One thing that’s a must is a positive attitude and I don’t mean in your post. You’re frustrated and I assume rightfully so. Personally what I like to do is preheat the oven early in the morning so that it’s ready by the evening. I’m not objectifying I’m merely applying a metaphor to the action. What I mean by this is say something that insinuates what you want later. Something light and sexy. It could be something as simple as “you look especially beautiful today” first thing in the morning. Or in your case, “I know we’ve been fighting a lot lately, but I just want you to know you look especially beautiful to me today.”
This sets the mood for the rest of the day and even if it doesn’t work the first day, which it may not because of the situation created in the studio, then I would try it other days and maybe act on it the second or third day. The reason for this is because women need a slow and steady build up and they also need to feel beautiful in their skin in order to feel sexy. Negative emotions take a giant shit on all of that.
My last point of advice would be to prepare for rejection. Through trial and error you’ll see that this works and if it doesn’t work every time you can find peace in knowing that sometimes it isn’t you. Women are complicated sometimes and hormones and what happened at work sometimes come into play.
Set the ground work in advance so that you have something to act on when the time comes. Women can be creatures of spontaneity but only if they’re already in the mood. Men seem to be able to pop a boner at moments notice if you catch my drift and these hormones are built for an “act now” response.
I hope it works out well for you both and that you find that you can build her self esteem up as well because the more you do that the more she’ll be likely to feel sexy. Plus, who doesn’t want their gf/wife to feel good about themselves? Good luck!
You have the people who are constantly suspicious of ALL men based on one event, and then you have the “males rights activists” who love to whip out suicide stats or divorce courts or whatever ?
You have the people who are constantly suspicious of ALL men based on one event, and then you have the “males rights activists” who love to whip out suicide stats or divorce courts or whatever ?
Bro please. If this shit is real, then you need to go see a therapist about your deep seated self hatred and clear depression. Don't ever get into a relationship again until you grow a spine, there are horrible people out there like this bitch and they'll chew you up and spit you out without remorse or regret.
Keep your head up king. You can build a quality life and the family you deserve. She just showed you that she wasn’t deserving of that dream. Lean on your friends and keep moving forward
They all make excuses for him, they said, ” yeah we know he is bad, he talks shit, he has no filter, but poor guy he's had a hard life, he just got dumped, don't let what he says get to your heart!!!”
Honestly, he probably blocked you because you took 1 thing he posted and went in on him for it. So he’s like, easy fix, she can’t see it, she can’t complain to me. I don’t think you’re wrong to be upset about it, but going to him about it was kinda wrong. He’s not your boyfriend anymore. He doesn’t have to care about how you feel about anything. You said it was a mutual breakup, but was it really…?
And blocking your family and mutuals meant that if they can’t see it, they can’t tell you about it either. Also, how’d you know he blocked your family and mutuals? You literally went around to each person and asked them, didn’t you?
honestly her disregard for the other people involved here and in your other examples at the very least shows that she has some emotional maturing to do. it would be a red flag for me that would make me look deeper. is she willing and able to compromise or put others first or have the hard conversations about things that aren't going the way she would like them to go? does she manipulate and gaslight and belittle other people's perspectives, needs, or feelings in general?
Let me go find that post where OP was complaining about paying rent in her boyfriend's paid off house and all of the commenters were calling him “financially abusive” and “profiting off of her.”
One thing that’s a must is a positive attitude and I don’t mean in your post. You’re frustrated and I assume rightfully so. Personally what I like to do is preheat the oven early in the morning so that it’s ready by the evening. I’m not objectifying I’m merely applying a metaphor to the action. What I mean by this is say something that insinuates what you want later. Something light and sexy. It could be something as simple as “you look especially beautiful today” first thing in the morning. Or in your case, “I know we’ve been fighting a lot lately, but I just want you to know you look especially beautiful to me today.”
This sets the mood for the rest of the day and even if it doesn’t work the first day, which it may not because of the situation created in the studio, then I would try it other days and maybe act on it the second or third day. The reason for this is because women need a slow and steady build up and they also need to feel beautiful in their skin in order to feel sexy. Negative emotions take a giant shit on all of that.
My last point of advice would be to prepare for rejection. Through trial and error you’ll see that this works and if it doesn’t work every time you can find peace in knowing that sometimes it isn’t you. Women are complicated sometimes and hormones and what happened at work sometimes come into play.
Set the ground work in advance so that you have something to act on when the time comes. Women can be creatures of spontaneity but only if they’re already in the mood. Men seem to be able to pop a boner at moments notice if you catch my drift and these hormones are built for an “act now” response.
I hope it works out well for you both and that you find that you can build her self esteem up as well because the more you do that the more she’ll be likely to feel sexy. Plus, who doesn’t want their gf/wife to feel good about themselves? Good luck!
You maybe should spend some time alone to figure out what you want for yourself.
As for your Partner: break it Off – it's not worth living a lie and it won't benefit any of you. He'll be hurt but rather sooner than later.
Two types on reddit
You have the people who are constantly suspicious of ALL men based on one event, and then you have the “males rights activists” who love to whip out suicide stats or divorce courts or whatever ?
Two types on reddit
You have the people who are constantly suspicious of ALL men based on one event, and then you have the “males rights activists” who love to whip out suicide stats or divorce courts or whatever ?
Bro please. If this shit is real, then you need to go see a therapist about your deep seated self hatred and clear depression. Don't ever get into a relationship again until you grow a spine, there are horrible people out there like this bitch and they'll chew you up and spit you out without remorse or regret.
Keep your head up king. You can build a quality life and the family you deserve. She just showed you that she wasn’t deserving of that dream. Lean on your friends and keep moving forward
They all make excuses for him, they said, ” yeah we know he is bad, he talks shit, he has no filter, but poor guy he's had a hard life, he just got dumped, don't let what he says get to your heart!!!”
Honestly, he probably blocked you because you took 1 thing he posted and went in on him for it. So he’s like, easy fix, she can’t see it, she can’t complain to me. I don’t think you’re wrong to be upset about it, but going to him about it was kinda wrong. He’s not your boyfriend anymore. He doesn’t have to care about how you feel about anything. You said it was a mutual breakup, but was it really…?
And blocking your family and mutuals meant that if they can’t see it, they can’t tell you about it either. Also, how’d you know he blocked your family and mutuals? You literally went around to each person and asked them, didn’t you?
You said it was for space, so give him space.
honestly her disregard for the other people involved here and in your other examples at the very least shows that she has some emotional maturing to do. it would be a red flag for me that would make me look deeper. is she willing and able to compromise or put others first or have the hard conversations about things that aren't going the way she would like them to go? does she manipulate and gaslight and belittle other people's perspectives, needs, or feelings in general?
Let me go find that post where OP was complaining about paying rent in her boyfriend's paid off house and all of the commenters were calling him “financially abusive” and “profiting off of her.”