According to your post history you’ve been planning to leave her for almost 2 years and you’re still with her? I mean… break-up already, 2 years is enough preparation.
Serve her a eviction note inform her family (and please don’t give a fck about what they say) put camera anywhere in your house legal rent a storage unit, move valuable things to the unit and stay there for 30 days.
if you guys are constantly together. i do feel a level of understanding towards him. maybe talk about with him and hopefully he gives you reassurance that he loves you but would like a break with his friends. ( depending on how much time he really spends with him )
I called the police after the shower incident to get some advice. They wanted to talk to my daughter to see if anything else was done. I told them that I’m pretty positive it was just a shower and that I didn’t want her talked to yet. Especially if they can’t do anything over a shower. Which he said he couldn’t. I did recently receive a call asking for an update and if they could talk to her. I still am not ready for that. I hear all kinds of terrible things go on during interviews and she is only 6. I have text evidence that the shower happened, she told her to keep it a secret and that her dad did not know about it.
I also have text evidence about him not knowing about the bras. But he denies that they were for her to cover up. Even though that’s what she said and he didn’t even know about them until I told him.
I have nothing on the shower except for he said/she said. And nothing to show physical violence toward my son.
I do have texts of their dad saying that he does tell him she hits and bites him and that he’s a liar…
I haven’t gotten a lawyer because I don’t have the money and I’m not sure how much they will help. I hear divorce lawyers just want to fight and often make things worse?
So, if a young guy moved in next door that the wife found attractive and she spent long hours with him outside under the guise of doing yard work, all would be good with husband?
Could ask him to do the same? If communication doesn't work. Use his words against him. Let him feel what he does to you is insulting. Sometimes people needs to get a shovel ton reality to wake up.
But OP this 4 inch turd (sorry but not really) can't even respect you and his insecurities are being projected unto you. Are you still willing to stay?
According to your post history you’ve been planning to leave her for almost 2 years and you’re still with her? I mean… break-up already, 2 years is enough preparation.
Serve her a eviction note inform her family (and please don’t give a fck about what they say) put camera anywhere in your house legal rent a storage unit, move valuable things to the unit and stay there for 30 days.
Seriously, grow a spine and do it already.
He threatened your life, you don’t go back to that… you get away from that as fast as you can and you don’t look back.
if you guys are constantly together. i do feel a level of understanding towards him. maybe talk about with him and hopefully he gives you reassurance that he loves you but would like a break with his friends. ( depending on how much time he really spends with him )
I called the police after the shower incident to get some advice. They wanted to talk to my daughter to see if anything else was done. I told them that I’m pretty positive it was just a shower and that I didn’t want her talked to yet. Especially if they can’t do anything over a shower. Which he said he couldn’t. I did recently receive a call asking for an update and if they could talk to her. I still am not ready for that. I hear all kinds of terrible things go on during interviews and she is only 6. I have text evidence that the shower happened, she told her to keep it a secret and that her dad did not know about it.
I also have text evidence about him not knowing about the bras. But he denies that they were for her to cover up. Even though that’s what she said and he didn’t even know about them until I told him.
I have nothing on the shower except for he said/she said. And nothing to show physical violence toward my son.
I do have texts of their dad saying that he does tell him she hits and bites him and that he’s a liar…
I haven’t gotten a lawyer because I don’t have the money and I’m not sure how much they will help. I hear divorce lawyers just want to fight and often make things worse?
So, if a young guy moved in next door that the wife found attractive and she spent long hours with him outside under the guise of doing yard work, all would be good with husband?
Date him
Could ask him to do the same? If communication doesn't work. Use his words against him. Let him feel what he does to you is insulting. Sometimes people needs to get a shovel ton reality to wake up.
But OP this 4 inch turd (sorry but not really) can't even respect you and his insecurities are being projected unto you. Are you still willing to stay?
I told him leaving me at the pub was off limits. He apologised and said he felt I was flirting in front of him.
Ask him to drive you to the court house to file for an annulment.
Double standards are double standards.
If it's not good for thee, then it's not good for me.
Couple this with the fact that everyone is different, what works for 1 person, might not work for you.
Experiment.