Depending on where you live this might be (for lack of a better word) normal, but if this is in the North America (which I'm assuming based on the term DMV) you should definitely report.
As a woman, I understand that this might be “normal” for her, but just because it's “normal” doesn't make it right. We should never just accept behavior as normal because it happens often. I used to hate getting people in trouble, but as I've grown I've come to realize that I owe it to other females to make sure they're safe. Like many have pointed out, this is an abuse of power. Any person that thinks it's okay to do wickedness like this has already crossed the line. Our society has made it okay with letting unqualified (and complacent) and inappropriate people keep positions they shouldn't have. We do no one a service when we do that. It's a lose, lose for everyone. He signed himself up for consequences the minute he took her information.
She might be afraid to get him riled up by contacting his supervisors and/or the authorities, but if she keeps blowing him off, he will eventually get upset. It's best to get ahead of this situation.
Try sitting her down and explaining to her the extent of this situation. It's not that you don't trust her, it's that this is quite dangerous and inappropriate (even if this is his first time, it's one time too many. If he does it now, there's nothing saying he won't do it again). Assure her you'll have her back (it's not her word alone against his/the justice system).
I encourage you to at least seek some type of legal action if you don't end up seeking a restraining order. I'm not very educated on what options out there, but establish some kind of record/report.
I am a mother and wife and I fully support my husband’s Xbox hobby. Just bought him a series X for his birthday, hoping he loves it. He deserves to relax and unwind and Xbox is his favorite way to do that. He’s a supportive and wonderful husband and I’m happy to be able to help him relax. It sounds like you are doing everything you can to be a supportive partner, I hope your wife can soon realize you deserve to have some time alone to unwind, just as she does. But as others have said, she’s gotta find her own thing and not guilt you when you take that small period of time for yourself. I hope she is able to do that so you guys can each have your own “me time”.
I understand. I'm so depressed I cant eat or sleep. I'm going to a friends tomorrow for 3 days. Maybe she can help me.
Depending on where you live this might be (for lack of a better word) normal, but if this is in the North America (which I'm assuming based on the term DMV) you should definitely report.
As a woman, I understand that this might be “normal” for her, but just because it's “normal” doesn't make it right. We should never just accept behavior as normal because it happens often. I used to hate getting people in trouble, but as I've grown I've come to realize that I owe it to other females to make sure they're safe. Like many have pointed out, this is an abuse of power. Any person that thinks it's okay to do wickedness like this has already crossed the line. Our society has made it okay with letting unqualified (and complacent) and inappropriate people keep positions they shouldn't have. We do no one a service when we do that. It's a lose, lose for everyone. He signed himself up for consequences the minute he took her information.
She might be afraid to get him riled up by contacting his supervisors and/or the authorities, but if she keeps blowing him off, he will eventually get upset. It's best to get ahead of this situation.
Try sitting her down and explaining to her the extent of this situation. It's not that you don't trust her, it's that this is quite dangerous and inappropriate (even if this is his first time, it's one time too many. If he does it now, there's nothing saying he won't do it again). Assure her you'll have her back (it's not her word alone against his/the justice system).
I encourage you to at least seek some type of legal action if you don't end up seeking a restraining order. I'm not very educated on what options out there, but establish some kind of record/report.
Yeah….her reaction is oddly understated
I am a mother and wife and I fully support my husband’s Xbox hobby. Just bought him a series X for his birthday, hoping he loves it. He deserves to relax and unwind and Xbox is his favorite way to do that. He’s a supportive and wonderful husband and I’m happy to be able to help him relax. It sounds like you are doing everything you can to be a supportive partner, I hope your wife can soon realize you deserve to have some time alone to unwind, just as she does. But as others have said, she’s gotta find her own thing and not guilt you when you take that small period of time for yourself. I hope she is able to do that so you guys can each have your own “me time”.
Why is she in school if she's going to be a homemaker?