Dumped! You don’t want a guy like that. He probably has gross opinions on women in more than one area. Guarantee he’s the type that when you have an argument he will start insulting you calling you “old”.
I mean I've asked but my best mate was blackout so doesn't remember. There's no real way of knowing how long/what they did together without asking her myself… but considering that she didn't take him home I guess thats something right?
She probably had to make the most of every cent she had for the past 50 years and gets mad when she sees you failing to follow her lead. Ask her about her past in terms of home finance.
I agree with others saying you aren't safe in your home country. However, it also sounds like you may have gone from one concerning man/family structure to another. Your husband's reaction was over the top. It also took YOUR power to deal with the situation out of your hands. Instead of you handling it the way you wanted, your husband stepped in and inflicted violence on your family. OP, you get to decide how you want to live and how you want to be treated. You are dealing with a massive transition to a new culture, different world outlook, different relationship style etc. You might want to seek therapy to process the changes and make sure you are living the way you want. Whether you want to live your way, your family of birth's way, your husbands way, or some combination of the above, you get to decide that. I do think you need to keep yourself safe and not be in your home country alone but your husband also seems unsafe.
Thank you for the advice, I will consider it ❤️.
All I can say is constant reassurance.
Dumped! You don’t want a guy like that. He probably has gross opinions on women in more than one area. Guarantee he’s the type that when you have an argument he will start insulting you calling you “old”.
Sounds like a scene from euphoria
I mean I've asked but my best mate was blackout so doesn't remember. There's no real way of knowing how long/what they did together without asking her myself… but considering that she didn't take him home I guess thats something right?
It really breaks my heart that she thinks he’s a great man. He’s a great man who rapes her. That’s so sad.
She probably had to make the most of every cent she had for the past 50 years and gets mad when she sees you failing to follow her lead. Ask her about her past in terms of home finance.
I agree with others saying you aren't safe in your home country. However, it also sounds like you may have gone from one concerning man/family structure to another. Your husband's reaction was over the top. It also took YOUR power to deal with the situation out of your hands. Instead of you handling it the way you wanted, your husband stepped in and inflicted violence on your family. OP, you get to decide how you want to live and how you want to be treated. You are dealing with a massive transition to a new culture, different world outlook, different relationship style etc. You might want to seek therapy to process the changes and make sure you are living the way you want. Whether you want to live your way, your family of birth's way, your husbands way, or some combination of the above, you get to decide that. I do think you need to keep yourself safe and not be in your home country alone but your husband also seems unsafe.
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