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thank you! yes, no doubt. I don’t want what he can do for me, provide, etc. I love him for who he is at the core. if that’s not with me, i’m ok with that. i wsnt the best for him. no doubts and I had told him that I like him and accept him for who I have gotten the privilege to get to know
I would wait until after Christmas if your partner is the holiday kind. On the other hand it’s gonna eat you up inside and it’s always better to be honest. It’s also really important to let your partner have the opportunity to support you.
You shouldn’t have to go through the holidays like that alone. I’m sure your partner would want nothing more than to support you through this. The two of you can make the most of the time you have left.
I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I’ve spent holidays and birthdays in jail and it can be difficult. It’s important to remember that it’s temporary. They can’t keep you forever. I might suggest you tell your partner and make the most of your time together. Once your locked up you will wish you told your partner and held them a little closer. Good luck. You can get through this.
Right. He wants to have it all like the friend ain’t made her stance clear. She didn’t care for his marriage why he entertaining that at all is beyond me.
“She refuses to talk to me about moving. Any time its brought up she avoids the subject or tells me we’ll talk tomorrow, but we never do”
“My question is” – it doesn't matter what your question is!
You need to understand her, understand her reasoning and it must make sense to you. Her decision not to marry you is probably the smart decision on her part but still you need to understand it without blaming, shaming or questioning her feelings for you.
Then, you need to ask her this question: What do you want?
Then you need to listen and understand what is she telling you. It's very hard to understand it if you have a tunnel vision and think that you need to decide (like you feel right now). You both need to talk about the good, the bad and the ugly. Don't avoid or let her avoid those discussion.. it's important for both of you!
If you see that she's avoid tte question, not giving you answers.. then you should take a decision for both of you (probably end the relationship)
I read his post earlier today. Since they have been together they have cooked meals together and go shopping. And because she was sick in bed, he felt sad that he was doing things on his own.
Yea I wouldn’t be having kids with someone that cannot be there for a simple ultrasound. I remember my best friend (sadly) lost her child and her husband was there for everything holding her hand. He was the one communicating to her friends and family to update everyone. Literally only missed one appointment because of his job. I can’t imagine doing that alone. Things can go wrong in childbirth. You need a partner for this.
Thank you. I felt really yucky seeing a grown woman call the nearly full time mother of her child the ‘BM’. How disrespectful. And something I imagine OP has picked up from her deadbeat man child boyfriend. So let’s not be casting aspersions on the girl’s mother. Also, as a child I threw ‘not my real father’ at my step dad with no outside influence. The child can sense your frustrations and is acting accordingly.
Do everyone a favour here and end this relationship. Get a legally-accurate for your area eviction letter sorted and get his arse off the car loan for the car he can’t use and get rid of him. If he can’t house or care for his child, then he should have no visitation and should pay more child support.
No person that claims they love or you're the love of their life on date 2 is a healthy person you need to be involved with. He also pressured you for sex and couldn't be bothered to be sober nearly any interaction. You need some serious therapy to get you recognizing red flags and advocate for yourself not to see those things as attractive or put up with them, or you're just going to end right back up in this same type of ordeal excusing insane bullshit and getting involved with a toxic person.
Damn, amazing how some of you will take a post about a man being abusive to a woman and somehow manage to spin it into the woman being the problem. Y'all need to do better.
thank you! yes, no doubt. I don’t want what he can do for me, provide, etc. I love him for who he is at the core. if that’s not with me, i’m ok with that. i wsnt the best for him. no doubts and I had told him that I like him and accept him for who I have gotten the privilege to get to know
I would wait until after Christmas if your partner is the holiday kind. On the other hand it’s gonna eat you up inside and it’s always better to be honest. It’s also really important to let your partner have the opportunity to support you.
You shouldn’t have to go through the holidays like that alone. I’m sure your partner would want nothing more than to support you through this. The two of you can make the most of the time you have left.
I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I’ve spent holidays and birthdays in jail and it can be difficult. It’s important to remember that it’s temporary. They can’t keep you forever. I might suggest you tell your partner and make the most of your time together. Once your locked up you will wish you told your partner and held them a little closer. Good luck. You can get through this.
Right. He wants to have it all like the friend ain’t made her stance clear. She didn’t care for his marriage why he entertaining that at all is beyond me.
He could also move the cat box and clean it nightly. You could also adopt a positive attitude.
“She refuses to talk to me about moving. Any time its brought up she avoids the subject or tells me we’ll talk tomorrow, but we never do”
“My question is” – it doesn't matter what your question is!
You need to understand her, understand her reasoning and it must make sense to you. Her decision not to marry you is probably the smart decision on her part but still you need to understand it without blaming, shaming or questioning her feelings for you.
Then, you need to ask her this question: What do you want?
Then you need to listen and understand what is she telling you. It's very hard to understand it if you have a tunnel vision and think that you need to decide (like you feel right now). You both need to talk about the good, the bad and the ugly. Don't avoid or let her avoid those discussion.. it's important for both of you!
If you see that she's avoid tte question, not giving you answers.. then you should take a decision for both of you (probably end the relationship)
I read his post earlier today. Since they have been together they have cooked meals together and go shopping. And because she was sick in bed, he felt sad that he was doing things on his own.
Yea I wouldn’t be having kids with someone that cannot be there for a simple ultrasound. I remember my best friend (sadly) lost her child and her husband was there for everything holding her hand. He was the one communicating to her friends and family to update everyone. Literally only missed one appointment because of his job. I can’t imagine doing that alone. Things can go wrong in childbirth. You need a partner for this.
He has it easy. Cheap rent, meals, Laundry.
For me in your shoes, it would be an issue
Thank you. I felt really yucky seeing a grown woman call the nearly full time mother of her child the ‘BM’. How disrespectful. And something I imagine OP has picked up from her deadbeat man child boyfriend. So let’s not be casting aspersions on the girl’s mother. Also, as a child I threw ‘not my real father’ at my step dad with no outside influence. The child can sense your frustrations and is acting accordingly.
Do everyone a favour here and end this relationship. Get a legally-accurate for your area eviction letter sorted and get his arse off the car loan for the car he can’t use and get rid of him. If he can’t house or care for his child, then he should have no visitation and should pay more child support.
No person that claims they love or you're the love of their life on date 2 is a healthy person you need to be involved with. He also pressured you for sex and couldn't be bothered to be sober nearly any interaction. You need some serious therapy to get you recognizing red flags and advocate for yourself not to see those things as attractive or put up with them, or you're just going to end right back up in this same type of ordeal excusing insane bullshit and getting involved with a toxic person.
Damn, amazing how some of you will take a post about a man being abusive to a woman and somehow manage to spin it into the woman being the problem. Y'all need to do better.