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No you owe your child first and foremost.
I’d absolutely get outta thier suspicion is enough
Biphobia is unfortunately very common
You are in an abusive relationship. If you had a friend going through this, what would you tell them to do? Violence is never ok. You’re child is an infant right now but that doesn’t mean his home environment can’t impact him. What outside support do you have? Friends/family? Do you participate in counseling on your own? First open your own email account, start documenting when fights happen etc. FWIW I worked child protection for seven years and if we were involved we’d be making a safety plan to ensure your kids safety. Is this the environment you want them to grow up in?
If you know you want to leave, you have a plan, and you still can't do it, then you probably need to build some emotional skills to help you do that. I would suggest that you talk to your current therapist or a new therapist about how you can built the EMOTIONAL SKILLS you need to make the changes you want in your life. Since you mentioned DBT, you could work on distress tolerance, decision making, and and some of the interpersonal relationship skills around what's fair for you. From what you've said about your background, those are probably very under-developed skills for you. They're all things that you can start small and practice to build up and get better at.
It also might help to reframe things a bit. You're not deciding between therapy and your current relationship. If your current therapist feels they can no longer provide you services, then they've done all they can professionally do for you at your current place in life. You don't have to end your relationship because your therapist can't help you any more, or because they say that it's abusive. It's your life, and you're free to live it the best way you can. If you think of it as ending a relationship to not “lose” your therapist, I suspect you'll end up with doubt and regret. You could find a different therapist, or you could wait until a time in the future when your situation is changed (since you seem to say that's what you ultimately want) to reconnect with your current therapist.
I know what it's like to feel “stuck” in a relationship. I had all the resources I needed in both finances and a support network, and it still took me years and years to get out. Even if you're physically capable, having the emotional skills are still critical. I wish you the best of luck.
That's a pretty blanket statement. There's a lot of different threesome possibilities. MMF, MFF, threesomes among friends, threesomes involving a couple, threesomes involving a stranger, is anyone bi in the threesome or is anyone going to be put in a situation where they feel like they are competing? The personalities of those involved?
I've had a few threesomes that went great and a few that ruined friendships and relationships, but each had it's own set of unique variables.
All the people in these comments saying you’re a burden are (1) wrong, (2) jerks, and (3) ignoring that your dad is an abusive jerk. Please try to move out for your own mental health.
“He needs to stop the bullshit”.
No he doesn’t.
Yeah but the insecure children here can’t even comprehend that.
Vet your sources. There are billions of chairs in the world with gas cylinders and this is a one time unconfirmed story. Focus your anxieties on real issues not ones made up.
This is really what it comes down to. I can understand that most people here are “spouse first”. That’s completely their right. But not every married couple has to feel the same way. Some people here seem to be taking it personally and almost seem upset at my decision…honestly, like they’re imagining themselves in my situation and feeling hurt at the thought of their partner saying that to them. Bit that’s not how I feel (the key word being me). I’ve realized that there’s no competition. He’s their “children”. I’m his wife. It makes sense that someone would love their “children” or who they’ve raised a little more. That’s literally all I’m saying. I don’t understand why that’s so shocking for some to at least see, even if they don’t agree or understand it themselves.
does he also need you to wipe his arse? Are you sure he's late twenties and not three toddlers in a trenchcoat?
You do understand that she is allowed to have any reason or none at all to not want kids, right? You make it sound like it’s a life requirement else you’re a failure if you don’t have kids.
That’s why I’m saying you need to decide if it’s a dealbreaker or not. You don’t coerce someone into having kids. Kids are not something you can compromise on. Especially when you’re a man and won’t be the one whose body and income and overall life will be impacted so significantly.
“Baby mama is crazy and won't let me see my kids. No, I haven't gone to family court for a custody agreement. They wouldn't listen anyway cause the courts favor the moms. No, I don't contact her about visitation. But she still won't let me see my kids! I'm paying $75 a month in child support and she uses it on herself!”
File for divorce.
She came back because of the vacation, do yourself a favor, dump her, and focus on yourself.