Terms like “boundaries” and “red flags” should be reserved for toxic or dysfunctional relationships. This ain't that: this is a fucking nightmare. I'm glad OP has woken up. For anyone else, this is your wake-up call.
I did find it weird he didn't say anything about it and I did ask him why he didn't say jack shit but he changed the topic again.. I really don't know about B anymore
Her reasoning for not wanting one is down to nonsensical religious brainwashing against them. If she wants to keep her marriage and family in tact, it's the only logical option.
I'm just stuck on the he told her he's sterile and can't have kids part. There's a reason he would say something like that and generally you have to get a semen analysis to know for sure or several pregnancy oops with orhers that you have zero knowledge of … especially being with him so long that's definitely something that you should have known about long long ago my dear.
Sounds like a trauma bond. The sex is working like an intermittent reward and intoxicating reprieve to her abuse. The only sane path forward is going cold turkey and NO CONTACT. Delete the photos and videos. Block her. Fill your life with healthy distractions until your brain stops firing down the usual pathways. You're almost 30. Time to exercise some self control.
Just wait until you hear about how shitty the creators of other mass media you enjoy are. The only difference between Rowling and basically every other author, director, actor, musician, game creator whose product you and your friends like is that most of them are careful to keep their crap off of social media. There's a saying “great men are rarely good men” and that also applies to women. J.K. and her TERFdom is just the flavor of the month in terms of outrage (and to be fair, WB who owns this game has its own legacy of abuse). You will be loathe to find any entertainment franchise that isn't tinged with both the unpleasantness of its creator and the venality of the corporation that brought it to you. So if you and your friend want to be consistent your activities will be extremely limited.
It’s possible but very rare hahaha, I think he was just freaking himself out
Sadly if we break up now, we’ll have to live together since neither of us can afford to live apart.
Terms like “boundaries” and “red flags” should be reserved for toxic or dysfunctional relationships. This ain't that: this is a fucking nightmare. I'm glad OP has woken up. For anyone else, this is your wake-up call.
I did find it weird he didn't say anything about it and I did ask him why he didn't say jack shit but he changed the topic again.. I really don't know about B anymore
Buy a bigger bed.
Her reasoning for not wanting one is down to nonsensical religious brainwashing against them. If she wants to keep her marriage and family in tact, it's the only logical option.
I'm just stuck on the he told her he's sterile and can't have kids part. There's a reason he would say something like that and generally you have to get a semen analysis to know for sure or several pregnancy oops with orhers that you have zero knowledge of … especially being with him so long that's definitely something that you should have known about long long ago my dear.
Sounds like a trauma bond. The sex is working like an intermittent reward and intoxicating reprieve to her abuse. The only sane path forward is going cold turkey and NO CONTACT. Delete the photos and videos. Block her. Fill your life with healthy distractions until your brain stops firing down the usual pathways. You're almost 30. Time to exercise some self control.
Lol….so now a partner has to discern when someone *really* means something they say or if they “clearly didn't mean it.”
What an impossible standard to set for a relationship.
What type of ketchup was it? Was it that fancy whataburger ketchup?
Just wait until you hear about how shitty the creators of other mass media you enjoy are. The only difference between Rowling and basically every other author, director, actor, musician, game creator whose product you and your friends like is that most of them are careful to keep their crap off of social media. There's a saying “great men are rarely good men” and that also applies to women. J.K. and her TERFdom is just the flavor of the month in terms of outrage (and to be fair, WB who owns this game has its own legacy of abuse). You will be loathe to find any entertainment franchise that isn't tinged with both the unpleasantness of its creator and the venality of the corporation that brought it to you. So if you and your friend want to be consistent your activities will be extremely limited.
Would you let your boyfriend be friends with his ex?
On the contrary, we love watching Anime together.