion. Our relationship never recovered from the grief and resentment. I’m happily engaged now but I’m not sure I’ll ever have kids at this point. If you want to be a mother in this life and if your boyfriend is a good, loving, responsible partner, I would consider the option of keeping the baby. This is a conversation you need to have together though.
Yeah, my friend was saying the same – at the same time though this is going to be almost a year now and if I don't officially end it I'll keep wondering, but maybe I'll try this at first. Yep, exactly, master manipulation
You haven’t done anything wrong. This situation is exactly why people worry about the age gap- because he has so much more experience than you do, and he can’t pull this crap with older women who have seen it before.
You’re not being crazy. Drinking and getting angry and upset is standard behavior when your boyfriend invites his ex over and tells you to lay off so he can get away with fucking her.
Just remember he needs you but you don’t need him. You can do better. He can’t.
Well one is your best friend. I'd tell your best friend.
Kids are stressful, thats just the nature of dealing with child related things. Never did I once think it wouldn't be stressful. Raising a new born baby vs a kid who's idk 10, different challenges and different commitments.
It was an idea for this couple to potentially mull over and see if that was something that was in the cards given their lifestyle and family.
he responded in a way that made him the victim, while you were just trying to reach a middle ground of more fun time, i’d forget about him and find someone who isn’t emasculated by a vibrator
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Getting married did not help us tax wise at all. That’s sort of a ba reason to get married
If I had known my boyfriend at the time wanted to keep the baby, I wouldn’t have gone through with the abortion. Our relationship never recovered from the grief and resentment. I’m happily engaged now but I’m not sure I’ll ever have kids at this point. If you want to be a mother in this life and if your boyfriend is a good, loving, responsible partner, I would consider the option of keeping the baby. This is a conversation you need to have together though.
Yeah, my friend was saying the same – at the same time though this is going to be almost a year now and if I don't officially end it I'll keep wondering, but maybe I'll try this at first. Yep, exactly, master manipulation
You haven’t done anything wrong. This situation is exactly why people worry about the age gap- because he has so much more experience than you do, and he can’t pull this crap with older women who have seen it before.
You’re not being crazy. Drinking and getting angry and upset is standard behavior when your boyfriend invites his ex over and tells you to lay off so he can get away with fucking her.
Just remember he needs you but you don’t need him. You can do better. He can’t.